Why do we keep having the same fight over and over?

What if the fight isn't the problem? What if it's the only reliable way the two of you still reach each other? This episode looks at the loop you already know by heart: same trigger, same words, same ending. It's not a communication breakdown. It's a pattern holding the relationship together in the only way it knows how. The question isn't how to win the fight. It's what the two of you are trying to say through it.Where We Are is a podcast about orientation, not diagnosis.Hosted by Dr. Alon Aviram, psychotherapist and founder of Human(s)e, a framework for locating where you are across the five spaces of a life: SELF, SOMA, MAP, MESH, and IDEA.If something in this episode landed, you can go deeper at humanse.co, where a free orientation tool helps you map where you actually stand. For weekly reflections and new episode notes, the newsletter lives at SubstackFollow along on InstagramNew episodes every other week.Because life happens in the space between.