Yes Behind The Yes

Telling the truth gets easier once you understand why you keep saying yes. In this episode of The SIPS Experience, Cylla sits down with Katy Jayne for an honest conversation about consent, desire, obligation, and the quiet reasons behind our yeses. They talk about the clenched-teeth yes, the yes given to keep the peace, the yes that comes from guilt — and what changes when a no is treated as information instead of rejection. And stay for the question that might just change your relationships — the question every couple should be asking more often. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS • What "the yes behind the yes" actually means • The six drivers behind a yes: desire, obligation, fear, love, habit, and guilt • Why "can I change my answer?" is the heart of consent • How a partner can check in without making it weird • The question every couple should ask more often TAKE THE QUIZ What's driving your yes? Take the free Intimacy Archetype Quiz and discover how you love: https://sips.media/quiz GO DEEPER Join Bloom on Patreon for exclusive audio, guided practices, and our monthly live Q&A: https://sips.media ABOUT THE SHOW The SIPS Experience is hosted by Cylla Kavanaugh — ICF-certified coach (PCC), certified sex educator, and founder of SIPS Media (Siren Intimate Purpose Studios). New episodes every Tuesday and Thursday. © 2026 SIPS Media. All rights reserved.