Why We Pull Away When Someone Treats Us Right

Have you ever wondered why you push people away just when they start treating you well? In this episode, Jordan Murphy explores the deep psychological and physiological reasons behind this common pattern. From trauma and abuse to attachment styles and self-worth struggles, we break down why your body and brain might be wired to protect you- even from love. Learn practical strategies to recognize these patterns, build trust, and embrace healthy relationships without fear.🔹 Follow @hervoicematterspodcast on Instagram🔹 Leave a review if this spoke to you — it helps more women find this message.If you’re struggling, consider therapy with our sponsor. Visit https://betterhelp.com/jordanmurphy for a discount on your first month of therapy.Submit inquiries and questions to [email protected] all of my products right there! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Have you ever wondered why you push people away just when they start treating you well? In this episode, Jordan Murphy explores the deep psychological and physiological reasons behind this common pattern. From trauma and abuse to attachment styles and self-worth struggles, we break down why your body and brain might be wired to protect you- even from love. Learn practical strategies to recognize these patterns, build trust, and embrace healthy relationships without fear.🔹 Follow @hervoicematterspodcast on Instagram🔹 Leave a review if this spoke to you — it helps more women find this message.If you’re struggling, consider therapy with our sponsor. Visit https://betterhelp.com/jordanmurphy for a discount on your first month of therapy.Submit inquiries and questions to [email protected] all of my products right there! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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