What would you do if you couldn’t use consequences to change your child’s behavior?

What would you do if you couldn't use consequences to change your child's behavior?   90% of our decisions are made subconsciously, like whether or not you have a strong reaction/are triggered by your child's behavior and how you respond to your child's behavior. That's staggering.    It's no wonder people often say they react just like their mom (dad, grandma, grandpa, caregiver, etc) did but yet can verbalize they don't want to be that way.    The difficulty with using consequences to try and change the way your child is behaving is that it can create MORE dysregulation with your child and MORE disconnection within you and your child's relationship.   Tune in today to hear more about consequences and my challenge for you!   Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3   If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at [email protected] and let's connect!   Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/   Calming strategy and spaces episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/chaos-to-connected-behavior-management-parent-coach/id1609008872?i=1000569255920   XO Kaili