When kids push our buttons and what we can do about it

Ever feel like your child knows exactly how to push your buttons? You’re not alone! In this episode, I’m joined by parenting expert and author Bonnie Harris, whose groundbreaking book When Kids Push Our Buttons and What We Can Do About It has transformed the way parents understand their emotional triggers.We dive deep into:✅ Why kids' behaviour triggers us—and how it’s often rooted in our own childhood experiences.✅ How to reframe our thoughts and reactions to build connection rather than conflict.✅ The key to handling meltdowns, big emotions, and power struggles without losing your cool.✅ Practical strategies for shifting from blame to understanding—and transforming family dynamics.This conversation is packed with insights that will help you respond to your child with more patience, empathy, and confidence.🎧 Listen now and start breaking free from the button-pushing cycle!🆓 Book a free discovery call with Camilla:https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call🔗 Connect with Bonnie: bonnieharris.com00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Special Guest00:09 Bonnie Harris' Background and Influence02:24 Understanding Emotional Triggers10:11 The Emotional Chain Reaction16:38 Reframing Assumptions and Apologies23:47 Problem Solving with Your Child34:05 The Integrity Child and Handling Tantrums38:45 Building Connection with Your Child42:59 Conclusion and Contact InformationWhen you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/