EPISODE · Nov 26, 2015 · 29 MIN
When Thanksgiving Is Not So Happy
from Mental Health Today Show | Anxiety Coping Skills & Mental Wellness · host John Cordray, LPC | Overthinking & Mental Wellness Expert
When Thanksgiving Is Not So HappyDo you find it hard to be happy on Thanksgiving? If so, you're not alone.Many people experience every emotion except happiness around Thanksgiving.Here are 8 reasons why Thanksgiving is not so happy for many:1. Divorce2. Loneliness3. Family Conflict4. Death of a loved one5. Family pain / secrets6. Break-up 7. Work8. AnxietyYou may have a different reason why Thanksgiving is not so happy. Whatever reason why your Thanksgiving is not so happy, I want to encourage you with a few tips that I hope will help you.Tip 1: Make a plan. Write down everything you need or want to do for Thanksgiving. Write down what you're going to say, what you'll do, etc. This will give you a sense of control.Tip 2: Smile on purpose. Research shows that when you smile the muscles in your face send "happy" signals to your brain. Tip 3: Laugh out loud. Similar to smiling on purpose, when you laugh out loud it will trigger the happy part of your brain. Watch a funny movie or TV show and make yourself laugh and smile. It may be just what you need to help you feel better.As always, thanks for listening!Your Chief Encouragement Officer,John Join my focus group!I am looking for a select group to join my focus group for Keep Calm Academy. I need you to help me to create Keep Calm Academy to be the best online resource available to help people keep calm from anxiety, stress, fear or anger.Lean more by visiting www.keepcalmacademy.com/focus ***Connect with JohnWebsite: www.johncordray.comSmells Like Humans Like listening to funny friends discuss curious human behavior.Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showRate the show: If you enjoyed this episode, please consider providing an honest rating of the show here www.mentalhealthtodayshow.com/reviews/new .Disclaimer: The Mental Health Today Show is for educational purposes only and should not be interpreted as therapy. If you are seeking therapy, please contact a licensed therapist for help.Ready for weekly tips to quiet overthinking and reclaim mental freedom? Subscribe to The Mental Freedom newsletter, actionable insights delivered for high achievers and overthinkers. Sign up here: https://johncordray.me/subscribe From John Cordray, LPC – Creator of MyndStill app @JohnCordrayLPC on X/LinkedIn Informational support only—not a substitute for professional therapy.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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When Thanksgiving Is Not So HappyDo you find it hard to be happy on Thanksgiving? If so, you're not alone.Many people experience every emotion except happiness around Thanksgiving.Here are 8 reasons why Thanksgiving is not so happy for many:1. Divorce2. Loneliness3. Family Conflict4. Death of a loved one5. Family pain / secrets6. Break-up 7. Work8. AnxietyYou may have a different reason why Thanksgiving is not so happy. Whatever reason why your Thanksgiving is not so happy, I want to encourage you with a few tips that I hope will help you.Tip 1: Make a plan. Write down everything you need or want to do for Thanksgiving. Write down what you're going to say, what you'll do, etc. This will give you a sense of control.Tip 2: Smile on purpose. Research shows that when you smile the muscles in your face send "happy" signals to your brain. Tip 3: Laugh out loud. Similar to smiling on purpose, when you laugh out loud it will trigger the happy part of your brain. Watch a funny movie or TV show and make yourself laugh and smile. It may be just what you need to help you feel better.As always, thanks for listening!Your Chief Encouragement Officer,John Join my focus group!I am looking for a select group to join my focus group for Keep Calm Academy. I need you to help me to create Keep Calm Academy to be the best online resource available to help people keep calm from anxiety, stress, fear or anger.Lean more by visiting www.keepcalmacademy.com/focus ***Connect with JohnWebsite: www.johncordray.comSmells Like HumansLike listening to funny friends discuss curious human behavior.Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showRate the show: If you enjoyed this episode, please consider providing an honest rating of the show here www.mentalhealthtodayshow.com/reviews/new . Disclaimer: The Mental Health Today Show is for educational purposes only and should not be interpreted as therapy. If you are seeking therapy, please contact a licensed therapist for help. Ready for weekly tips to quiet overthinking and reclaim mental freedom? Subscribe to The Mental Freedom newsletter, actionable insights delivered for high achievers and overthinkers. Sign up here: https://johncordray.me/subscribe From John Cordray, LPC – Creator of MyndStill app @JohnCordrayLPC on X/LinkedIn Informational support only—not a substitute for professional therapy. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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