Why does calm feel like something is wrong?

What if the quiet in the room isn't peace? What if it's the sound of two people who have politely stopped reaching? This episode looks at the couples who stopped fighting and the particular flavor of absence that followed. It's not numbness. It's mutual withdrawal that got mistaken for stability. The question isn't how to avoid the next argument. It's whether there's enough friction left for either of you to still be in the room.Where We Are is a podcast about orientation, not diagnosis.Hosted by Dr. Alon Aviram, psychotherapist and founder of Human(s)e, a framework for locating where you are across the five spaces of a life: SELF, SOMA, MAP, MESH, and IDEA.If something in this episode landed, you can go deeper at humanse.co, where a free orientation tool helps you map where you actually stand. For weekly reflections and new episode notes, the newsletter lives at SubstackFollow along on InstagramNew episodes every other week.Because life happens in the space between.