Forward Facing

In this episode, Andee and Mali welcome veteran family law attorney John Rife to the show to tell them his views on mentoring, giving back to commnity and how he manages his clients' expectations.John shares Andee's and Mali's view that prepping the client at the start of the case for what might happen at the end is essential for a client's overall satisfaction with the case, and their ability to move forward with confidence.Join the conversation as these family law experts talk about career, motivation, and client care.Contact John Rife:www.rifelawfirm.com www.linkedin.com/in/john-rife-b18862b3www.cummingcigars.com00:55 Introduction02:12 The Incident That Led John to Law04:46 Early Career & Finding His Way to Family Law08:01 Lessons From Juvenile Court09:38 Managing Expectations in Divorce11:29 Divorce, Grief & Moving Forward18:01 Guardian ad Litem Explained19:25 Rebuilding Families in Juvenile Court25:16 The Forward Facing Mindset30:01 Why Mediation Matters33:04 Chess, Not Checkers36:30 Forward Facing Check In41:15 Wrap-UpEvolve with us!Visit our website: https://forwardfacing.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/forwardfacingpodcastInstagram: @forwardfacingpodcastTikTok: @HastingsShadmehryemail us at [email protected] us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/

The second episode of the two-part conversation with Blaire Herford, Andee and Mali covers the topics of fitness, entrepreneurship, marriage, and building a business.Blaire shares the motivations behind her fitness journey, her foray into competitive bodybuilding, and how discipline, self-care, and personal growth have shaped both her personal and professional life. She also opens up about how she and her husband balance running a household and a business together through communication, partnership, and shared goals.She even coaches Andee and Mali in real time!Join the conversation as Blaire discusses fitness, leadership, marriage, and entrepreneurship.Rise Athletic Performance: https://www.instagram.com/riseathleticperformance/#Blaire Herford at Rise: https://www.instagram.com/blaireherford.fit_rise/#RISE: https://riseathleticperformance.com01:06 Successful Co-Parenting02:41 Blaire’s Education & Career Path06:34 Discovering Bodybuilding09:02 Building Rise Athletic Performance12:57 Balancing Business, Marriage & Motherhood17:29 Perfectionism & Childhood Trauma20:22 Empowering Women Through Health24:12 The “Bubs” Story25:55 Life Outside Fitness28:28 How Have You Evolved Recently?36:10 Wrap-upEvolve with us!Visit our website: https://forwardfacing.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/forwardfacingpodcastInstagram: @forwardfacingpodcastTikTok: @HastingsShadmehryemail us at [email protected] us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/

In this first episode of a two-part conversation, Andee and Mali sit down with Blaire Herford to discuss her journey through motherhood, fitness, and personal growth.Blaire is a wife, a mother, an entrepreneur, and a competitive bodybuilder and fitness coach who opens up about her upbringing, becoming a mother while still in college, navigating divorce at a young age, co-parenting, raising children, and reinventing herself through trust, communication, and resilience.Join the conversation as Blaire shares the experiences and life lessons that shaped her path to success.Blaire Herford at Rise: https://www.instagram.com/blaireherford.fit_rise/#RISE Athletic Performance: https://www.instagram.com/riseathleticperformance/#RISE: https://riseathleticperformance.com00:55 Intro03:14 Blaire's Formative Experiences05:34 Breaking Generational Patterns08:00 Becoming a Mom at 1912:05 Refusing to Become a Statistic13:25 Getting divorced at 2117:05 Co-Parenting and Coping21:04 Marriage, Growth & Hard Conversations24:09 Learning Healthy Conflict Resolution27:06 Why Words Matter in Relationships29:18 Blended Families39:02 Mutual Respect and CommunicationEvolve with us!Visit our NEW website: https://forwardfacing.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/forwardfacingpodcastInstagram: forwardfacingpodcastTikTok: @HastingsShadmehryemail us at [email protected] us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/

In this episode Andee and Mali pull back the curtain a bit and talk about the Three Uniques for Hastings Shadmehry Family Law..The Three Uniques were intentionally built into the culture of the firm and they influence the creation of this podcastWhen they set out to create their firm the partners and their team mapped out the three ideals they wanted to build into the firm that would set it apart from others.These Three Uniques guide every person our the firm -- how they treat clients and how they interact with each other.Join the conversation as the ladies discuss a foundational aspect of their successful partnership.00:55 Intro and Weekly Check-in5:59 The Concept of 3 Uniques09:46 Concierge Care Explained11:12 The “Spa” of Family Law12:32 Tailored, High-Touch Service14:37 Chess, not Checkers Explained16:24 Preparation as a Competitive Edge19:23 Client's concerns21:48 Humble Confidence Explained23:24 Preparation Behind the Confidence27:52 Humble Confidence in Team Culture31:39 The Firm’s Core Values33:02 How Have You Evolved Recently?37:30 Wrap-upEvolve with us!Visit our NEW website: https://forwardfacing.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/forwardfacingpodcastInstagram: forwardfacingpodcastTikTok: @HastingsShadmehryemail us at [email protected] us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/

In this episode, Andee and Mali introduce you to Hastings Shadmehry senior associate Cathy Cooper. Cathy is a highly effective and skilled family law attorney.Join the conversation and find out about Cathy's valuable legal experience, her entrepreneurship in the health and beauty space, and her commitment to growth and positivity. It’s all about staying grounded and continuing to build a life that feels both meaningful and fulfilling.Find Cathy on social media!https://www.instagram.com/biohackinglawyer/01:00 Introduction03:15 Cathy Cooper's Early Life & Background06:26 Finding Her Path in Law10:33 Life after Law School17:11 Understanding Clients Deeply23:51 Being a part of The Hastings Shadmehry Wolf Pack29:56 Cathy's Message About Growth32:32 Weekly Check-in32:35: Mali's Check-in32:39: Andee's Check-in37:19 Cathy on Acceptance38:15 Wrap-upEvolve with us!Visit our NEW website: https://forwardfacing.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/forwardfacingpodcastInstagram: @forwardfacingpodcastTikTok: @HastingsShadmehryemail us at [email protected] us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/

In this episode, Andee and Mali sit down with our own Lily Lutton to learn more about her background, what inspired her legal career, and the philosophy that guides her work with clients.Lily shares her journey in family law, her approach to handling sensitive cases like divorce and child custody, and how she supports clients through some of life’s most challenging transitions, always with empathy, clear communication, and strong advocacy.Join the conversation and meet this fantastic addition to the wolf pack. Follow Lily on social media!https://www.instagram.com/lawbylutton/https://www.tiktok.com/@lilyluttonhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/lily-bristow-lutton-19290a10a/01:00 Introduction02:33 Meet Lily Lutton03:40 Law School and Shift In Goals04:48 Handling Clients and Honesty08:36 Childhood and Early Independence11:35 Marriage and Motherhood12:46 Balancing Career and Motherhood14:55 Why Family Law16:20 Personal Experience with Divorce18:33 Independence and Life Perspective19:46 Finding Her Path in Family Law21:30 Joining the Firm and Growth25:46 Advice: Stop Caring What People Think28:52 How Have You Evolved Recently?29:16 Andee on Gratitude and Team30:33 Mali on Discipline and Habits33:02 Lily on Slowing Down35:54 Wrap-UpEvolve with us!Visit our NEW website: https://forwardfacing.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/forwardfacingpodcastInstagram: @forwardfacingpodcastTikTok: @HastingsShadmehryemail us at [email protected] us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/

What happens when artificial intelligence starts reshaping one of the most tradition-bound professions?In this episode, Andee and Mali are joined by AI afficianado Kendall Carter to explore how artificial intelligence is starting to reshape the legal industry. They dive into the growing role of AI in law, unpacking why so many attorneys are adopting new tools and what that means for the future of the profession.They look at both sides of the story, from the benefits of AI -- like increased efficiency and productivity -- to the potential downsides, including accuracy concerns and ethical challenges. Kendall shares insight into where things can go wrong and why human judgment still plays a critical role.Join the conversation for a thoughtful, accessible look at the opportunities and risks of artificial intelligence.Kendall Carter can be found at: https://aspire.law/our-team/kendall-carter/ and at LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kendallwcarter/00:59 Introducing Kendall Carter03:36 Kendall's Law School & Career Highlights06:27 How Kendall Got Into AI08:08 AI in Legal Practice10:44 Best Uses of AI in Law14:02 AI & Value To Clients16:32 AI Pitfalls & Fake Cases19:03 Potential Consequences of Misuse21:39 Client Trust & Reputation25:34 A Good Way For Clients To Use AI33:58 How Have you Evolved Recently?40:42 Closing & OutroEvolve with us!Visit our NEW website: https://forwardfacing.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/forwardfacingpodcastInstagram: @forwardfacingpodcastTikTok: @HastingsShadmehryemail us at [email protected] us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/

In this episode Andee and Mali introduce you to Jason Flatt. Jason started his own Pitbull rescue and he is in GREAT demand as a tracker of lost pets.Jason came to the Hastings Shadmehry wolfpack at a moment of GREAT distress.His story is all about strength, resilience, and self-knowledge.Join the conversation with the one-of-a-kind Jason Flatt!Here's all of Jason's contacts:https://www.friendstotheforlorn.orghttps://www.facebook.com/FriendsToTheForlornPitbullRescuehttps://www.instagram.com/fttfpitbull/00:50 Introducing Jason Flatt01:31 Why Jason Matters to the Wolfpack03:04 Growing Up with Calvin the Pit Bull04:58 Understanding Dogs06:23 The Emotional Toll of Rescue Work08:13 How Dog Traps Work09:34 Rescue Story: The Bear Cub14:12 Jason's Early Career18:20 Moving from New York to Georgia21:23 Depression and Hitting Rock Bottom24:38 Angelo: The Dog That Changed Everything26:06 First Steps into Pit Bull Rescue29:04 Apollo: The First True Rescue Success30:29 From Rescue to Missing Dog Recovery32:48 The Cow That Helped Find a Dog34:34 The Story of Stella’s Rescue39:30 Lessons Learned from Dog Rescue49:44 Where to find Jason and help his Organization50:40 Wrap-upEvolve with us! Visit our NEW website: https://forwardfacing.com Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/forwardfacingpodcastInstagram: @forwardfacingpodcastTikTok: @HastingsShadmehryemail us at [email protected] Contact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/

The Hastings Shadmehry Show is now called Forward Facing! But it's not just a name change -- it's an evolution! There is a change in attitude, a change in format, and positive change for the future of our podcast!In this introductory episode, Andee and Mali tell you why they decided to change the show and explain what it means to be Forward Facing!Join the conversation and evolve with us!00:44 Introduction and Podcast Evolution02:19 Life Updates – Work, Fitness and a New Dog06:14 Why We Rebranded to Forward Facing08:36 The Forward Facing Philosophy11:14 What to Expect from the Podcast12:29 Our Partnership and Dynamic13:21 Core Values Overview15:42 Unequivocal Excellence16:54 Humble Confidence17:45 Sees the Whole18:27 Vulnerable Trust20:19 Inside the Wolfpack21:17 How Have You Evolved This Week?23:57 Wrap-UpVisit our NEW website: https://forwardfacing.com Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/forwardfacingpodcastInstagram: forwardfacingpodcastTikTok: @HastingsShadmehryemail us at [email protected] us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/

For the final episode of The Hastings Shadmehry Show, Andee and Mali give you a taste of what you'll find from our new podcast, Forward Facing.The ladies talk about self-care and how to strengthen your mind, body, and spirit, and find balance between these aspects of self and the demands of work, family, and society.Join the conversation for a revealing and enlightening look into the personal lives and habits of these dynamic professional women.00:23 Welcome01:45 Warrior or Diplomat?05:47 The importance of Wellness07:25 Therapeutic regimen15:14 Exercise, discipline, and self-awareness16:11 Andee's Wellness regimen24:59 Fitness and getting started29:10 How Wellness impacts leadership31:54 Outlining possible Wellness routines37:28 Wrap-upVisit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryTikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehryemail us at [email protected] us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/

One more encore, as we get through some tough scheduling issues! In this episode, Andee welcomes special guest Kim Beatty to our new podcast studio! Kim is an EXPERT on Juvenile Family Law, working closely with Child Protective Services, the Foster Care network, families and children in need of assistance.Join the conversation as Kim talks with Andee about the fine points of this complicated but rewarding area of Family Law.Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryon TikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehry email us at [email protected] us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/00:25 - Intros01:22 - Warrior or Diplomat?04:49 - Juvenile Court Overview05:31 - Dependency Cases Explained07:22 - Role of DFACS08:09 - Factors for Dependency Cases10:07 - Child Testimony in Dependency Cases12:30 - Roles in Juvenile Court16:01 - Time Frames in Dependency Cases19:12 - Placement of Children22:32 - Overlap Between CHINS and Dependency Cases28:26 - Impact of Case Facts on Placement31:11 - Resources for Families35:48 - Contact Information for Kim Beatty37:49 - Closing

It's another ENCORE episode this week as we wrap up the holidays and prepare for BIG things in 2026. The good news is Andee is in the driver's seat with a guest.Jill Heineck is a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert. Her job is to act as a real estate expert who helps couples valuate and sell their real estate holdings. Jill is a valued member of the Family Law courts, and a fascinating individual.Join the conversation as Andee discovers the fine points of this relatively new area of Family Law!Follow Jill on Instagram: @JillHeinekHomesLearn more at: https://www.heineckandcompany.comVisit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryInstagram: @HastingsShadmehry email us: [email protected] us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/00:25 Intro / Meet Guest Jill Heineck01:55 What is a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert (CDRE)?03:46 How Divorce Real Estate Expertise Began06:18 CDRE Training & Certification Process10:32 How CDREs Get Involved in Divorce Cases12:15 Real Estate Side Agreements Explained18:42 Why Divorce Real Estate is a Long Game21:32 Staying Neutral in Divorce Property Sales24:20 Ethics & Confidentiality in Divorce Property Listings32:04 Property Valuations vs. Property Listings33:32 Are Online Home Values Reliable?35:55 Benefits of Hiring a CDRE in Divorce38:14 How to Contact Jill Heineck38:55 Wrap-up

This episode is an ENCORE of Dr Kyrstin Lokkesmoe's return to her discussion with Andee on Toxic Narcissists. This time around, the ladies discuss how the Toxic Narcissist acts in Divorce proceedings. How do they appear to the judge or to a mediator? How do they treat the attorneys on the other side? Dr Kyrstin provides the clues to look for and gives advice on how to deal with it, and Andee has several observations of her own.It's another fun, warm, and informative conversation as these two talented women break down a complicated and destructive personality disorder.Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryTikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehryEmail us at: [email protected] us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/00:21 Intro00:51 Warrior or Diplomat02:40 Manipulation is a hallmark of the Narcissist05:10 What is "Projection"?06:15 The Narcissist creates a false narrative08:00 Stay in communication with your team10:00 Have a plan for dealing with the Narcissist12:30 Rely on your team14:40 The importance of documentation to combat lies16:50 The importance of Therapeutic Support18:20 Anticipating the behavior22:40 Is there a point where the Narcissist will be exposed?25:00 Give them what they want or Fight?27:50 Narcissists will sometimes use the court system30:15 Dr. Kyrstin's new Coaching endeavor31:40 Wrap-up

We're running another ENCORE this time, and it's Mali flying solo to answer the question "Why should you tell your lawyer the truth?"Mali lays out an ironclad case for absolute honesty when it comes to explaining your case to your lawyer. She's seen first hand how disastrously a case can go when a lawyer doesn't know the whole truth about their client's situation.So, join the conversation as Mali makes it perfectly clear that when it comes to the lawyer-client relationship, honesty is the best policy.Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryInstagram: @HastingsShadmehry email us: [email protected] us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/00:25 Intro00:56 Warrior or Diplomat?03:30 A scenario with your lawyer caught off-guard05:30 How this situation07:10 Mali has experienced this07:40 You MUST tell your lawyer everything08:20 Explanation of privileged information10:00 Embarrassing information is not new to a lawyer11:30 Failure to disclose information lengthens cases12:30 A longer case is a more expensive case14:00 A good lawyer can work around these weaknesses15:00 Settlement is often going to be your best outcome16:20 Trust has to be maintained17:50 A lawyer has seen it all and doesn’t judge18:00 Honesty is cheaper overall18:30 Wrap-up

Mali and Andee are back together in the studio for this in-depth talk on the importance of having a well-crafted Parenting Time agreement. They cover several different scenarios and many of the pitfalls inherent in working out Parenting Time for holidays throughout the year. They offer their advice about the best ways to approach the trickiest situations and their insights as to how judges approach certain issues. email us at: [email protected] our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryTikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehry Contact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/00:24 Intro01:10 Warrior or Diplomat?04:10 Holidays and Parenting Plans04:40 Holidays as defined in school calendars05:30 Regular Parenting Time vs. Holiday Parenting Time07:00 Work with a Family Law attorney09:00 When one Holiday supersedes another Holiday10:18 How will a judge settle Holiday schedules without an agreement?11:30 Christmas Holidays16:50 Long Weekend Holidays18:50 Mother’s/Father’s Day and Spring/Fall Break19:50 Birthdays22:30 Separating emotions from the process24:00 Accommodating family traditions25:00 Graduated Parenting Time28:00 A Good agreement prevents needless litigation later29:00 Matching Parenting Plan with a new partner’s Parenting Plan31:00 Is it worth filing for a modification after a re-marriage?32:20 Summer Parenting Time33:55 Take-aways35:50 Wrap-up

In this episode, Andee and Mali introduce you to their make-up artist, Tiffany Nicole. Tiffany came to us a few months ago when the partners were featured in Atlanta Style and Design magazine, and she's been back several times since then.Tiffany has her own story of perseverance and growth and she has experience helping people look and feel their best, including some who are adjusting to a new life after divorce.Join the conversation and meet honorary Wolf Pack member and make-up artist to our stars, Tiffany Nicole! You can book Tiffany's services as a make-up artist at:Vizsabull.square.siteTiffany is on social media at:IG: MUATiffanynicoleTikTok: wickedgracetiffTiffany's new dog fragrance venture will be available at:Website: www.Maison-de-paw.comIG and TIKTOK: maisondepawofficialVisit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryon TikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehry email us at [email protected] us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com00:26 Intro00:46 Tiffany's Role as our make-up artist02:01 Andee and Mali in another magazine02:55 Warrior or Diplomat08:38 Tiffany's early career & Move to GA09:52 Retail Management Career12:06 Tiffany's business as a make-up artist15:30 Client Types & Approach21:19 Makeovers and the power of reinvention26:28 Announcing Maison de Paw32:23 Product Details & Launch Plan35:25 Empowerment Message39:46 Wrap-up

There's some extra energy in this episode because Andee and Mali are together in the studio for the first time in quite a while. The topic is the Marital Balance Sheet -- how it works, how it's used, why it is important to do one, do it early, and keep it updated.But of course, they cover some other areas, like their recent trials and hearings, Mali's body building fitness journey, how to be a cheer leader for your best friends, and normalizing how women discuss their health and their weight.Join the conversation, but buckle in -- this is a fun one.00:31 Intro & Firm Updates01:14 Warrior or Diplomat?02:18 Recent Trial Experience04:03 Trial Prep Intensity09:59 Topic Intro: Marital Balance Sheets10:11 Definition & Purpose11:54 Cash & Bank Accounts13:48 Retirement Accounts14:47 Real Property & Mortgages15:26 Personal Property & Businesses16:33 Balance Sheets at Trial18:17 Debts & Netting20:47 Separate Property Explained22:59 Proposed Division & Strategy25:36 Complex Cases & Forensic Accounting26:37 Client Cooperation & Documents28:27 Wrap upVisit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryInstagram: @HastingsShadmehry email us: [email protected] us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/

We have returned from hiatus, and yet Mali is back in court. The great news is that Andee is in the driver's seat and she has a guest!Jill Heineck is a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert. Her job is to act as a real estate expert who helps couples valuate and sell their real estate holdings. Jill is a valued member of the Family Law courts, and a fascinating individual.Join the conversation as Andee discovers the fine points of this relatively new area of Family Law!Follow Jill on Instagram: @JillHeinekHomesLearn more at: https://www.heineckandcompany.comVisit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryInstagram: @HastingsShadmehryemail us: [email protected] us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/00:25 Intro / Meet Guest Jill Heineck01:55 What is a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert (CDRE)?03:46 How Divorce Real Estate Expertise Began06:18 CDRE Training & Certification Process10:32 How CDREs Get Involved in Divorce Cases12:15 Real Estate Side Agreements Explained18:42 Why Divorce Real Estate is a Long Game21:32 Staying Neutral in Divorce Property Sales24:20 Ethics & Confidentiality in Divorce Property Listings32:04 Property Valuations vs. Property Listings33:32 Are Online Home Values Reliable?35:55 Benefits of Hiring a CDRE in Divorce38:14 How to Contact Jill Heineck38:55 Wrap-up

Our hiatus continues for one more episode. In this information-packed discussion, Andee and Mali discuss some of the professional Experts that can be recruited to help with a Divorce case.These Experts help Family lawyers gather evidence, submit reports, interpret reports from the opposing party, and can testify to their findings in Court.Experts are an integral and often-utilized part of the Divorce process and the partners do a great job explaining who they are and what they can help with.Join us for a delightful and informative discussion!00:38 Intro01:05 Warrior or Diplomat?02:01 Mali’s Speeding Ticket Story04:06 What is an "Expert"?04:48 Financial Experts05:20 Forensic Accountants06:51 Finding Hidden Assets09:32 Why Experts Must Testify10:12 Choosing Qualified Experts13:04 Business Valuations15:16 A CPA vs a Forensic Accountants17:27 Custody Experts17:54 Guardian ad Litem20:27 Psychological Evaluation22:48 Custody Evaluation23:54 Parental Alienation25:11 Psychosexual Evaluations27:07 Real Estate Experts30:24 Appraising Property & Valuables31:22 Medical & Vocational Experts34:21 Technology & Digital Forensics35:34 Role of Private Investigators37:11 Wrap-upOur email: [email protected] our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryon TikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehry Contact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/#hastingsshadmehryshow #podcast #familylaw #familylawfirm #familylawattorney #divorce #legaladvice #divorcelawyer #childcustody #divorcelaw #highassetdivorce #talkshow #andeedyerhastings #malishadmehry #filingfordivorce #fafo

As our hiatus continues, we once again bring you the second part of our Meet the Partners event, as Kendall Walker sits down with Mali Shadmehry.Mali will tell us all about herself -- her upbringing, her education, her competitive pursuits, and her meteoric rise to becoming a young entrpreneur and partner in her own firm.It's always a fun conversation when Mali and Kendall get together, so be prepared to laugh and maybe cry, as Mali walks us through her remarkable journey.Join us for a delightful and revealing discussion!00:00 - Intro01:12 - Warrior or Diplomat?03:03 - Mali's Early Life04:46 - Parental Influence06:30 - High School Years07:15 - College Experience08:31 - Decision for Law10:00 - Law School Journey12:01 - First Job14:10 - Family Law Focus16:02 - Becoming a Partner19:25 - Trial Experiences27:00 - Passion for Trials28:04 - Bar Association Role30:00 - Personal Interests35:00 - Fitness Goals37:30 - Societal Impact of Family Law40:32 - Wrap-UpOur email: [email protected] our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryon TikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehryContact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/#hastingsshadmehryshow #podcast #familylaw #familylawfirm #familylawattorney #divorce #legaladvice #divorcelawyer #childcustody #divorcelaw #highassetdivorce #talkshow #andeedyerhastings #malishadmehry #filingfordivorce #fafo

The Hastings Shadmehry Show is on a bit of a hiatus, so for this episode we are revisiting our interview with one of the partners of Hastings Shadmehry, Andee Hastings. Our former producer Kendall Walker sat down with Andee for a look at Andee’s life and career.Andee told us all about herself – where she comes from, what she studied in school, and where she went to Law School. Then Andee talked about her unique career, her many mentors, and the road she took to become one of the premiere family lawyers in her state.Join the confersation for a delightful and revealing discussion!Our email: [email protected] our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryon TikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehry Contact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/#hastingsshadmehryshow #podcast #familylaw #familylawfirm #familylawattorney #divorce #legaladvice #divorcelawyer #childcustody #divorcelaw #talkshow #andeedyerhastings #malishadmehry #filingfordivorce #fafo 00:30 Introduction01:40 Warrior or Diplomat?02:50 Andee’s birthplace and formative years04:23 Andee did PhD work in High School?05:50 Undergrad work06:26 Law School and early work in the Law07:10 Andee’s original post-school goals08:15 Work as a Domestic Violence Prosecutor09:10 Andee’s first Mentor as a Prosecutor10:50 When Did Andee start practicing?11:05 Young Andee makes Case Law16:08 Andee’s work in Civil Litigation17:27 Andee moves into Family Law18:05 Andee’s Family Law Mentor20:05 Andee’s work as a Guardian Ad Litem22:08 Andee’s work in Animal Rescue24:00 Andee’s personal pack25:10 Andee speaks several languages27:00 Wrap-up

Adultery! We got your attention, didn't we?Mali flies solo once again this week. Well, not quite solo -- she's joined by the newest member of her personal pack, Nyxie! Mali and Nyxie talk about how Adultery can affect a divorce case. Does it affect alimony? Or child support? Will a party be punished for stepping outside the marriage?Join the conversation and get the answers to all of these questions, and more!Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryInstagram: @HastingsShadmehry email us: [email protected] us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/00:29 Intros02:03 Warrior or Diplomat03:10 Overview of Adultery's Impact on Divorce Cases06:03 Private Investigators in Divorce Cases07:34 Legal Definition of Adultery08:56 Adultery and Alimony in Georgia10:03 Grounds for Divorce11:20 Importance of Filing Grounds Early12:01 Adultery's Effect on Equitable Division13:40 Judges' Perspectives on Adultery15:10 Alimony and Adultery Explained17:39 Dissipation of Marital Assets19:12 Custody Considerations Related to Adultery20:47 Importance of Full Disclosure to Your Lawyer21:45 Case Example: Impact of Adultery22:39 Wrap-Up

In this episode of The Hastings Shadmehry Show Andee and Mali introduce their newest Senior Attorney Elizabeth Findley.Elizabeth is a smart, dedicated, and experienced Family Lawyer who has quickly become an integral part of the Hastings Shadmehry Wolf Pack.Join the conversation as the partners learn about Elizabeth's background and her drive to be a top notch Family Law stalwart.Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryInstagram: @HastingsShadmehry email us: [email protected] us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/00:25 Intro01:05 Warrior or Diplomat?04:43 Elizabeth’s background and life as a twin06:50 The first time she and her twin were separated08:10 Deciding to go to law school09:28 Elizabeth’s first job in Juvenile Court11:30 The demands of Juvenile Law12:30 Their strongest classes in Law School14:30 A shared love for being in the courtroom15:00 Elizabeth fells like she is a Protector16:00 Elizabeth’s experience going through divorce17:00 The move toward Family Law18:20 Building a relationship with her clients20:10 The value of a great legal team20:50 An entertainingly difficult case22:00 A common mistake people make in Divorce23:30 A divorce should represent a step forward24:30 Elizabeth’s experience in a blended family28:20 Elizabeth’s favorite thing about being a Family Lawyer29:30 Elizabeth is a dog mom!31:40 How does Family Law affect society?32:30 Elizabeth’s experience at Hastings Shadmehry34:00 Wrap-up

Mali flies solo this week as she answers the question "Why should you tell your lawyer the truth?"Mali lays out an ironclad case for absolute truthfulness when it comes to explaining your case to your lawyer. She's seen first hand how disastrously a case can go when a lawyer doesn't know the whole truth about their client's situation.So, join the conversation as Mali makes it perfectly clear that when it comes to the lawyer-client relationship, honesty is the best policy.Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryInstagram: @HastingsShadmehryemail us: [email protected] us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/00:25 Intro00:56 Warrior or Diplomat?03:30 A scenario with your lawyer caught off-guard05:30 How this situation07:10 Mali has experienced this07:40 You MUST tell your lawyer everything08:20 Explanation of privileged information10:00 Embarrassing information is not new to a lawyer11:30 Failure to disclose information lengthens cases12:30 A longer case is a more expensive case14:00 A good lawyer can work around these weaknesses15:00 Settlement is often going to be your best outcome16:20 Trust has to be maintained17:50 A lawyer has seen it all and doesn’t judge18:00 Honesty is cheaper overall18:30 Wrap-up

In this episodes of The Hastings Shadmehry Show, Andee and Mali talk through the intricacies of a post-divorce parenting plan that covers summer vacation. Parenting Plans are common in divorce, and most of them are geared toward everyday life throughout the school year. Then when the summer months come around, families can find themselves in needless and avoidable arguments because they don’t have a solid, well-thought-out parenting plan. The partners talk through the problems that can arise and the best way to prevent them. After they briefly discuss the inevitable fall-out after passing through a full moon in Scorpio, of course. Join the conversation! 00:25 Intros00:45 Warrior or Diplomat?04:30 The Basics of Post-Divorce Parenting Plans05:30 What is Summer Parenting Time?06:30 Do the Summer Holidays affect parenting time?08:00 A weak Summer Parenting Plan leads to trouble10:00 Family travel can affect the plan12:00 What if the parents live far away?13:15 Some parents can’t have extended parenting time 14:00 Providing notice of travel plans18:00 Taking the child out of the jurisdiction20:00 Judges don’t like vacation drama21:20 Summation and Sign-off Follow us on social media and engage with us for more insights and updates! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryVisit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.com email us at: [email protected]

This week is an ENCORE of Andee's and Mali's still-topical discussion this week about No Fault Divorce -- a legal term that has been coming up a lot recently. No Fault Divorce was first established in the US 50 years ago but has become a cornerstone of Family Law and personal rights. Andee and Mali talk about what the term means, the history of No Fault Divorce in the US, and the pros and cons of No Fault Divorce in the Family Courts. Join them for this extremely topical and informative discussion about an area of Family Law with far-reaching influence!00:25 Introduction3:00 Andee’s Crazy Trial Story13:00 Warrior or Diplomat?13:45 Introduction To No Fault Divorce14:00 The 13 Grounds For Divorce In GA16:45 No Fault Divorce Is Treated Differently Under The Law18:45 Family Law Before No Fault Divorce21:00 The Difficulty of Divorce Without No Fault Divorce23:00 Pleading No Fault Alongside Other Grounds27:00 Being In A State of Separation30:00 Arguments For No Fault Divorce32:20 Arguments Against No Fault Divorce35:40 Does Conduct Still Come Into the Case?38:50 Wrap UpFollow us on social media and engage with us for more insights and updates!Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryemail us at: [email protected] us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/

In this episode, Andee welcomes special guest Kim Beatty to our new podcast studio! Kim is an EXPERT on Juvenile Family Law, working closely with Child Protective Services, the Foster Care network, families and children in need of assistance. Join the conversation as Kim talks with Andee about the fine points of this complicated but rewarding area of Family Law.Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryon TikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehry email us at [email protected] us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/00:25 - Intros01:22 - Warrior or Diplomat?04:49 - Juvenile Court Overview05:31 - Dependency Cases Explained07:22 - Role of DFACS08:09 - Factors for Dependency Cases10:07 - Child Testimony in Dependency Cases12:30 - Roles in Juvenile Court16:01 - Time Frames in Dependency Cases19:12 - Placement of Children22:32 - Overlap Between CHINS and Dependency Cases28:26 - Impact of Case Facts on Placement31:11 - Resources for Families35:48 - Contact Information for Kim Beatty37:49 - Closing

In this episode, Andee and Mali introduce you to Hastings Shadmehry Associate Attorney Madison Alexander. Madison is a true Georgia girl who has lived all over the state.She is also a dedicated family law attorney, who went all the way through law school knowing that family law was her calling. She has an incredible personal story and approach to work and life.Join the Conversation and find out what makes Madison such a GREAT attorney.Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryon TikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehry email us at [email protected] a consultation contact us at: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/00:24 Intros 00:55 Warrior or Diplomat?  03:48 The basics of Madison  05:05 Madison was a Preacher’s daughter 06:40 Madison the tomboy athlete 08:00 Madison was a Straight A student 08:30 Undergraduate degree and double-major 10:00 The benefits of Law School  12:00 When Madison decided to be a lawyer 13:00 Madison’s Law School experience 16:30 Madison’s Family Law Ambition 17:50 Madison’s prior legal experience 19:40 Taking the Bar Exam 21:10 Mario Kart 22:20 Her family’s view on Family Law 23:19 Madison’s move to Atlanta 25:45 An early case in Equitable Caregiver Law 28:15 A passion for Equitable Caregiver Law 30:30 Life at Hastings Shadmehry 33:10 Madison’s off-work life 34:20 Madison has a passion for Family Law 35:09 Sign off

The Domestic Relations Financial Affidavits (or DeRFA) is a truly crucial early step in every Divorce proceeding. Andee and Mali explain what a DeRFA is, how it works, and why it is so important.Join this informative and fun discussion to find out why the DeRFA is such an important aspect of having an easier, quicker, and more successful divorce.Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryon TikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehry email us at [email protected] a consultation contact us at: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/00:25 Intro00:59 Warrior or Diplomat?04:15 What is a DRFA and why do we need it in a Divorce?06:00 What line items are in a DRFA?07:40 Do the DRFA early in the Divorce process08:20 How the DRFA is treated by the Divorce Courts10:00 The dangers of doing a DRFA wrong14:30 Establishing Income in a DRFA18:30 DRFAs MUST be backed up with evidence19:00 Showing Expenses in a DRFA19:50 How a DRFA influences Alimony21:30 A DRFA can go far to establish Credibility with the Judge24:00 A DRFA can affect Child Support24:30 Showing Assets in a DRFA26:15 How a DRFA differs from the Marital Balance Sheet27:40 Amending a DRFA as the case continues30:16 Dealing with unknown financial factors 32:00 A DRFA helps establish the client’s future life33:00 Wrap-Up

Dr Kyrstin Lokkesmoe is BACK with Andee to continue her discussion on Toxic Narcissists. This time, the ladies discuss how the Toxic Narcissist acts in Divorce proceedings. How do they appear to the judge or to a mediator? How do they treat the attorneys on the other side? Dr Kyrstin provides the clues to look for and gives advice on how to deal with it, and Andee has several observations of her own.It's another fun, warm, and informative conversation as these two talented women break down a complicated and destructive personality disorder.Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryTikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehry Email us at: [email protected] us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/00:21 Intro00:51 Warrior or Diplomat02:40 Manipulation is a hallmark of the Narcissist05:10 What is "Projection"?06:15 The Narcissist creates a false narrative08:00 Stay in communication with your team10:00 Have a plan for dealing with the Narcissist 12:30 Rely on your team14:40 The importance of documentation to combat lies16:50 The importance of Therapeutic Support18:20 Anticipating the behavior22:40 Is there a point where the Narcissist will be exposed?25:00 Give them what they want or Fight?27:50 Narcissists will sometimes use the court system30:15 Dr. Kyrstin's new Coaching endeavor 31:40 Wrap-up

This week, we are presenting an ENCORE of Andee's second conversation on Narcissism and Divorce with Dr Kyrstin Lokkesmoe, PhD, LPC, because we will be bringing Part Three next week.Narcissism is a commonly heard term and it is something that the lawyers of Hastings Shadmehry deal with on a regular basis. Join the conversation, as Andee and Dr. Kyrstin continue their discussion of this toxic personality disorder, and how it affects relationships and family law cases.Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehry on TikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehryContact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/#hastingsshadmehryshow #hastingsshadmehry #andeedyerhastings #malishadmehry #family #highassetdivorce #podcast #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #FAFO00:20 Introductions01:12 Warrior or Diplomat?03:22 Gray Rocking and Yellow Rocking08:48 A professional experience dealing with being gaslit10:20 Natural tendency to get drawn in by a Narcissist12:00 How counseling can help to fend off a Narcissist13:30 Advice for people who develop the need to fight back15:45 Benefits of physical activity17:00 Clients who fear they won't be believed23:00 Recognizing patterns so behavior can be predicted24:50 Are there patterns when the Narcissist wants to leave?26:20 Do Narcissists try to punish their partners?27:05 The so-called Flying Monkeys28:30 Helping people through the process of being discarded30:20 Is the threat of being discarded something that Narcissist uses?32:00 A great therapeutic exercise to practice35:00 Narcissists find ways to isolate their partners36:10 Learning to see the patterns is key38:00 A Divorce case where the Narcissist had to be revealed to the court41:20 What is Parallel Parenting?43:30 The Value of the app Our Family Wizard47:55 Where to find Dr. Kyrstin online and how to contact48:40 Wrap-up

In this information-packed episode of The Hastings Shadmehry Show, Andee and Mali discuss some of the professional Experts that can be recruited to help with a Divorce case.These Experts help Family lawyers gather evidence, submit reports, interpret reports from the opposing party, and can testify to their findings in Court.Experts are an integral and often-utilized part of the Divorce process and the partners do a great job explaining who they are and what they can help with.Join us for a delightful and informative discussion!Our email: [email protected] our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryon TikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehryContact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/#hastingsshadmehryshow #podcast #familylaw #familylawfirm #familylawattorney #divorce #legaladvice #divorcelawyer #childcustody #divorcelaw #highassetdivorce #talkshow #andeedyerhastings #malishadmehry #filingfordivorce #fafo

As promised, this week we bring you the second part of our Meet the Partners event, as Kendall Walker sits down with Mali Shadmehry.Mali will tell us all about herself -- her upbringing, her education, her competitive pursuits, and her meteoric rise to becoming a young entrpreneur and partner in her own firm.It's always a fun conversation when Mali and Kendall get together, so be prepared to laugh and maybe cry, as Mali walks us through her remarkable journey.Join us for a delightful and revealing discussion!Our email: [email protected] our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryon TikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehryContact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/#hastingsshadmehryshow #podcast #familylaw #familylawfirm #familylawattorney #divorce #legaladvice #divorcelawyer #childcustody #divorcelaw #highassetdivorce #talkshow #andeedyerhastings #malishadmehry #filingfordivorce #fafo

We are starting our Second season with a bang! This week we have an interview with one of the partners of Hastings Shadmehry, Andee Hastings.Our producer Kendall Walker sits down with Andee for a look at Andee’s life and career.Andee will tell us all about herself – where she comes from, what she studied in school, and where she went to Law School. Then Andee talks about her unique career, her many mentors, and the road she took to become one of the premiere family lawyers in her state.Join us for a delightful and revealing discussion!Our email: [email protected] our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryon TikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehry Contact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/#hastingsshadmehryshow #podcast #familylaw #familylawfirm #familylawattorney #divorce #legaladvice #divorcelawyer #childcustody #divorcelaw #talkshow #andeedyerhastings #malishadmehry #filingfordivorce #fafo00:30 Introduction01:40 Warrior or Diplomat?02:50 Andee’s birthplace and formative years04:23 Andee did PhD work in High School?05:50 Undergrad work06:26 Law School and early work in the Law07:10 Andee’s original post-school goals08:15 Work as a Domestic Violence Prosecutor09:10 Andee’s first Mentor as a Prosecutor10:50 When Did Andee start practicing?11:05 Young Andee makes Case Law16:08 Andee’s work in Civil Litigation17:27 Andee moves into Family Law18:05 Andee’s Family Law Mentor20:05 Andee’s work as a Guardian Ad Litem22:08 Andee’s work in Animal Rescue24:00 Andee’s personal pack25:10 Andee speaks several languages27:00 Wrap-up

This week on The Hastings Shadmehry Show, Andee and Mali take a deep dive into an often intricate topic -- WHEN to file for Divorce. They talk about the Timing of Filing and how it impacts and is impacted by things like Finances, Custodial Rights, temporary Living Arrangements. They even get into the strategies behind FilingJoin the conversation for another impactful, fact-filled and of course fun discussion!#hastingsshadmehryshow #podcast #familylaw #familylawfirm #familylawattorney #divorce #legaladvice #divorcelawyer #childcustody #divorcelaw #talkshow #andeedyerhastings #malishadmehry #filingfordivorce #fafo Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryon TikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehry Contact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/00:25 Greeting01:09 Warrior or Diplomat?06:15 Intro to Filing for Divorce07:18 Top questions asked when Filing for Divorce08:15 Filing for Divorce affecting Custody08:53 Living Arrangements after Filing09:35 Being the Plaintiff should not affect Custody11:40 Fears of how things will change after Filing14:30 Will it look bad if you file at a bad time?16:16 Should you talk to the kids before Filing?18:23 Do you need evidence before Filing?21:30 Don’t bombard your attorney with evidence23:00 Should evidence of Adultery be gathered?30:07 Financial preparations before Filing 32:25 Strategy of Filing 32:46 Explanation of a Standing Order35:40 Ultimately, the Timeline is the Client’s 36:15 The emotional side of Filing39:56 Wrap-up

In this ENCORE episode, Andee and Mali delve into the topic of Collaborative Divorce. This relatively new approach to Marriage Dissolution can be mysterious and confusing. This episode lays out the basics of the process, dispels rumors, and discusses the pros and cons of Collaborative Divorce.Like, Comment, Share: Engage with our content to help extend our reach and support more people through their legal challenges.Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehry on TikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehryContact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/#FamilyLaw #Divorce #LegalAdvice #HastingsShadmehryShowSubscribe to our channel for more insightful discussions on family law and other pressing legal topics. Your journey to understanding and navigating the legal system starts here!0:25 Intro2:57 Warrior or Diplomat?4:58 What is a Collaborative Divorce?7:50 What goes into the training for Collaborative Lawyers?10:00 Are Collaborative Lawyers hard to find?11:00 A common misconception about Collaborative Lawyers12:00 What types of cases are handled Collaboratively?14:00 What happens when the Collaborative process falls apart?17:50 Can a party back out of the Collaborative process if necessary?19:25 An overview of the Collaborative process22:40 Is it cheaper? Is it more expensive?25:50 Do High Net Worth clients benefit from the Collaborative process?30:25 Wrap up

Mali and Andee are back together in the studio for this in-depth talk on the importance of having a well-crafted Parenting Time agreement. They cover several different scenarios and many of the pitfalls inherent in working out Parenting Time for holidays throughout the year. They offer their advice about the best ways to approach the trickiest situations and their insights as to how judges approach certain issues. Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryTikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehry Contact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/00:24 Intro01:10 Warrior or Diplomat?04:10 Holidays and Parenting Plans04:40 Holidays as defined in school calendars05:30 Regular Parenting Time vs. Holiday Parenting Time07:00 Work with a Family Law attorney09:00 When one Holiday supersedes another Holiday10:18 How will a judge settle Holiday schedules?11:30 Christmas Holidays16:50 Long Weekend Holidays18:50 Mother’s/Father’s Day and Spring/Fall Break19:50 Birthdays22:30 Separating emotions from the process24:00 Accommodating family traditions25:00 Graduated Parenting Time28:00 A Good agreement prevents needless litigation later29:00 Matching Parenting Plan with a new partner’s Plan31:00 Is it worth filing for a modification after a re-marriage?32:20 Summer Parenting Time33:55 Take-aways35:50 Wrap-up#FamilyLaw #HastingsShadmehryShow #hastingshadmehry #divorcelaw #malieshadmehry #andeedyerhastings #FAFO

For our first new episode of 2025, Andee returns to her conversation about Narcissism with Dr. Kyrstin Lokkesmoe, PhD, LPC of Clear Life Counseling.Their conversation picks up right where they left off in their previous chat and covers ways in which a Narcissist can be managed when embarking on the Divorce process.Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehry on TikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehryContact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/#hastingsshadmehryshow #hastingsshadmehry #andeedyerhastings #malishadmehry #family #highassetdivorce #podcast #narcissism #narcissisticabuse 00:20 Introductions01:12 Warrior or Diplomat?03:22 Gray Rocking and Yellow Rocking08:48 A professional experience dealing with being gaslit10:20 Natural tendency to get drawn in by a Narcissist12:00 How counseling can help to fend off a Narcissist13:30 Advice for people who develop the need to fight back15:45 Benefits of physical activity17:00 Clients who fear they won't be believed23:00 Recognizing patterns so behavior can be predicted24:50 Are there patterns when the Narcissist wants to leave?26:20 Do Narcissists try to punish their partners?27:05 The so-called Flying Monkeys28:30 Helping people through the process of being discarded30:20 Is the threat of being discarded something that Narcissist uses?32:00 A great therapeutic exercise to practice35:00 Narcissists find ways to isolate their partners36:10 Learning to see the patterns is key38:00 A Divorce case where the Narcissist had to be revealed to the court41:20 What is Parallel Parenting?43:30 The Value of the app Our Family Wizard47:55 Where to find Dr. Kyrstin online and how to contact48:40 Wrap-up

This week, we are presenting an ENCORE of Andee's recent conversation on Narcissism with Dr Kyrstin Lokkesmoe, PhD, LPC, because we will be bringing part two next week.  Narcissism is term we hear a LOT in the media, and somethingthat the lawyers of Hastings Shadmehry deal with on a regular basis. Join Andeeand Dr. Kyrstin for an extremely informative discussion of this toxicpersonality disorder, and how it affects relationships and family law cases.  00:25 Introductions 01:28 Warrior or Diplomat 03:30 What is Narcissism? 06:10 Misconceptions about the Definition of Narcissism06:40 Traits of a Narcissist 10:00 Love-Bombing 13:30 Narcissists thrive on secrecy 16:24 Narcissism in Divorce 19:19 Examples of Gaslighting 23:31 Narcissists don’t quit 26:00 Stop considering the Narcissist’s feelings 29:30 The Best Defense 34:40 Standing between the Narcissist and the Client 37:20 Isolation as a Narcissist’s Tactic 41:00 How to become empowered 42:00 Science behind the effects of Narcissism 46:00 How did I get to this? 49:00 Narcissists are after Power and Control 50:00 Narcissists are predictable and unoriginal 52:30 Do not go to Couples Counseling with a Narcissist 56:00 How to contact Clear Life Counseling 56:30 Wrap-Up  https://hsfamilylaw.com Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehry Contact us for a consultation:https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/  #hastingsshadmehryshow #hastingsshadmehry #andeedyerhastings#malishadmehry #family #highassetdivorce #podcast #narcissism #narcissisticabuse

In this ENCORE release, Andee and Mali ask each other a series of questions about running a law firm, running a small business and being entrepreneurs. This is all about the joy and sorrow of being a working professional and being a leader.Like, Comment, Share: Engage with our content to help extend our reach and support more people through their legal challenges.Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehry on TikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehryContact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/#FamilyLaw #Divorce #LegalAdvice #HastingsShadmehryShow0:25 Intro0:55 Warrior or Diplomat?3:48 How does Andee define success?4:55 Our drive to be Protectors7:00 How does Mali define Success?9:05 What makes a good Leader?14:45 How do you deal with Fear and Doubt?20:30 What is the hardest part of being an Entrepreneur?23:50 What Routine do you follow each day?28:00 Wrap up

In this ENCORE episode, Andee and Mali talk about the intricacies of Mediation, when it's necessary, how it aids in the divorce process, its pitfalls and its advantages.00:32 Intro00:45 Warrior or Diplomat?04:00 A brief talk about work/life balance and handling stress06:43 Intro to the Mediation process07:40 Prepping the Clients for the ups and downs09:20 Preparing for Mediation10:10 Is Mediation required?11:40 Mediation as a strategy12:50 Picking a Mediator14:10 Common question: What can I expect?17:20 How to get information before going into Mediation19:20 What does the Mediation process look like?22:00 Handling unrealistic expectations24:30 Wrap upVisit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.com Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryContact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/ #hastingsshadmehryshow #hastingsshadmehry #andeedyerhastings #malishadmehry #familylaw #highassetdivorce #familylaw #podcast

In this ENCORE release, Andee is joined by Podcast Producer and Hastings Shadmehry Client Care Specialist Kendall Walker as they talk about the inherent drama surrounding High-Profile Divorce cases.Introduction of Kendall Walker, our Client Care SpecialistWarrior or DiplomatThe High Profile divorce case between Nathan Wade and Joselyn Wade, exploring the legal strategies and media impact.Andee's visit with The Lead Attorney PodcastCelebrate the growth of our community following our feature on The Lead Attorney's channel.The Role of a Client Care Specialist: Kendall shares how she champions client satisfaction and faces challenges head-on.Complexities of High-Profile Divorces: An in-depth look at the ramifications and strategies in high-profile legal battles.Interactive Q&A: Engaging with the community, providing clarity on ethical considerations, and enhancing client-lawyer interactions.Wrap-UpVisit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehry For a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/Tune In and Subscribe to "The Hastings Shadmehry Show" for more episodes filled with expert legal insights and guidance.

In this ENCORE release Andee and Mali take a look into the topic of Temporary Protective Orders (TPOs). Their discussion reveals the critical role of Temporary Protective Orders for individuals who are facing violence or stalking behavior in their marriage. They go through the whole  process, from the initial ex parte order for immediate protection to a comprehensive court hearing for a lasting solution.Gain insight into eligibility requirements for a obtaining a TPO, what to expect in court, and the importance of swift action, and getting the right Legal and Emotional Support.  Plus, they offer practical tips on dealing with potential threats, including the importance of contacting police.This episode is packed with essential information and empowering advice, designed to guide you through the process of obtaining a TPO during challenging times.00:33  Intro01:15  Mali shares a personal story about her anxious dog02:13  Warrior or Diplomat?04:10  What is a TPO?05:00  What situations prompt the need for a TPO?06:15  Legal Eligibility for a TPO08:15  Steps to Obtaining a TPO10:15  What to Expect in Court when applying for a TPO13:40  The Importance of Acquiring Legal Representation16:40  What can we expect after the TPO is issued20:20  Advice on how to make sure the TPO is adhered to22:30  Secrets in handling opposing counsels in a TPO case23:20  Mali shares two TPO cases in which she was involved35:40 Wrap UpVisit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehry Contact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/#FamilyLaw #Divorce #LegalAdvice #HastingsShadmehryShow

This week, Andee welcomes back Dr Kyrstin Lokkesmoe, PhD, LPC for a discussion on the topic of Narcissism.  It’s term we hear a LOT in the media, and something that the lawyers of Hastings Shadmehry deal with on a regular basis.  Join Andee and Dr. Kyrstin for an extremely informative discussion of this toxic personality disorder, and how it affects relationships and family law cases.00:25 Introductions01:28 Warrior or Diplomat03:30 What is Narcissism?06:10 Misconceptions about the Definition of Narcissism06:40 Traits of a Narcissist10:00 Love-Bombing13:30 Narcissists thrive on secrecy16:24 Narcissism in Divorce19:19 Examples of Gaslighting23:31 Narcissists don’t quit26:00 Stop considering the Narcissist’s feelings29:30 The Best Defense34:40 Standing between the Narcissist and the Client37:20 Isolation as a Narcissist’s Tactic41:00 How to become empowered42:00 Science behind the effects of Narcissism46:00 How did I get to this?49:00 Narcissists are after Power and Control50:00 Narcissists are predictable and unoriginal52:30 Do not go to Couples Counseling with a Narcissist56:00 How to contact Clear Life Counseling 56:30 Wrap-Up #hastingsshadmehryshow #hastingsshadmehry #andeedyerhastings #malishadmehry #family #highassetdivorce #podcast #narcissism #narcissisticabuse

In this ENCORE release, Mali is joined by Kendall Walker, Hastings Shadmehry's head of sales and marketing, and co-producer of this podcast, to discuss the nuances of family law. This episode is informative and fun. 00:32 Intro01:16 Warrior or Diplomat?02:30 Jezebel Magazine Best Family Law Firm 202403:36 Frequently Asked Questions03:41 How Much Does A Divorce Costs12:20 Are Divorce Proceedings In Public Records?17:40 Can You Change Your Name During the Divorce?19:30 Can You Change Your Childrens' Names?22:30 Can A House/Assets Be Sold During the Divorce?26:21 Wrap-UpVisit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryContact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/#FamilyLaw #Divorce #LegalAdvice #HastingsShadmehryShow #hastingshadmehry #divorcelaw #malieshadmehry #andeedyerhastings

Andee and Mali welcome Hastings Shadmehry Senior Associate Lisa Malas to the show!  Lisa talks about her career in Family Law and her journey as a young mother going through Law School. Lisa is a mom, a grand mom, and a dog-mom, and she's an incredible member of the Hastings Shadmehry Wolf Pack.00:24 Intro00:33 Introducing Lisa Malas00:58 Warrior or Diplomat?02:40 Mali’s Court Story About Lisa03:50 Lisa Is a Dog-Mom05:30 How Did Lisa Start On Her Career?08:45 What Makes Lisa Excited About Her Job?09:30 What Does It Mean To Represent DFACS?10:24 Some of Lisa’s Toughest Cases with DFACS13:50 How Does Lisa Handle the Tough Parts of the Job? 14:45 Transition from Self-Employment16:05 Mali’s Story About Lisa17:20 Lisa’s Advice For Going Through A Divorce19:05 Wrap-UpFollow us on social media and engage with us for more insights and updates!Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryContact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/#FamilyLaw #HastingsShadmehryShow #hastingshadmehry #divorcelaw #malieshadmehry #andeedyerhastings

This week is an ENCORE presentation of Mali's terrific conversation with Dr. Kyrstin Jimenez from Clear Life Counseling and Testing. Dr. Jimenez shares her insights into the crucial role of therapy for children during divorce and introduces us to the concept of therapy animals and how they can provide comfort and support to young clients.Join us as Mali and Dr. Kyrstin delve into these vital topics and more.00:24 - Intro00:36 - Welcoming Dr. Jimenez01:08 - Discussing Therapy for Children in Divorce02:44 - Warrior or Diplomat?07:27 - Dr. Jimenez's Professional Journey14:12 - Self-Efficacy and Skill Transfer20:09 - Therapy and Communication in Family Law25:05 - Addressing Long-Term Emotional Issues40:52 - Navigating Court Testimonies as a Therapist50:43 - The Role of Therapy Animals57:50 - Final ThoughtsFollow us on social media and engage with us for more insights and updates!Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryContact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/#FamilyLaw #Divorce #familytherapy #familytherapist #HastingsShadmehryShow #hastingshadmehry #malieshadmehry #andeedyerhastings

The NEW episode of The Hastings Shadmehry Show is available!It's a very topical discussion this week, as Andee and Mali take a look at No Fault Divorce, a legal term that has been coming up a lot recently. No Fault Divorce was first established in the US 50 years ago but has become a cornerstone of Family Law and personal rights.Andee and Mali talk about what the term means, the history of No Fault Divorce in the US, and the pros and cons of No Fault Divorce in the Family Courts. Join them for this extremely topical and informative discussion about an area of Family Law with far-reaching influence!  00:25 Introduction 3:00 Andee’s Crazy Trial Story 13:00 Warrior or Diplomat? 13:45 Introduction To No Fault Divorce 14:00 The 13 Grounds For Divorce In GA 16:45 No Fault Divorce Is Treated Differently Under The Law 18:45 Family Law Before No Fault Divorce 21:00 The Difficulty of Divorce Without No Fault Divorce 23:00 Pleading No Fault Alongside Other Grounds 27:00 Being In A State of Separation 30:00 Arguments For No Fault Divorce 32:20 Arguments Against No Fault Divorce 35:40 Does Conduct Still Come Into the Case?38:50 Wrap Up #FamilyLaw #Divorce #nofaultdivorce #HastingsShadmehryShow #hastingshadmehry #divorcelaw #mensrights #project2025 #malieshadmehry #andeedyerhastings 

In this new episode, Mali Shadmehry flies solo again to talk about a sometimes-uncomfortable topic: what to do if you feel unhappy with your lawyer. She talks about what to consider before breaking things off, warning signs to look for in a lawyer that isn't handling things correctly, and how to transition to a lawyer you feel more comfortable with. These things happen, and this episode is designed to help anyone who might be in this situation.00:27 Introduction01:20 Updates on what's happening at Hastings Shadmehry2:00 Warrior or Diplomat?4:20 The Three Main Reasons why a client wants to leave their attorney6:30 Caveats about switching attorneys and an argument for NOT switching12:42 Three Areas where difficulties arise: Communication, Strategy, Performance13:00 Possible Problem Area No. 1: Poor Communication16:30 How to approach this problem with your lawyer18:00 Possible Problem Area No. 2: Confusion/Disagreement about Strategy21:15 Consider getting a Second Opinion from a qualified Family Lawyer22:00 Possible Problem Area No. 3: Poor Performance in Court26:30 Approach your lawyer with your concerns29:20 The solutions: Talk to your lawyer and/or get a Second Opinion30:00 What to expect from a Second Opinion/What to expect from switching lawyers35:15 Wrap-upFollow us on social media and engage with us for more insights and updates!Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryContact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/#FamilyLaw #Divorce #LegalAdvice #HastingsShadmehryShow

Welcome to this ENCORE release of Episode 23: Exploring Jury Trials. In this solo episode, Mali Shadmehry de-mystifies the rare but significant aspect of Family Law. She'll explain why Georgia allows jury trials in divorce cases, the potential benefits of a jury trial, and why more lawyers and clients should consider them. Mali shares personal stories, including a case where a client's trust made all the difference. And she provides practical advice on preparing for these complex legal proceedings.00:32 Introduction:01:07 Warrior or Diplomat?05:30 Jury Trials are rare in Family La, and not done in every state.06:50 Equitable Division of Property07:04 A particular case in which having a jury would have resulted in a better outcome for her client.19:10 Is the case appropriate for a jury trial?21:10 How to know if your attorney will handle a jury trial correctly23:19 Conclusion and wrap-upFollow us on social media and engage with us for more insights and updates!Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryContact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/#FamilyLaw #JuryTrials #Divorce #LegalAdvice #HastingsShadmehryShow #AssetDivision #EquitableDivision #LegalPreparation