Writing Erotica for the Oldies

I’ve been looking forward to this conversation for a couple of months, since coming across Stella Fosse on Substack. A rarity in the world of romance and erotic writing, Stella has a unique perspective, writing for and about older adults. We discuss the challenges and biases in the publishing industry, the importance of representation, and the evolving landscape of self-publishing. Stella shares her journey into writing, the differences between erotica and romance, and the significance of community and social media in building an audience. Our conversation highlights the joy of writing as a form of play and the potential for older characters to inspire readers.Takeaways* The publishing industry often favours younger characters in romance and erotica.* Older women writing erotica can challenge societal norms and stereotypes.* Self-publishing has opened new avenues for authors to share their work.* Erotica focuses on sexuality, while romance centres on character development and relationships.* Diversity in romance writing is still a work in progress.* Marketing for indie authors requires a different approach than traditional publishing.* Social media is crucial for building an audience and credibility.* Writing can be a playful exploration of fantasies and desires.* Community support among writers enhances the creative process.* Older characters in romance can provide relatable role models for readers.Gift Yourself or Others a Subscription to Sex Advice for Seniors This Christmas!As the holiday season approaches, consider giving the gift of knowledge and open conversation about sexuality in later life. Subscribing to Sex Advice for Seniors supports the destigmatisation of these important discussions and highlights the incredible individuals I've interviewed who share this passion. Join us in fostering a more open dialogue about sex and ageing!Chapters00:00 Introduction to Erotic Writing for Older Audiences02:54 The Journey into Writing Erotica05:49 Breaking Age Stereotypes in Romance09:06 The Evolution of Publishing and Self-Publishing12:10 Understanding the Differences: Erotica vs. Romance14:54 Diversity and Representation in Romance Writing17:52 Marketing Strategies for Indie Authors21:02 The Role of Social Media in Building an Audience24:04 The Creative Process of Writing Erotica27:06 Exploring Fantasies Through Writing29:59 The Importance of Community in Writing33:01 Conclusion and Future AspirationsWebsite:  www.stellafosse.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/StellaFosseAuthor/Twitter: stellafosseLinkedIn:  www.linkedin.com/in/stellafosseInstagram:  @stella.fosseCheck out Stella’s Books and Stories:https://stellafosse.com/stella-fosses-books-stories/Write & Sell a Well-Seasoned Romance:Launch Your Author Adventure in Late-Life RomanceVampires of a Certain Age:Five Hundred Years of LovingBrilliant Charming B*****d:Getting Rich is the Best RevengeThe Erotic Pandemic Ball:  Tales of Love in LockdownAphrodite's Pen: The Power of Writing Erotica After Midlife This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.sexadviceforseniors.com/subscribe