Why You Keep Second-Guessing Yourself (And Why It’s Not the Problem) | S3E9

You know that feeling when you say something in a conversation or make a decision and then later, you start replaying it in your head.Did I say the wrong thing?Was that the right choice?Should I have done something different?Most advice will tell you to stop second-guessing.To “trust yourself,” move on, and don’t look back.But what if second-guessing isn’t actually the problem?In this episode, I’m breaking down why you second-guess yourself and how this habit might actually be trying to help you, not hurt you.Because there are two very different ways to second-guess yourself:One that keeps you stuck in anxiety, overthinking, and self-judgmentAnd one that helps you reflect, learn, and build real self-trust.And the difference between the two?It has nothing to do with the decision…It has everything to do with whether you trust yourself after you make one.We’ll walk through:-Why second-guessing happens (and what it’s actually trying to do)-The difference between rumination and reflection-How self-trust changes everything-How to use second-guessing in a way that actually moves you forwardThis is part of a bigger conversation about self-trust, decision-making, and navigating uncertainty.If you’ve ever felt stuck in your head after making a decision this episode is for you.This episode also sets up next week’s conversation:Why can't I make a decision?🎧 Authenticity Lab is the podcast where we run life experiments.Because life isn’t something to solve. It’s something to discover.If this resonated, subscribe and share it with someone who’s been feeling this too.🎧 Run your next life experiment.Because self-trust is built one discovery at a time.Be bold.Be curious.Be you.✨ Want to try the Life Experiments method for yourself?Email “COURSE” [email protected] I’ll send you the free mini-course with short videos and a worksheet to help you design your first small experiment.📓 Want to reclaim your voice?My guided journal + album “I Am” helped me and others build self-trust.Get your copy here: www.kelseymiles.com/100days✨ Support the work on Patreon:www.patreon.com/kelseymilesConnect with me:https://www.facebook.com/iamkelseymileshttps://www.youtube.com/c/KelseyMileshttps://www.instagram.com/iamkelseymileshttps://kelseymiles.com