What Makes You Happy? With Phil Oldershaw - Counsellor Convos

What really makes us happy? In this episode of Counsellor Convos, Sheila McMahon sits down with broadcaster, DJ, MC and Birmingham Pride founder Phil Oldershaw for a powerful conversation about identity, belonging, friendship and the importance of genuine human connection. Phil shares how Birmingham has always drawn him back throughout his life and career, despite his love of travelling, meeting people and experiencing different cultures. From his years as a BRMB presenter to life behind the mic as a DJ and MC, connection has always been at the heart of what he does. Together, Sheila and Phil explore why socialising matters more than ever in today's world of homeworking and digital communication. Phil speaks passionately about the need for people to get out, meet others, build confidence and develop meaningful relationships — not just personally, but professionally too. He also discusses why business owners should actively encourage social interaction and relationship-building within the workplace to support wellbeing, confidence and stronger teams. As founder of Birmingham Pride, Phil reflects on the importance of community, visibility and creating spaces where people feel accepted, connected and free to be themselves. Hosted by counsellor and mental health champion Sheila McMahon, this episode is an uplifting reminder that happiness is often found through connection, conversation and community.