EPISODE · Jun 25, 2026 · 28 MIN
Why Does Everyone Think I'm Fine?
from Conversations Beyond Borders · host Laura Weyl & Susan Poulter
Send us Fan MailHow many times have you answered the question "How are you?" with "I'm fine"—even when you weren't?In this episode, Susan and Laura explore the surprising reasons so many women default to "I'm fine," even when they're exhausted, overwhelmed, grieving, struggling, or simply carrying more than anyone realizes.Together, they unpack the expectations placed on women to be strong, capable, and endlessly resilient, and how those expectations may have shaped an entire generation's relationship with vulnerability. From protecting our children and parents from worry to avoiding uncomfortable conversations, they explore the hidden reasons we often keep our struggles to ourselves.This conversation also dives into the emotional weight many midlife women carry, the habit of minimizing our own needs, and what we lose when we stop checking in with ourselves.What if the question isn't whether we're fine?What if the real question is whether we've become so used to saying it that we've stopped noticing what we're actually carrying?Join us for an honest conversation about strength, connection, compassion, and learning to tell the truth about how we're really doing.Music: A Special thanks to Tudor Arvinte for our podcast music. You can find him at: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJCSbToEWd0WCbHA-QYmW2w?sub_confirmation=1 or Instagram @twodoorlucaDisclaimer:The information shared on this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. We are not licensed mental health professionals, and the content of this podcast is not intended to replace care from a qualified mental health provider.If you are experiencing distress facing challenges in your mental health or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek help from a licensed mental health professional. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, you can contact the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 or texting 988. Trained crisis counselors are available 24/7 to offer free and confidential support.This podcast is designed to inspire and support women navigating midlife transitions, but your journey is unique, and professional guidance can make a significant difference.
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Send us Fan Mail How many times have you answered the question "How are you?" with "I'm fine"—even when you weren't? In this episode, Susan and Laura explore the surprising reasons so many women default to "I'm fine," even when they're exhausted, overwhelmed, grieving, struggling, or simply carrying more than anyone realizes. Together, they unpack the expectations placed on women to be strong, capable, and endlessly resilient, and how those expectations may have shaped an entire generation's ...
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