Why " Be Confident" is Useless Advice

Contact us by whatsapp on +447485622662- let us know what you think of this episode. Contact us by whatsapp on +447485622662 - let us know what you think of this episode.In this insightful episode of ABGW, Cheryl Paris addresses the often unspoken challenges women in leadership roles face. She dives deep into the concept of the 'visibility tax'—the subtle yet significant penalties women encounter when they confidently assert their presence in the workplace. Cheryl candidly discusses how expressions of confidence can be misinterpreted, leading to judgments that can stifle authenticity and hinder professional growth.Through relatable anecdotes and thought-provoking questions, Cheryl invites you to reflect on your own experiences with visibility and the internal narratives that shape your perception of leadership. She encourages you to reframe the idea of being a role model, suggesting that true leadership is about leaving a trail of authenticity rather than merely performing under scrutiny.As she explores the fears that often accompany visibility, Cheryl reassures you that these feelings are not a personal failing but a learned response to societal expectations. She challenges you to consider the costs of shrinking back and highlights the importance of embracing your true self without apology.Join Cheryl for an empowering conversation to redefine what it means to be visible and respected in your career. Remember, you are not broken; you are simply navigating a world that has conditioned women to see clarity as a risk. Embrace your journey, and take pride in every step you take towards authenticity.The contents of this podcast are for informational purposes only and should not be considered medical advice. If you have a specific health concern or condition, please consult a qualified healthcare professional for more details. Check out herguru dot uk forward slash disclaimers.Support the showFrom struggle to strength, with care you can feel.“Every step you take, no matter how small, is a step toward a brighter, more balanced future. Trust your journey — progress is progress, no matter the pace.” — Cheryl ParisSubscribe, breathe, and repeat—every little bit counts!Support our work - Like us on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cherylparis and Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/abgwblogThe contents of this podcast are for informational purposes only and should not be considered medical advice. If you have a specific health concern or condition, please consult a qualified Healthcare professional for more details. Check out herguru dot uk forward slash disclaimersSupport the showIf this episode helped, please share it with someone who needs a calmer five minutes:https://followthepodcast.com/workstressanxietyIf you'd like to support the podcast, leaving a review genuinely helps other overwhelmed humans find it without having to survive another "10x your mindset" podcast first:https://lovethepodcast.com/workstressanxietyJoin the HerGuru WhatsApp Channel:https://go.workstressanxiety.com/whatsappinviteGot feedback, a question, or a future episode suggestion?https://podcastfeedback.com/workstressanxietyWork Stress Anxiety by ABGW is part of HerGuru Hypnotherapy and Coaching™ and grounded in the ABGW Method®.Calm first. Reality first. Then change.™Connect with Cheryl ParisLinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/cherylparis/Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/abgwblogDisclaimer:https://herguru.uk/disclaimers/Shared stories are anonymised.This podcast is provided for educational and reflective purposes only and does not constitute medical, psychologica...