Who's Calling the Shots?

What will they think? Will they be disappointed? Am I letting people down? If you've ever wrestled with those questions, you're not alone. The fear of others doesn't just speak—it shouts. It's a fear that's destroyed many a life. In the ultra-high-pressure glare of the 2021 Tokyo Olympics, with seemingly the whole world looking on, superstar gymnast Simone Biles shocked everyone when she withdrew from multiple events to protect her mental health. The critics were quick to question her mental toughness. But she didn't cave to their voices—she listened to what she knew was right. Later, she said "I've to put my pride aside. I have to do what's right for me and focus on my mental health." That's not weakness. That's courage. Proverbs 29:25 The fear of others lays a snare, but one who trusts in the Lord is secure. (NRSV) Fear of others is a trap. It looks like approval, but it becomes a cage. You start living for likes, for praise, for expectations, instead of walking in the truth that God's placed inside you. If you've ever been there, if you're there now, you know exactly what I mean. But trusting God … well, that's where real strength begins. You stop being pulled in every direction and start standing secure—even when people don't understand. Simone Biles didn't please everyone. But she chose something better: integrity, health, and truth. That's the fruit of trusting God—not public applause, but inner peace. So, question: Are you living for them—or for Him? The fear of others lays a snare, but one who trusts in the Lord is secure.  That's God's Word. Fresh … for you … today.