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Aug 5, 2025 30 min

Why you need to stop chasing the “spark”

from Let’s Get It On Hosted by Cindra Banks

We’ve been sold a lie…that the spark is everything. That butterflies = the one. That if it fades, it must be over. In this episode, I’m flipping that script. I share why the real magic in a relationship often begins after the spark fades, when masks drop, when it gets a little boring, and when you start building something that actually lasts. Inside: 💭 The truth about the spark (and why it fades) 💡 How to create safety + depth instead of chasing chaos 🧠 Epic journaling prompts to clarify your relationship values, whether you're single or partnered 💌 A whole new perspective on love, longevity, and building a real relationship This one’s a sigh of relief,especially if you’ve ever wondered: “Is it meant to feel like this?” 🎧 Listen now wherever you get your podcasts 👉 Follow me on IG @cindrabanks ⭐️ Rate & review if it hit home!

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