EPISODE · Apr 14, 2026 · 13 MIN
When You Are the Problem (And the Solution)
from Balance & Beyond · host Jo Stone
The most confronting reason we stay stuck often isn’t a lack of time, talent, or confidence. It’s the moment you realise you’re the one holding you back and you can’t seem to stop, even though you can see the pattern coming a mile away.I’m sharing what I’ve learned from working with 500+ successful women who feel trapped in people pleasing, perfectionism, overthinking, and rescuing everyone else. We talk about why “just set a boundary” can collapse the second guilt hits, why delegating can feel unbearable when your standards are wired for speed and control, and why being needed starts to look like the same thing as being valuable. If you’ve ever found yourself saying yes before you even meant to, then swimming in resentment later, you’ll recognise this instantly.We also pull apart the myth that more discipline will fix it. Willpower is finite, it depletes when you’re tired, and it can’t keep up with the hundreds of micro-decisions you make every day. What’s really running the show is an old internal operating system built for a previous definition of success, one that links rest to earning, mistakes to danger, and stopping to falling behind. The shift isn’t about trying harder; it’s about rewiring so your ambition becomes sustainable and your work-life balance stops being a constant battle.If this lands for you, subscribe to Balance and Beyond, share it with a woman who needs the words, and leave a review so it reaches the people it’s meant for.Send a text message to JoThe Balance & Beyond Podcast Hosted by Jo Stone, founder of The Balance InstituteFor women who are already succeeding, but beginning to wonder if they're willing to keep losing themselves in the process.We know high achievers, because we are one. This podcast draws on Jo's 20 years in global leadership and thousands of hours coaching executives and ambitious women: the patterns she sees, how to untangle them, and what it actually takes to keep your success without paying for it with yourself.If something landed today, there's more where that came from.And if you know a woman this would resonate with, send it her way.🎙️https://www.balanceinstitute.com/podcast 🔗 www.balanceinstitute.com💼https://au.linkedin.com/in/stonejoanne📷 @therealjostone
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The most confronting reason we stay stuck often isn’t a lack of time, talent, or confidence. It’s the moment you realise you’re the one holding you back and you can’t seem to stop, even though you can see the pattern coming a mile away. I’m sharing what I’ve learned from working with 500+ successful women who feel trapped in people pleasing, perfectionism, overthinking, and rescuing everyone else. We talk about why “just set a boundary” can collapse the second guilt hits, why delegating can ...
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When You Are the Problem (And the Solution)
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