Winning the Argument vs. Winning the Marriage: Stop Fighting Dirty

In this episode of Doing Marriage Well (April 2, 2026), Paul examines how learned communication patterns—yelling, sarcasm, silent treatment, threats, and other hurtful tactics—turn arguments into battles that damage marriages. He explains why trying to "win" an argument leaves both partners and the relationship worse off. Paul offers a better approach: speak honestly but non‑confrontationally, listen for understanding, ask clarifying questions, and work toward solutions that let both partners feel heard and respected. Related resources are available in the show notes. Related Article: From Toxic Arguments to Constructive Disputes: Ending Dirty Fighting | Ananias Foundation