Why we shouldn't criticize our children

Send us Fan MailGrowing up, I was no stranger to criticism. Now, as an adult, I can't help but notice its lingering effects on my self-esteem, my internal narrative, and my motivation. For better or worse, that criticism has shaped me. In this episode, we explore how a critical environment can influence marriages and parenting. We unpack the early warning signs that criticism could signal in marriages, and draw parallels with our relationships with our children.Moving into the second half, we shift our focus to communication with our children. The weight of criticism is heavy on their growing shoulders. It can knock their self-esteem down, and shape their inner voice, sometimes in damaging ways. It's a balance we have to strike - maintaining firmness without sacrificing warmth and sensitivity. Listen in as we delve into the power and potential of language. We discuss how our words can inspire our children, rather than criticize them, and how we can foster their growth, instead of stifling it. This episode is not just about the impact of criticism; it's a conversation about resilience, nurturing positive relationships, and the immeasurable power we hold as parents.FREE weekly activities teaching kids about emotions:https://www.wondergrade.com/printablesCurious Neuron Podcast Episode about negotiation: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/curious-neuron/id1440533170?i=1000618304723Sources: Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ by Daniel Goleman HEREParental behavioural control in adolescence: How does it affect self-esteem and self-criticism? HEREHow to Make Repair Attempts So Your Partner Feels Loved HEREParents’ Use of Praise and Criticism in a Sample of Young Children Seeking Mental Health Services HEREFamily Emotional Processes and Adolescents' Adjustment HERESupport the showJoin the Reflective Parent Book Club for only $9.99 for the year: https://reflectiveparentclub.circle.so/checkout/reflective-parenting-book-clubWatch my Tedx Talk on YouTube called The Over-Educated, Emotionally Underprepared Parent: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nDYJFY_9K9E&t=19sGrab my course for $99, The Emotionally Aware Parent: https://curiousneuron.com/reflective-parent-club/Doors open to join the next 8-week training (Starts Oct 12th) here https://curiousneuron.com/reflective-parent-club/