EPISODE · Aug 14, 2022 · 43 MIN
Why We All Fall in Love with the Wrong Person
from Speak Plainly Podcast · host Owl
Send us Fan MailHey everybody we're back with another Episode! This one is about why we fall in love with, date and marry the WRONG person! WE all do it. We don't really have a choice it seems. Ive taken notes over the years on relationship trends. And I've taken what I know about psychology attachment theory developmental psychology and and the biology of behavior and looked at these trends through those lenses to create a pretty simple blue print that combines karma, psychotherapy and why we all have that one friend who keeps dating essentially the same guy over and over again. Take a listen I hope you enjoy yourself!IMPORTANT!!: I realized while editing I never really explained what a Chronic Stress Adapted person is; A CSA for short, is a person with 4 or more ACEs or Adverse Childhood Experiences. (See ACEs episode for more info) Chronic Stress Adapted is a term that makes discussing the subject much easier and clearer that I use a lot in Rethinking Broken. People with 4 or more ACE's are at significantly higher risk for many types of health outcomes including suicide stroke and congestive heart failure due to the stress experienced in early life. Music by Wutaboi Patreonwww.patreon.com Social MediaFacebook: www.facebook.com/owlcmedicineInstagram: www.instagram.com/owlmedicineTwitter: www.twitter.com/owlmedicine My Websiteswww.owlchrysalismedicine.comwww.decolonizehealthcare.comwww.rethinkingbroken.com Support the showMusic by WutaboiEmail us at [email protected] Buy me a coffee at www.buymeacoffee.com/owlmedicine Social MediaFacebook: www.facebook.com/owlcmedicineInstagram: www.instagram.com/owlcmedicine My Websiteswww.owlchrysalismedicine.comwww.decolonizehealthcare.comwww.rethinkingbroken.com#rethinkingbroken #CPTSD#chronicstressadapted #ComplexPTSD#childhoodtrauma #Authorpodcast #bestsellingauthor #queerauthor#adhd #dyslexia #dyscalclia #Queer #queerpodcast #queerhost#adultswithadhd #veteran #therapist #nonfictionauthor #traumaauthor#undiagnisedadhd #childhoodtrauma #trauma #lifeaftertrauma #PTSD
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Send us Fan Mail Hey everybody we're back with another Episode! This one is about why we fall in love with, date and marry the WRONG person! WE all do it. We don't really have a choice it seems. Ive taken notes over the years on relationship trends. And I've taken what I know about psychology attachment theory developmental psychology and and the biology of behavior and looked at these trends through those lenses to create a pretty simple blue print that combines karma, psychotherapy an...
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