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EPISODE · Sep 5, 2025 · 30 MIN

Why You're Scared to Work on Yourself (And How to Start Anyway)

from The Confidence Chronicles

What happens when you work on yourself? Are you worried, concerned, scared or apprehensive about doing the inner work? About putting yourself first? About working on yourself?  I was too, for YEARS I suffered with no confidence, lacking worthiness, not feeling enough, getting into toxic relationships and having really crappy friends.  If you’ve been avoiding this work like I was, I want to remind you that by choosing to NOT do this work … you are actually choosing. You are letting life happen TO you, rather than taking control and living a life that is on purpose and fulfilled.   In today’s episode I’m going to share with you some of the reasons WHY people are afraid to put themselves first, why I avoided this and what ACTUALLY happens when you do.  You’ll hear:  • Why you are AVOIDING this  • How to use your past to UNLOCK the lessons, the blessings and the next thing you desire • The top FOUR reasons women are terrified to work on themselves.   … and so much more! Are you ready to put YOURSELF first and work on YOU to make shit happen in your life - Join the Sistahood (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/sistahood/) 👑 Want to request a podcast? Have a question for me? Click here to request a podcast! (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/podcasts/) 👑 Loving this podcast? Please leave me a review so other women who needs this can find this show (https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-confidence-chronicles/id1439434022) 👑 Are we friends on Instagram? If not come say hello @thequeenofconfidence (https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/) Lastly - THANK YOU for listening, I APPRECIATE YOU! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information. 👑 *READY TO BUILD YOUR AUTHORITY, CONFIDENCE & PERSONAL BRAND?* ♟️ *The Queen's Table* My high-level mentorship for women ready to step into leadership, visibility and legacy. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-queens-table/ 👑 *MORE WAYS TO WORK WITH ME* ✨ *The Next Level* Build your confidence, audience and income. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-next-level/ 📖 *My Book – Becoming The One* → https://www.amazon.com/ 🎙 *Listen to the Podcast* → https://podcasts.apple.com/ 📱 *Come Say Hi on Instagram* → https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/ ⭐ *If this episode resonated, share it with someone who needs to hear it.*

What happens when you work on yourself? Are you worried, concerned, scared or apprehensive about doing the inner work? About putting yourself first? About working on yourself?  I was too, for YEARS I suffered with no confidence, lacking worthiness, not feeling enough, getting into toxic relationships and having really crappy friends.  If you’ve been avoiding this work like I was, I want to remind you that by choosing to NOT do this work … you are actually choosing. You are letting life happen TO you, rather than taking control and living a life that is on purpose and fulfilled.   In today’s episode I’m going to share with you some of the reasons WHY people are afraid to put themselves first, why I avoided this and what ACTUALLY happens when you do.  You’ll hear:  • Why you are AVOIDING this  • How to use your past to UNLOCK the lessons, the blessings and the next thing you desire • The top FOUR reasons women are terrified to work on themselves.   … and so much more! Are you ready to put YOURSELF first and work on YOU to make shit happen in your life - Join the Sistahood (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/sistahood/) 👑 Want to request a podcast? Have a question for me? Click here to request a podcast! (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/podcasts/) 👑 Loving this podcast? Please leave me a review so other women who needs this can find this show (https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-confidence-chronicles/id1439434022) 👑 Are we friends on Instagram? If not come say hello @thequeenofconfidence (https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/) Lastly - THANK YOU for listening, I APPRECIATE YOU! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information. 👑 *READY TO BUILD YOUR AUTHORITY, CONFIDENCE & PERSONAL BRAND?* ♟️ *The Queen's Table* My high-level mentorship for women ready to step into leadership, visibility and legacy. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-queens-table/ 👑 *MORE WAYS TO WORK WITH ME* ✨ *The Next Level* Build your confidence, audience and income. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-next-level/ 📖 *My Book – Becoming The One* → https://www.amazon.com/ 🎙 *Listen to the Podcast* → https://podcasts.apple.com/ 📱 *Come Say Hi on Instagram* → https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/ ⭐ *If this episode resonated, share it with someone who needs to hear it.*

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