Why "boys don’t cry" is hurting us - and how to break the cycle with empathy episode artwork

EPISODE · Apr 3, 2025 · 33 MIN

Why "boys don’t cry" is hurting us - and how to break the cycle with empathy

from Death on the Daily · host Tanya Wilkinson

Inspired by watching the incredible Adolescence on Netflix, in this solo episode I discuss the critical importance of emotional expression and the dangers of suppressing emotions, particularly in boys and young men. I highlight the toxic messages propagated by the manosphere and social media that label empathy and vulnerability as weaknesses. Emphasising the need for society to encourage emotional expression, teach emotional hygiene, and create safe spaces for discussing grief. Calling for a cultural shift towards embracing vulnerability and empathy as essential components of mental health and wellbeing. Plus I share simple practices of connection and empathy that we can each do. Key takeawaysEmpathy can be viewed as a weakness in today's culture.Suppressing emotions can lead to unresolved feelings and mental health issues.Crying is a natural and beneficial way to process emotions.Encouraging emotional expression can help dismantle harmful societal norms.Teaching emotional hygiene is crucial for mental well-being.Open communication is essential for understanding and supporting each other.Individual actions can create a ripple effect in promoting emotional health.Grief should be acknowledged and discussed openly.Creating safe spaces for emotional expression is vital.Vulnerability is a strength that can lead to healing.Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and does not constitute professional advice. Nor is it a substitute for professional support. Follow Death on the Daily:Don’t forget to rate, review and subscribe to this podcast. Plus I always love to hear from you, so please do drop a comment or message to me here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/death_onthedailyYouTube: http://youtube.com/@deathonthedaily The theme music for Death on the Daily is ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Set Free by Katie Gray⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, which is used with artist's permission. You can connect with Katie and her music and Empowered Heart work here ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠katiegray.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This podcast is edited by David Strutt, who you can contact here for any editing needs: [email protected]:00: Intro and theme01:10: Why “Boys Don’t Cry” is so Harmful06:01: The Impact of Digital Natives on Emotional Expression12:03: Encouraging Emotional Expression in Society17:51: The Ripple Effect of Kindness and Compassion24:14: Practicing Emotional Hygiene30:02: Embracing Grief and Vulnerability

Inspired by watching the incredible Adolescence on Netflix, in this solo episode I discuss the critical importance of emotional expression and the dangers of suppressing emotions, particularly in boys and young men. I highlight the toxic messages propagated by the manosphere and social media that label empathy and vulnerability as weaknesses. Emphasising the need for society to encourage emotional expression, teach emotional hygiene, and create safe spaces for discussing grief. Calling for a cultural shift towards embracing vulnerability and empathy as essential components of mental health and wellbeing. Plus I share simple practices of connection and empathy that we can each do. Key takeawaysEmpathy can be viewed as a weakness in today's culture.Suppressing emotions can lead to unresolved feelings and mental health issues.Crying is a natural and beneficial way to process emotions.Encouraging emotional expression can help dismantle harmful societal norms.Teaching emotional hygiene is crucial for mental well-being.Open communication is essential for understanding and supporting each other.Individual actions can create a ripple effect in promoting emotional health.Grief should be acknowledged and discussed openly.Creating safe spaces for emotional expression is vital.Vulnerability is a strength that can lead to healing.Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and does not constitute professional advice. Nor is it a substitute for professional support. Follow Death on the Daily:Don’t forget to rate, review and subscribe to this podcast. Plus I always love to hear from you, so please do drop a comment or message to me here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/death_onthedailyYouTube: http://youtube.com/@deathonthedaily The theme music for Death on the Daily is ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Set Free by Katie Gray⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, which is used with artist's permission. You can connect with Katie and her music and Empowered Heart work here ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠katiegray.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This podcast is edited by David Strutt, who you can contact here for any editing needs: [email protected]:00: Intro and theme01:10: Why “Boys Don’t Cry” is so Harmful06:01: The Impact of Digital Natives on Emotional Expression12:03: Encouraging Emotional Expression in Society17:51: The Ripple Effect of Kindness and Compassion24:14: Practicing Emotional Hygiene30:02: Embracing Grief and Vulnerability

NOW PLAYING

Why "boys don’t cry" is hurting us - and how to break the cycle with empathy

0:00 33:26

No transcript for this episode yet

We transcribe on demand. Request one and we'll notify you when it's ready — usually under 10 minutes.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long is this episode of Death on the Daily?

This episode is 33 minutes long.

When was this Death on the Daily episode published?

This episode was published on April 3, 2025.

What is this episode about?

Inspired by watching the incredible Adolescence on Netflix, in this solo episode I discuss the critical importance of emotional expression and the dangers of suppressing emotions, particularly in boys and young men. I highlight the toxic messages...

Can I download this Death on the Daily episode?

Yes, you can download this episode by clicking the download button on the episode player, or subscribe to the podcast in your preferred podcast app for automatic downloads.
URL copied to clipboard!