When to File for Divorce: Timing, Strategy & Impact

What this episode covers

This week on The Hastings Shadmehry Show, Andee and Mali take a deep dive into an often intricate topic -- WHEN to file for Divorce. They talk about the Timing of Filing and how it impacts and is impacted by things like Finances, Custodial Rights, temporary Living Arrangements. They even get into the strategies behind FilingJoin the conversation for another impactful, fact-filled and of course fun discussion!#hastingsshadmehryshow #podcast #familylaw #familylawfirm #familylawattorney #divorce #legaladvice #divorcelawyer #childcustody #divorcelaw #talkshow #andeedyerhastings #malishadmehry #filingfordivorce #fafo Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryon TikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehry Contact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/00:25 Greeting01:09 Warrior or Diplomat?06:15 Intro to Filing for Divorce07:18 Top questions asked when Filing for Divorce08:15 Filing for Divorce affecting Custody08:53 Living Arrangements after Filing09:35 Being the Plaintiff should not affect Custody11:40 Fears of how things will change after Filing14:30 Will it look bad if you file at a bad time?16:16 Should you talk to the kids before Filing?18:23 Do you need evidence before Filing?21:30 Don’t bombard your attorney with evidence23:00 Should evidence of Adultery be gathered?30:07 Financial preparations before Filing 32:25 Strategy of Filing 32:46 Explanation of a Standing Order35:40 Ultimately, the Timeline is the Client’s 36:15 The emotional side of Filing39:56 Wrap-up

Share this episode

Similar Episodes

What Hinders Your Prayers According To The Bible?

Dec 18, 2025 ·14m

Promotion | Oracular Wisdom | David Mark Quigley

Oct 28, 2025 ·5m

Obstruction | Patience, Timing, & Quiet Strength | Oracular Wisdom | David Mark Quigley

Oct 21, 2025 ·5m

The Ease of Dispersing | Clearing Stagnation, Uniting Strength | Oracular Wisdom | David Mark Quigley

Oct 14, 2025 ·5m

Great Strength | Harnessed Power, Breakthrough, & Righteous Action | Oracular Wisdom | David Mark Quigley

Oct 7, 2025 ·5m

The Receptive | Yielding Power, Wise Alignment, & Quiet Mastery | Oracular Wisdom | David Mark Quigley

Sep 30, 2025 ·5m

Similar Podcasts

Chewing the Fat with WorkForge WorkForge Bite-Sized Conversations for Building a Stronger Workforce Welcome to Chewing the Fat, a podcast delving deep into the world of food manufacturing. Dive into real conversations around critical topics like staffing, retention, onboarding, and career development in this essential industry. Subscribe now to gain insights from your peers, subject matter experts and more on the biggest issues facing food manufacturers today: -Hiring and retaining employees -Addressing the challenges of the Silver Tsunami -Improving time to productivity of new employees -Engaging employees from hire to retire And more... Tune in to Chewing the Fat, a WorkForge podcast, and join the conversation on how to build and sustain a resilient, high-performing workforce in food manufacturing. Pain and Sleep Center podcast Dr. Ryan P. Robinson Join Dr. Ryan P. Robinson and his team weekly as they charge forward in their teams mission of a healthier, well rested and energized nation! The Ten Commandments Chad Boersema Many focus on MAKING disciples, we hope to help in the process of BEING a disciple of Jesus. Understanding the ten commandments can be a good place to reflect on, as they were one of Israel's first introductions to learning how to relate to God and live in His way. Jesus also references the commandments in his sermon on the mount saying, “...whoever does them [the commandments] will be called great in the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 5:19) Looking forward to exploring these with you! Thanks for listening!web - jesusdisciple.info facebook - facebook.com/jesusdisciple.info twitter - twitter.com/fellow_disciple instagram - instagram.com/jesusdisciple.info Oracular Wisdom David Mark Quigley Join David Mark Quigley each week on the ”Weekly Oracular Wisdom” podcast, where he delves into the I Ching to uncover the energetic currents that shape our lives. Every episode, David provides a unique reading of the I Ching that captures the essence of the week’s energy, offering listeners insightful guidance on how to best navigate the challenges and opportunities that may arise.Each session is designed not just to forecast the week ahead but to empower listeners with ancient wisdom that is remarkably applicable to modern life. Whether you’re facing personal decisions, professional crossroads, or simply seeking a deeper understanding of the dynamics at play in the world around you, this podcast is your go-to resource for enhancing your awareness and aligning your actions with the greater flow of life.Tune in to gain practical advice and transformative insights that will help you turn the tides in your favor, leveraging the timeless wisdom of the I Ching to lead a more harmonious a

Frequently Asked Questions

How long is this episode of Forward Facing?

This episode is 39 minutes long.

When was this Forward Facing episode published?

This episode was published on February 4, 2025.

What is this episode about?

This week on The Hastings Shadmehry Show, Andee and Mali take a deep dive into an often intricate topic -- WHEN to file for Divorce. They talk about the Timing of Filing and how it impacts and is impacted by things like Finances, Custodial Rights,...

Can I download this Forward Facing episode?

Yes, you can download this episode by clicking the download button on the episode player, or subscribe to the podcast in your preferred podcast app for automatic downloads.