Why Great Sex Won’t Fix a Broken Relationship (and Vice Versa)

This episode examines the relationship between sex and love in marriage, highlighting that neither can solve the other's problems. Using Mary McCarthy's insight—"You mustn't force sex to do the work of love or love to do the work of sex"—Paul explains why good sex and a healthy relationship are distinct but both necessary. Practical guidance is offered: maintain a functional sexual routine while you actively repair and strengthen the relationship, communicate when spouses disagree about priorities, and revisit sexual intimacy once the relationship is healthier.