Why Compassionate Leaders Succeed | Gabriela Jones & Alexandra Thomas

What if the most powerful question a leader could ask was: “How can I best be helpful?”In this episode of Compassion in a T-Shirt, I’m joined by Gabriela Jones and Alexandra Thomas, co-authors of the compelling new book Compassion-Focused Leadership. Nominated for HR Book of the Year in Sweden, their work explores how compassion—defined as empathy in action—can transform leadership, organisations, and the humans within them.Together, we dive into the core principles of compassion-focused leadership, from the evolutionary science of our emotional brains, to the three flows of compassion, to the importance of building psychological safety and inclusion in the workplace. Gabriela and Alexandra bring both warmth and wisdom, blending personal stories with practical strategies that leaders at all levels can use.We talk about power dynamics, burnout, self-compassion, fierce compassion, and the everyday moments where leaders can choose to pause, reflect, and act with courage and kindness. Their message is clear: compassion isn’t soft—it’s strong, strategic, and sorely needed in the modern workplace.Whether you're leading others, being led, or leading yourself, this conversation is for you.Watch now—and ask yourself: How can I best be helpful?TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Introduction to Compassionate Leadership00:16 Meet the Authors: Gabriela Jones and Alexandra Thomas01:31 The Heartbeat of Compassionate Leadership01:59 Gabriela's Journey: Compassion in Adversity07:58 The Three Flows of Compassion13:02 Compassion Pays Off: Organisational Benefits19:42 Evolutionary Perspective on Leadership24:29 Balancing the Three Emotion Regulation Systems34:11 The Impact of Self-Judgment in Leadership34:53 Mindfulness and Self-Compassion Practices36:29 Balancing Feedback and Compassion39:41 Developing Self-Compassion in Leadership43:39 Creating Inclusive and Compassionate Workplaces48:02 Compassionate Organisational Architecture54:55 Daily Practices for Compassionate Leadership01:00:54 Final Thoughts on Compassionate LeadershipLINKS:Alexandra Thomas:https://www.creativecompassion.se/english/Gabriela Jones:https://www.psykologbyranjones.se/om-oss/If you would like to learn more about compassion focused therapy, you can find Dr Stan Steindl's book The Gifts of Compassion here: https://www.ausapress.com/p/the-gifts-of-compassion-how-to-understand-and-overcome-suffering/ Say hi on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drstansteindl Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/StanSteindl Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr_stan_steindl/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stan-steindl-150a5264/ Website: https://www.stansteindl.com/ YouTube Video URL: https://youtu.be/uSddbflszvU*Affiliate Disclaimer: Note this description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in no way obligated to use these links. Thank you for your support! Video hashtags:compassionate leadership, workplace wellbeing, psychological safety, self compassion, organisational culture, leadership development