Why do I feel responsible for their emotions all the time?

What if your attunement isn't a gift you chose to give? What if it became the price of admission you stopped noticing you were paying? This episode maps the invisible labor of emotional weather: one partner scans the room before entering, softens, manages, prevents. It's not because they care more. It's because they learned early that love required vigilance. The question isn't how to stop caring. It's how to put the weight down without the sky falling.Where We Are is a podcast about orientation, not diagnosis.Hosted by Dr. Alon Aviram, psychotherapist and founder of Human(s)e, a framework for locating where you are across the five spaces of a life: SELF, SOMA, MAP, MESH, and IDEA.If something in this episode landed, you can go deeper at humanse.co, where a free orientation tool helps you map where you actually stand. For weekly reflections and new episode notes, the newsletter lives at SubstackFollow along on InstagramNew episodes every other week.Because life happens in the space between.