You Don't Have an Anger Problem — You Have a Mouth Problem

Description: What actually comes out of you when your ex squeezes you, when your kids push back, when the bill comes at the worst time? In this episode Anthony breaks down the orange test — a simple picture with a brutal application — to explain why getting squeezed doesn't create who you are, it reveals who you are, and why the ugly words that slip out under pressure are a report on what's already inside, not a character flaw you can't fix. Anthony gets personal about the moments his own mouth proved he didn't yet believe what he tells his kids, unpacks why being "double-minded" (a Greek word that literally means two-souled — two visions pulling against each other) cancels out every affirmation you don't actually believe, and walks through The Fruit Check — four moves to catch what's coming out of you and change what's feeding it before the next squeeze. In this episode: Why the words that slip out under pressure are a report on inventory, not a malfunction The orange test — why it doesn't matter who does the squeezing, only one fruit can come out What Anthony's own worst moments exposed about where he was still doing the work Luke 6:45 and Proverbs 23:7 — what scripture says about the mouth and the mind The Fruit Check — four moves to catch the fruit, ask what it reveals, and change what you're feeding on purpose Why being "double-minded" (Greek: dipsychos, literally two-souled) cancels out every affirmation you don't believe What your kids are actually tasting when you get squeezed — and why it matters more than what you tell them Apply for 1-on-1 coaching: https://bit.ly/3PfPU0f Join the free Skool community: https://bit.ly/3Z83e97 Instagram: @divorceddadsofamerica