EPISODE · Feb 25, 2026 · 45 MIN
Your Brain Hates Being Wrong (Here’s Why It Feels So Personal)
from Let's Pick This Up Next Week · host LPTUNW
In this episode, Dee and Dr. DJ explore the psychology of identity rupture—what happens when new information challenges who we believe we are.Why does learning something new sometimes feel threatening?Why do conversations across differences feel so emotionally charged?And why does cognitive dissonance make us double down instead of lean in?We unpack:· How identity is formed (and protected)· What actually triggers identity threat· The neuroscience behind cognitive dissonance· The connection between moral injury and belief systems· How curiosity and mindfulness increase our capacity for growthIdentity rupture isn’t weakness. It’s often the doorway to expansion.As always, the conversation is thoughtful, real, and occasionally unhinged (also: please excuse Dee’s allergies—apparently pollen chose violence that day, so if you hear mysterious sniffles or see glossy eyes… it’s not tears, it’s trees 🌳).If this episode resonates, share it with someone who loves deep conversations about how we grow, change, and stay connected in divisive times.💬 Drop a comment: What’s a belief you’ve outgrown?
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In this episode, Dee and Dr. DJ explore the psychology of identity rupture—what happens when new information challenges who we believe we are.Why does learning something new sometimes feel threatening?Why do conversations across differences feel so emotionally charged?And why does cognitive dissonance make us double down instead of lean in?We unpack:· How identity is formed (and protected)· What actually triggers identity threat· The neuroscience behind cognitive dissonance· The connection between moral injury and belief systems· How curiosity and mindfulness increase our capacity for growthIdentity rupture isn’t weakness. It’s often the doorway to expansion.As always, the conversation is thoughtful, real, and occasionally unhinged (also: please excuse Dee’s allergies—apparently pollen chose violence that day, so if you hear mysterious sniffles or see glossy eyes… it’s not tears, it’s trees 🌳).If this episode resonates, share it with someone who loves deep conversations about how we grow, change, and stay connected in divisive times.💬 Drop a comment: What’s a belief you’ve outgrown?
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