Why Can't Autistics Follow Through? The "OCS" w/ Jeremy Rochford

So many neurotypical wives find themselves whispering—or sometimes shouting—the same question: Why can’t my husband follow through? In this candid conversation, Jeremy Rochford unpacks what’s really going on beneath the surface. It’s not laziness, carelessness, or a lack of love. More often, it’s a collision of executive functioning challenges, emotional regulation, and the unspoken expectations that swirl inside neurodiverse marriages.Through real-life stories, relatable humor, practical insight, and the introduction of the OCS Model, Jeremy shows why what looks like procrastination is often something much deeper—and what it means for connection at home. But this isn’t just about identifying the problem. This episode offers a fresh framework for moving forward together. You’ll hear strategies to shift from frustration to collaboration, build rhythms of accountability that actually stick, and create space for both partners to thrive. Whether you’re exhausted by broken promises or simply curious about the dynamics at play, this is your invitation to trade confusion for clarity—and blame for better tools.To learn more about our sponsor, please check out https://www.allabilitiesnofilter.com/ To learn more about NeuroFam, please check out https://www.ourneurofam.com/  To send us an email or question- shoot a message to [email protected]  Music for the show’s intro is provided (with permission) by Matt Langston & EleventySeven. You can check out their awesome stuff here - https://www.eleventysevenisalive.com/ Music for the show’s outro is provided (with permission) by Sean Rogers & Shineunder. The band doesn’t exist anymore, but Sean is still doing great work and can be found here - https://heyworldcreative.com/