What NOT to Say When Someone Is Grieving

Send us Fan MailIn this powerful and honest episode of Grief, I Didn’t Sign Up for This, host Shaleka Smith breaks down the well-meaning but often hurtful things people say to those who are grieving—and what you should say instead. From “Everything happens for a reason” to “Be strong,” we explore why these phrases can unintentionally deepen someone’s pain and how we can offer true comfort instead.With real-life stories, scripture, and a touch of humor, Shaleka guides listeners through the do’s and don’ts of grief support. Whether you're walking with someone through loss or healing from your own, this episode is a must-listen.Support the show