Why Not Everyone Claps When You Win: Growth, Jealousy & Becoming Yourself

What happens when you grow — and not everyone claps? A raw, honest conversation about growth, jealousy, friendship, and becoming yourself. In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, host Mel Histon, is joined by Jaimie Abbott and Alex Morris to reflect on the past year — the wins, the wounds, and the lessons learned from their experiences and that come with becoming yourself. Together, they explore the twists and turns of personal growth, the quiet realities of jealousy, frenemies and how friendships and relationships can shift when you stop shrinking and start stepping fully into who you are. This episode moves between light-hearted moments and deeper reflections, touching on visibility, self-trust, and the courage it takes to keep going — even when support isn’t guaranteed. As year ends, along with the transformative energy of the Year of the Snake — this conversation invites you to consider what you’re shedding, what you’re carrying forward, and how to honour your own evolution without apology, as we step into a new year. Mel, Jaimie and Alex share insights on navigating relationships, the lessons learned from their experiences, and their aspirations for the upcoming year of 2026. They emphasize the significance of being true to oneself and the power of genuine connections, encouraging listeners to embrace their own journeys of self-discovery and growth. If you’ve ever felt misunderstood, unsupported, or unsure as you’ve grown into your next chapter, this episode will meet you right where you are. Connect with Jaimie: Follow Jaimie on Instagram: @jaimieabbott www.jaimieabbott.com.au Listen Jaimie's podcast: Pitch Perfect with Jaimie Abbott Connect with Alex Morris:  Instagram @alexmorriswrite Substack: alexmorriswrite.substack.com Watch the podcast video on YouTube: @heysoulsista Connect with MEL HISTON: Subscribe to make sure you hear the next instalment of Hey Soul Sista! Instagram @melissahiston Instagram @heysoulsistapodcast Watch the podcast video on YouTube: @heysoulsista Website: heysoulsista.com Website: gotyourbacksista.com              See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.