why do i always want to be somewhere else?

We've all had the thought:Maybe I'd be happier if I moved.If I changed jobs.Started over.Became a different version of myself.But what if the thing we're chasing isn't actually a new city, relationship, career, or routine?This week, we're talking about destination addiction: the belief that the life we want is always one move away.Inspired by Kiki's essay, Why Do I Always Want to Be Somewhere Else?, we unpack why so many of us fall into the trap of believing the next chapter will finally make us feel fulfilled. We explore the psychology behind hedonic adaptation (why the excitement of achieving our goals fades so quickly), the difference between moving toward something versus running away from something, and how to tell whether you're truly outgrowing your life or simply craving a clean slate.We also share where this shows up in our own lives, from careers and relationships to the pressure to constantly reinvent ourselves.In this episode, we cover:• What destination addiction actually is and why so many of us experience it• The psychology of hedonic adaptation and why "the next thing" rarely satisfies us for long• How to recognize the difference between healthy growth and disguised escapism• Why belonging, confidence, and fulfillment often take longer to build than we'd like• The questions to ask yourself before making your next big move or life changeThis episode was inspired by Kiki's thoughtful essay, Why Do I Always Want to Be Somewhere Else? You can read it here:https://storieswithkiki.substack.com/p/why-do-i-always-want-to-be-somewhereIf this episode resonated with you, we'd love to hear from you. Send us a DM or share the episode with someone who's been wondering if happiness is waiting somewhere else.Follow us on Instagram and TikTok: @itscool.ustoo