You Can’t Outrun Yourself — Facing Life’s Hard Truths | Life Lesson Quotes — Amy Adler | Ep 97

In this episode of Relatable Wisdom, I have the pleasure of sitting down with Amy Adler, president of Five Strengths Career Transition Experts and a seasoned career coach with a knack for helping executives find their next big opportunity. Amy’s favorite quote, “Wherever you go, there you are,” is a powerful reminder that we can’t escape ourselves or the core issues we face—whether in our careers or personal lives. Amy vulnerably shares how, as a young adult, she tried to hide from life’s pressures, only to realize that confronting challenges is the only real path forward. Our conversation dives into practical wisdom about breaking free from avoidance, the difference between changing your attitude versus your behavior, and why self-reflection is the key to actual change. If you’ve ever felt stuck, feared making tough decisions, or doubted your own ability to adapt, Amy’s insights offer both inspiration and actionable strategies. Listen in for a heartfelt, wisdom-packed conversation on growth, agency, and embracing who you truly are.Connect With Amy AdlerWebsite: https://fivestrengths.comTwitter: https://x.com/AmyLAdlerIf Relatable Wisdom speaks to you—if a quote shared makes you pause, smile, or see things differently—consider subscribing so you never miss an episode. And if you have a minute, leaving a review helps more people discover these everyday voices and the wisdom they carry. Your support means the world.Every episode has more to it than what you hear. Join the Relatable Wisdom newsletter to get thoughtful reflections, behind-the-scenes extras, and personal notes that don’t make it into the show. It’s a calm space to stay inspired between listens.Sign up here: https://relatablewisdom.com/joinIf the quotes and stories you hear here offer you comfort, clarity, or connection, you can help support the podcast by buying me a coffee. Every small contribution helps keep these everyday voices and shared wisdom going strong.Support the show: https://buymeacoffee.com/wisdomhqWant to be a guest on Relatable Wisdom? Send Wisdom Okonkwo a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/relatablewisdomChapters00:00 Cognitive Dissonance And Change00:43 Welcome And Guest Introduction01:16 Amy’s Career Story01:39 Amy’s Favorite Quote01:43 Meaning Of The Quote02:11 Running From Yourself02:19 Amy’s Personal Story03:12 Advice From A Mentor04:03 Dealing With Difficulties05:10 “Pulling A Geographic”05:42 Real-Life Examples From Clients07:06 Problems That Follow Us07:31 Quote’s Cognitive Dissonance Connection08:47 Attitude Versus Behavior Change09:57 Resolving Tension: Choices We Make10:41 Knowledge Problems Aren’t Real Problems11:23 Join The Email List11:29 The Empowerment Of Learning12:14 Courage And Self-Reflection13:27 Barriers To Change13:34 Valuing Looking Smart Over Learning14:23 The Value Of Asking Questions15:10 Informational Interviewing In Practice16:14 Benefits Of Listening More17:18 How Our Choices Shape Us17:59 The Importance Of Knowledge Exchange18:05 Avoiding Versus Addressing Problems19:26 Sharing Expertise And Helping Others20:02 Wrapping Up With Amy20:26 Connect With Amy20:52 Show Outro