You Won’t Find Love Until You Love Yourself and Other BS Beliefs About Finding Love

In this week’s episode of Unraveling, we’re unraveling some of the common things we hear about love, worthiness, and self-acceptance.Have you ever heard the phrase, “You can’t love someone else until you love yourself”? Or maybe, “If you’re not happy alone, you won’t be happy in a relationship”? These messages might sound empowering, but let’s be real—they often create more shame than healing.We’ll explore: ✨ Why you don’t need to be “fully healed” to be worthy of love ✨ How these myths often reinforce shame instead of inspiring growth ✨ The journey of self-love. ✨ Why rejection isn’t a reflection of your worth—and how it can be a redirectionLove isn’t a reward for self-improvement; it’s an evolving journey. Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, this conversation will help you reframe what it means to love and be loved.Join us as we explore how to approach love with more compassion and acceptance.More ways to stay connected with us: 💌 Sign up for our newsletter 📱 Follow us on Instagram @unravelingthislife This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit julyandjamie.substack.com/subscribe