Why Saying Yes When Your Body Says No Is Destroying You

Have you ever found yourself saying “yes” when every fiber of your body is begging you to say “no”? In this episode, I sit down with Margarita Kogan, a licensed clinical social worker and founder of Honor and Heal, to unpack the true cost of self-abandonment and how midlife isn’t about “reinventing” yourself, but about rediscovering who you really are.We dive deep into the ways we lose ourselves under the weight of expectations, people-pleasing, and burnout. Margarita shares how to listen to your body’s wisdom, regulate your nervous system, and find your most authentic self not with a drastic life change, but with gentle honesty and supportive community.If you’ve been feeling emotionally exhausted, short-tempered, or just disconnected from your own life, this conversation will help you recognize the warning signs plus give you powerful, practical tools you can start today.Here’s what you’ll learn:How to spot early warning signs of emotional exhaustion and self-abandonmentWhy your nervous system holds the key to healing, and how to start tuning inThree essential questions to reconnect with your authentic selfThe role of community and why sharing your truth with the right people accelerates true healingWhy midlife is the perfect moment to stop abandoning yourself and start taking up spaceMusic:  Title: Relax by SyncLabMusic Call to Action: Is there a place in your life where you are saying “Yes” but your body is saying “No”? Let me know in the comments whether you feel it in your shoulders, jaw, or stomach. Ready to transform your life by setting boundaries and embracing self-care? Like, share, comment, and subscribe 📕 Resources: https://createthebestme.com/ep152Get Margarita Kogan’s Free Boundary Script:  https://boundaries.backtoselfhealing.com/landing-page-bts-pageLearn more about the Honor and Heal Program:  https://www.margaritakogan.com/  Related Episode:🎧 Listen to this episode: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1949561/episodes/17441076  #MargaritaKogan #BackToSelfHealing #PeoplePleasing #SomaticHealing #Boundaries #NervousSystemRegulation #SelfAbandonment #MidlifeWomen #CreateTheBestMe #MentalHealth📨 Newsletter:https://createthebestme.com/newsletter/ 👀 Connect With Me:Website: https://createthebestme.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/createthebestmeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/carmenhecox/TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@carmenhecoxYouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@createthebestmeLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/carmen-hecox 📽️ Video Request:https://forms.office.com/r/LvLV1AsBfv