EPISODE · Jun 20, 2022 · 3 MIN
Why You Abandon Yourself
from Trigger Proof Transmissions · host Nima Rahmany
SELF ABANDONMENT 101 Co-dependency, Toxic Relationships, and Trauma bonds... This is all unconscious patterning. We've been conditioned from a very young age to feel that our being-ness only is worthy of love so long as we fulfill certain criteria and achievement. While on one hand, this is done with all the right intentions, and helps drive us to succeed. On the other hand it creates a feeling of anxiety, an "unsafe" feeling in the body... A constant yearning to try to prove our worth... As deep inside we crave being seen and understood and appreciated for exactly who we are. If we don't sort this out, relationships become inauthentic and we end up feeling hollow... completely reliant on how others perceive us. WE ABANDON OURSELVES IN SERVICE OF EXTERNAL VALIDATION AND APPROVAL. We then become needy and insecure, and that type of energy keeps us stuck in business and life. What's in the way of us reconnecting to ourselves is our INTOLERANCE to feeling our feelings. We start to become afraid of fear itself. When you finally stop distracting, and start taking responsibility and taking the steps, You then gain access to the "Crowning Achievement" of humanity: Secure healthy attachments in family dynamics, with healthy boundaries.... Romantic Relationships that are based on mutuality, and INTERdependence instead of Co-dependence... A feeling of safety in the body, Breaking the cycle of trauma in family systems, And lowered sense of anxiety as your level of confidence and resilient flow with the challenges of life emerge. You then look around and there could be a disaster going on around you-- but you are like a rock throughout the challenge. But not until you turn self-abandonment around. This is a clip of a 90 minute training on how to Regulate your Nervous System to create stable healthy relationships. Send me a DM saying "I want the training" and I'll give you a promo code to make it free. Grab a tissue, this will deeply impact you and will help you make sense of your relationship challenges. _________________________________ Upcoming Masterclass "SHOULD I STAY OR GO?" Live Event (Every month) If you’re stuck in limbo, in repetitive relationship patterns, same arguments, attracting the same patterns, and you want to gain the clarity, confidence, and Courage to create secure relationships Upcoming Overview Experience Virtual Event (Every month) Dissolve your current relationship resentment, heal your attachment wounds, resolve your past and bring clarity to your next step. Or if you are wanting to hop on a call and discuss how we can support you through your transition and you're wanting deeper guidance on your healing journey and you're ready to break the cycle of inter-generational trauma (divorce, separation, relationship limbo, past trauma spilling into present) Join my Facebook Group to help you understand yourself, control your triggers, regulate your nervous system and know what's keeping you stuck in these times of crisis: Are you on Telegram? Click here to join my channel for some TriggerProof wisdom to keep your nervous system regulated, your soul in your body, and your heart aligned with your purpose.
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SELF ABANDONMENT 101 Co-dependency, Toxic Relationships, and Trauma bonds... This is all unconscious patterning. We've been conditioned from a very young age to feel that our being-ness only is worthy of love so long as we fulfill certain criteria and achievement. While on one hand, this is done with all the right intentions, and helps drive us to succeed. On the other hand it creates a feeling of anxiety, an "unsafe" feeling in the body... A constant yearning to try to prove our worth... As deep inside we crave being seen and understood and appreciated for exactly who we are. If we don't sort this out, relationships become inauthentic and we end up feeling hollow... completely reliant on how others perceive us. WE ABANDON OURSELVES IN SERVICE OF EXTERNAL VALIDATION AND APPROVAL. We then become needy and insecure, and that type of energy keeps us stuck in business and life. What's in the way of us reconnecting to ourselves is our INTOLERANCE to feeling our feelings. We start to become afraid of fear itself. When you finally stop distracting, and start taking responsibility and taking the steps, You then gain access to the "Crowning Achievement" of humanity: Secure healthy attachments in family dynamics, with healthy boundaries.... Romantic Relationships that are based on mutuality, and INTERdependence instead of Co-dependence... A feeling of safety in the body, Breaking the cycle of trauma in family systems, And lowered sense of anxiety as your level of confidence and resilient flow with the challenges of life emerge. You then look around and there could be a disaster going on around you-- but you are like a rock throughout the challenge. But not until you turn self-abandonment around. This is a clip of a 90 minute training on how to Regulate your Nervous System to create stable healthy relationships. Send me a DM saying "I want the training" and I'll give you a promo code to make it free. Grab a tissue, this will deeply impact you and will help you make sense of your relationship challenges.
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