When Powerlessness Becomes a Habit and How to Break It

Have you ever felt powerless in a situation you care deeply about? When things feel out of control, it's easy to slip into the story that says, "There's nothing I can do." But what if helplessness isn't the whole story? In this episode, Tanner Smith, Chase Rashad Stancle, and Sarah Johnson wrap up their Relational Triangles series by exploring the Victim role — what it really is, what it isn't, and how to move from stuckness to agency. Through Scripture, humor, and real-life examples, they unpack how empathy and small choices can restore hope and courage in the midst of overwhelm. In this episode, you'll hear: How to tell the difference between feeling powerless and being powerless Why empathy is the first step toward reclaiming agency How to shift from victim to creator — finding a faithful way forward Show Notes Stephen Karpman's Drama Triangle: Victim, Villain, Hero roles 1 Kings 19 – Elijah's story of exhaustion and renewal Reflection guide: "15 Reflection Questions for Moving From Powerlessness to Agency" —  a free resource to help you or someone you lead move from helplessness to hopeful agency through gentle, faith-centered self-reflection and conversation. If you're interested in learning more about The Colossian Forum, visit our website colossianforum.org, and follow us on social media @colossianforum.