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EPISODE · May 5, 2026 · 24 MIN

Why I Disappeared… and What I’m Building Now

from Life, Dilemmas & Dad Stuff · host Tommy Kende

Hey guys, Have definitely been quiet for a while.Not because I didn’t have anything to say, but because I felt like I didn’t have my shit together.In this first episode back, I talk about: what the last couple of years have really been like  becoming a dad and how much it actually changes you  losing direction, identity, and a sense of purpose  the pressure that comes with trying to hold it all together Even though things feel uncertain right now, I’ve never felt more grounded in myself.This isn’t a polished “I’ve figured it all out” conversation.It’s real life — while I’m still in it.If this resonates:If you’re feeling stuck, off track, or trying to figure things out — you’re not alone.I’ve opened up a few spots to work with people 1:1 again.Feel free to reach out on Instagram: @tommykende or my website www.tommykende.comWhat to expect from this podcast:Real conversations about: fatherhood  relationships  pressure  identity  and figuring life out as you go No fluff. No pretending. Just honest conversations.“New episodes weekly.”

Hey guys, Have definitely been quiet for a while. Not because I didn’t have anything to say, but because I felt like I didn’t have my shit together. In this first episode back, I talk about: what the last couple of years have really been like becoming a dad and how much it actually changes you losing direction, identity, and a sense of purpose the pressure that comes with trying to hold it all together Even though things feel uncertain right n...

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