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Self Love Circle Podcast
by Cylla Kavanaugh
Hosted by Cylla Kavanaugh, also known as Dee Siren — retired adult film star, licensed sex educator, and Dual Certified Soul Purpose & Spiritual Life Coach. Welcome to the Self Love Circle, a safe, sacred space where women (and open-hearted men) come to heal, awaken, and reclaim their power. Each episode blends raw honesty, spiritual wisdom, and practical tools to help you deepen your relationship with yourself — mind, body, heart, and soul. Cylla draws from her own transformative journey. From her experiences in the adult industry to her current path as a licensed sex educator and certified coach. To guide conversations that are both liberating and deeply supportive. Listeners can expect: Real talk about self-worth, body image, and sexual empowerment Soul purpose discovery and spiritual awakening practices Healing from shame, trauma, and people-pleasing Sacred sexuality, pleasure, and conscious relationships Mindset shifts, energy work, and practical self-love rituals Guest interv
Episodes
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How I Truly Feel About the Adult Industry
Twenty years inside this industry, and I have never said all of this in one place. Not the defensive version. Not the shame version. The real one. I came into this business in 2009. I built a studio. I lost it. I took my name back. So when I talk about exploitation, I am not guessing. I am…
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Yes Behind The Yes
Telling the truth gets easier once you understand why you keep saying yes. In this episode of The SIPS Experience, Cylla sits down with Katy Jayne for an honest conversation about consent, desire, obligation, and the quiet reasons behind our yeses. They talk about the clenched-teeth yes, the yes...
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Money, Power, and Who Gets to Set the Price
In this episode of The SIPS Experience Podcast, we talk money and power — and who gets to set the price. From money as power and desire, to why so many women undercharge and overdeliver in their work, this conversation unpacks the money stories and wounds we carry, and the path to discovering…
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Honor Your Own Yes | Consent & Self-Trust
Consent is not just a yes or no - it's a conversation with your body, your boundaries, and the people around you. Cylla breaks down why “I guess so” is not enthusiasm, how the FRIES framework reveals whether a yes is truly free, informed, reversible, enthusiastic, and specific, and why the first...
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Your Body Is Prayer | Sacred Sensuality
My audio disappeared, my co-host was out, so I showed up anyway. That felt like the most honest version of this episode. Drop a 🙋🏽♀️ if you’ve had to keep going when the plan fell apart. This one is for anyone who’s been taught their body is a problem, a product, or a sin.I’m talking about…
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Consent: Pleasure with Principles
Most people get consent, testing, and boundaries in sex wildly wrong and that misunderstanding can wreck both relationships and safety. Cylla and Katy Jayne pull back the curtain on what actually happens on set, then show you exactly how those same rules can transform intimacy off camera. They...
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What's Your Intimacy Archetype? | Take the Quiz
Cylla, Joslyn Jane, and Katy Jayne turn an intimacy quiz into a brutally honest look at desire, boundaries, loyalty, and why some people are built to stay while others are built to wander. Cylla sets the tone by having both guests take a six-question intimacy archetype quiz live, then breaks down...
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OnlyFans Is Not What You Think
The OnlyFans era changed adult content forever, but not in the way most people think. Cylla and Katy Jayne break down what the platform really is, why “fan platform” does not automatically mean hardcore content, and how creators can take back control without handing their business to gatekeepers....
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Before OnlyFans (Part 1)
Before there were apps, subscriptions, and instant uploads — there were go-sees, gatekeepers, and a whole system designed to make performers carry all the risk. In Part 1 of this two-part series, Cylla and Katy Jayne trace their wildly different entry points into the adult industry: Cylla’s...
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Desire, Denied
You’re allowed to want her. You’re just not allowed to admit you paid for it.In this episode, hosts Cylla Kavanaugh and Katy Jayne dig into the double standard that lets men consume OnlyFans and adult content… then shame the women creating it. Katy breaks down the post that sparked a full...
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🎙️ Fantasy, Not a Blueprint
What you see on screen is craft — not a manual for real intimacy. In this episode, I sit down with my cohost Katy Jayne, an active adult performer, to break down the biggest misconceptions about the adult industry: trafficking assumptions, the myth that performers have no boundaries, and the idea...
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Sacred Boundaries
Sacred boundaries aren’t walls; they’re your most loving act of self-preservation. In this powerful episode of The SIPS Experience, we explore how to say no without guilt, stop people-pleasing, and protect your energy for deeper pleasure and purpose. You’ll learn: • Why boundaries are not selfish…
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Inner Child Forgiveness: Unlock Pleasure & Sacred Boundaries
Forgiving your inner child is one of the most powerful acts of self-love you can practice. In this transformative episode of Sips Experience, we explore how healing your inner child creates sacred boundaries, releases old shame, and opens the door to safe, joyful exploration of pleasure and...
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Detoxifying Your Life | Letting Go of Harmful Connections
Hey beautiful souls, We’re diving into a topic that touches so many of us right now — detoxifying our lives. In this powerful new episode of The SIPS Experience, I guide you through how to recognize harmful and toxic connections, find the strength to release them with love, and step into a…
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The Rebrand: Sensuality, Healing & Purpose
In this episode of The SIPS Experience, Cylla / Dee invites you to the table for a deeply healing conversation and guided practices that blend sensual self-love with profound inner work. Together we explore how to reconnect with your inner child, befriend your shadow, and create sacred boundaries...
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🎙️ The Evolution – Welcome to SIPS
After many months of deep alignment, Siren Studios has officially evolved into SIPS – Siren Intimate Purpose Studios. This isn’t an ending — it’s a beautiful homecoming. The bold, unapologetic sensual fire of SirenXXXStudios and the deep, tender healing of Self Love Circle are now united under…
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Healing Your Inner Child | Guided Inner Child Work
Hey loves, Today I’m opening up about something that changed everything for me . Healing your inner child. We explore how past hurts (both the big, obvious ones and the quieter, repeated ones) show up in our adult lives as anxiety, people-pleasing, perfectionism, relationship patterns, and that...
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The Journey from Mask to Authentic Self
Hey loves 💕 This is one of the most vulnerable episodes I’ve ever recorded. In this powerful solocast, I share for the first time how “Dee” — the bold, sensual, always-on character I performed for years — was officially born when I entered the swinging lifestyle. For a long time I couldn’t even...
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Discovering Your Dharma
Each of these archetypes offers a pathway to discovering your dharma, your true calling. Remember, you might resonate with more than one, bu Each of these archetypes offers a pathway to discovering your dharma, your true calling. Remember, you might resonate with more than one, but the key is...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Hosted by Cylla Kavanaugh, also known as Dee Siren — retired adult film star, licensed sex educator, and Dual Certified Soul Purpose & Spiritual Life Coach. Welcome to the Self Love Circle, a safe, sacred space where women (and open-hearted men) come to heal, awaken, and reclaim their power. Each episode blends raw honesty, spiritual wisdom, and practical tools to help you deepen your relationship with yourself — mind, body, heart, and soul. Cylla draws from her own transformative journey. From her experiences in the adult industry to her current path as a licensed sex educator and certified coach. To guide conversations that are both liberating and deeply supportive. Listeners can expect: Real talk about self-worth, body image, and sexual empowerment Soul purpose discovery and spiritual awakening practices Healing from shame, trauma, and people-pleasing Sacred sexuality, pleasure, and conscious relationships Mindset shifts, energy work, and practical self-love rituals Guest interv
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