Why Is Miscarriage Aftercare So Broken? Natassa’s Pregnancy Loss Advocacy Story

No one tells you what happens after a miscarriage—the silence, the unanswered questions, the fear that follows, and the grief you’re expected to carry quietly. For Natassa Wachsman, that silence became the beginning of something much bigger.In this episode, Natassa shares her journey through miscarriage, pregnancy loss, and pregnancy after loss, including two very different losses—one at nearly 13 weeks that required a D&C, and another in early pregnancy. She opens up about waking up after her first loss hoping it had all been a nightmare, navigating grief while parenting living children, and the heartbreak of having her pain minimized because her losses were considered “early.”After discovering her miscarriage documented as “spontaneous abortion” in her medical records—and receiving little to no follow-up care, mental health support, or guidance—Natassa knew something had to change. That moment led her to found We Are One In Four, a nonprofit dedicated to improving miscarriage support, pregnancy loss awareness, compassionate aftercare, and medical language surrounding loss.In this conversation, we discuss:How to talk to living children about miscarriage and pregnancy lossThe fear and emotional weight of pregnancy after lossGrief therapy and mental health support for loss parentsWhy miscarriage terminology matters in healthcareAdvocacy efforts to improve hospital and OB-GYN protocolsTurning grief into purpose through community, education, and actionThis episode is for anyone navigating miscarriage, infertility, pregnancy after loss, grief, and healing—and for those who believe that loss parents deserve better care, clearer answers, and real support. Natassa’s story is a reminder that grief should never be ignored, and that healing can begin when someone dares to speak up.