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EPISODE · Mar 21, 2026 · 17 MIN

Why Mismatched Desire in Relationships Is Totally Normal — And How to Bridge the Gap

from THE MAKING OF ME · host Aro Benaiah Kehinde

Ever wondered why you and your partner don’t always want intimacy at the same time? You’re not alone!In this episode of The Making of Me Podcast, intimacy coach Dr. Laura Jurgens explores the reality of desire gaps (libido mismatches) in relationships—why they’re so common, the shame many couples feel, and practical steps to reconnect and find true fulfillment together.Laura explains how societal pressures and unrealistic expectations can affect intimacy, and shares compassionate, actionable advice for couples navigating mismatched desire. Whether you’re looking to improve communication, strengthen connection, or better understand your partner, this episode provides insights that work in real life.In this episode, you will learn:• Why mismatched desire happens in relationships• How shame and expectations impact intimacy• Practical strategies to bridge the desire gap• Ways to reconnect and find fulfillment as a couple🎧 Ready for more support and guidance? Access Laura Jurgens’ free guide, resources, and contact info here:https://laurajurgens.com/Subscribe for more honest conversations about love, healing, and connection!#Relationships #Intimacy #DesireGap #SexualWellness #CouplesAdvice #PodcastHighlights

Ever wondered why you and your partner don’t always want intimacy at the same time? You’re not alone!In this episode of The Making of Me Podcast, intimacy coach Dr. Laura Jurgens explores the reality of desire gaps (libido mismatches) in relationships—why they’re so common, the shame many couples feel, and practical steps to reconnect and find true fulfillment together.Laura explains how societal pressures and unrealistic expectations can affect intimacy, and shares compassionate, actionable advice for couples navigating mismatched desire. Whether you’re looking to improve communication, strengthen connection, or better understand your partner, this episode provides insights that work in real life.In this episode, you will learn:• Why mismatched desire happens in relationships• How shame and expectations impact intimacy• Practical strategies to bridge the desire gap• Ways to reconnect and find fulfillment as a couple🎧 Ready for more support and guidance? Access Laura Jurgens’ free guide, resources, and contact info here:https://laurajurgens.com/Subscribe for more honest conversations about love, healing, and connection!#Relationships #Intimacy #DesireGap #SexualWellness #CouplesAdvice #PodcastHighlights

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