Why So Many Married Parents Struggle With Intimacy (And How to Fix It)

Many parents love each other deeply - yet quietly struggle with intimacy after kids, stress, and years of responsibility take over.In this powerful episode of the Dad to Dads Podcast, intimacy coach Dan Purcell shares how sexual connection, communication, and emotional safety directly impact marriage, parenting, and overall family health.Dan opens up about his own journey from a conservative upbringing where sex wasn’t discussed, to helping couples rebuild intimacy without shame, pressure, or obligation. This conversation goes far beyond the bedroom — touching on trust, communication, stress, parenting, and what it really takes to maintain a strong marriage in midlife.If you’re a parent feeling disconnected, exhausted, or unsure how to talk about intimacy in your marriage, this episode offers practical insights, relatable stories, and a healthier framework for rebuilding connection.In this episode, we discuss:Why intimacy problems are extremely common among parentsHow obligation and “duty-based” sex damages connectionThe role of communication and emotional safety in marriageHow stress, kids, work, and aging affect intimacyWhy “good enough” intimacy is often the goal for busy parentsPractical ways couples can reconnect without pressure or shameThis episode is educational, honest, and designed for parents who want stronger marriages — not perfection.👇 Let us know in the comments: What has been the biggest challenge to intimacy in your marriage since becoming parents?🔔 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with another parent who may need to hear it.RESOURCES MENTIONEDDan Purcell’s App: Intimately UsFree Resources for Parents: https://getyourmarriageon.com/dad2dadsPodcast: Get Your Marriage OnSend us Fan Mail