EPISODE · Dec 29, 2023 · 13 MIN
When You Get Support & It *Sucks* Navigating Advocating as a Perfectionist
Sometimes, support sucks. As a perfectionist this gets especially tricky when you're also wobbly on advocating for yourself. If you've ever felt trapped by your own high expectations this episode breaks down the barriers that perfectionists often face when it comes to asking for and receiving support, illuminating the internal struggles and external pressures that's enormously misunderstood by non-perfectionistic people. Tired of waiting for “things to calm down” so you can FEEL better? Whether it's becoming much more DECISIVE in everything you do, the ability to fall asleep without obsessing over your to do list or PRESENCE with your family (no more catastrophizing) When you join Perfectionism Leveraged you get customized 1-1 coaching + the SKILLS you've never been taught that FREE you from panic + controlling everything all the time. Get your stress-free start today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/services Highlights inside Episode 197 of Perfectionism Rewired:00:00-Self-Advocacy When Support Falls Short02:22-Feel like a weirdo when your internal experience is icky and you're still doing phenomenally on the outside 04:00-A Fvck Down vs A Fvck Up06:10-Going Where Your Perfectionism Growth Area IS07:22-Empowered Responsibilty + Perfectionist Self-Advocacy IRL07:40-Perfectionism Leveraged Client Feedback08:11-Being a perfectionist in public09:29-What really matters when support fails you10:35-Two Questions All Perfectionists Need After They Encounter A Mistake11:05- Why endure perfectionism when you can enjoy it instead?HIGHLY CREDIBLE SOURCES REFERENCED IN THIS EPISODE: Farmer, J. R., Mackinnon, S. P., & Cowie, M. (2017). Perfectionism and Life Narratives: A Qualitative Study. SAGE Open, 7(3). https://doi.org/10.1177/2158244017721733Johnson, K. M., Slavin, S., & Takahashi, T. A. (2023). Excellent vs Excessive: Helping Trainees Balance Performance and Perfectionism. Journal of Graduate Medical Education, 15(4), 424–427. https://doi.org/10.4300/jgme-d-23-00003.1Steinert, C., Heim, N., & Leichsenring, F. (2021). Procrastination, Perfectionism, and Other Work-Related Mental Problems: Prevalence, Types, Assessment, and Treatment—A Scoping Review. Frontiers in Psychiatry, 12. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyt.2021.736776 Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.
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Sometimes, support sucks. As a perfectionist this gets especially tricky when you're also wobbly on advocating for yourself. If you've ever felt trapped by your own high expectations this episode breaks down the barriers that perfectionists often face when it comes to asking for and receiving support, illuminating the internal struggles and external pressures that's enormously misunderstood by non-perfectionistic people. Tired of waiting for “things to calm down” so you can FEEL better? Whether it's becoming much more DECISIVE in everything you do, the ability to fall asleep without obsessing over your to do list or PRESENCE with your family (no more catastrophizing) When you join Perfectionism Leveraged you get 1-1 coaching + the EPIC SKILLS you've never been taught that FREE you from panic + controlling everything all the time. Get your stress-free start today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/contact
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