EPISODE · Sep 16, 2026 · 4 MIN
Why You Should Stop Trying To Fix People (And What To Do Instead)!
from Pajama Gramma Podcast · host Sharon Horne-Ellstrom
Why You Should Stop Trying To Fix People (And What To Do Instead)! Feel WITH People, Not FOR Them: Empathy That Builds Trust! Supersize You Annual Challenge Day 259! Join us every day in 2026 for a quick challenge that is all about you Improving and creating the life you want! https://www.facebook.com/ThrivingSharon Ask your questions and share your wisdom! #supersize #doonethingeverydaytosupersizeyou #lessonslearned #supersizeyouannualchallenge #emotionalintelligence #emotion #lifeframework #wordsmatter #feelingwheel #nameemotion #betterdecisions #emotionalnrinhd #frustration #feelingmeans #emotioanlmessage #suppressemotion #feelittohealit #acknowledgeemotion #EQ #5pillarsofemotionalintellience #selfawareness #selfregulation #empathy #feelwithpeople #empathybuildstrust Mastering empathy is the key to building stronger, more authentic connections with the people in your life. Most of us instinctively try to fix problems or commiserate when someone we care about is struggling. However, true emotional intelligence requires us to practice active listening and simply be present. Sharon Horne-Ellstrom explains why we should feel with people rather than for them, shifting our focus from solving their issues to supporting their humanity. This approach moves beyond surface-level sympathy and fosters a deeper, more genuine bond. By learning how to deal with people instead of trying to manage their situations, you can create a safe space for others to express themselves without judgment. Whether you are navigating complex professional dynamics or personal relationships, these principles will help you maintain emotional boundaries while staying connected. Developing this level of empathy is a daily practice, one that even applies to the simplest interactions. Subscribe for more daily lessons on building better relationships and improving your emotional intelligence, and let me know in the comments: what is one situation where you have struggled to just listen instead of fixing?
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