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Aug 20, 2025 10 min

Why the words you use REALLY matter

from #BeMoreLobster Hosted by Louise Cartwright

The words you use are SO much more than language, they create spells. Spells that determine what your life looks and feels like. In this short and potent episode, I ask you to see what happens when you become more conscious of the impact and effect of your language - especially when it comes to the words we use with ourselves. And it begins with this question. Is it sacrifice or investment? You see, the words we use don't just decide the action we take, but how we FEEL and WHO we are when we take that action. The identity we inhabit, and our ability to stick with the things that truly matter. I reflect on how the “sacrifice” mindset can paint us as martyrs or victims—draining our energy, motivation and self-trust—while an “investment” frame establishes us as empowered creators, intentionally choosing where to place our time, energy, and attention. I take yo another layer deeper when I show you the ripple effect of language: how it shapes our emotional and energetic state, fortifies (or undermines) our long-term motivation, and transforms mundane daily decisions into acts of self-devotion and trust. Instead of seeing you routines, to-do's or and boundaries as something that costs you, I ask you to see those daily choices as investments that pay you compound interest in every area of your life. This is a heartfelt reminder that lasting transformation doesn’t demand struggle or grand gestures, but begins with the simplest, most powerful shift: the words you choose every single day. If this episode sparked something for you, I'd be so grateful if you’d subscribe, leave a short review, and share this conversation with a friend or on social media. Thank you for being here as we all seek more simplicity, magic, and self-connection. Join my email community here. If you'd like to discuss what it would be like to work with me as your 1-1 coach, cheerleader and dream creator - book your call now. You can find me on Insta here Join my FB Group

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The words you use are SO much more than language, they create spells. Spells that determine what your life looks and feels like. In this short and potent episode, I ask you to see what happens when you become more conscious of the impact and effect of your language - especially when it comes to the words we use with ourselves. And it begins with this question. Is it sacrifice or investment? You see, the words we use don't just decide the action we take, but how we FEEL and WHO ...

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