EPISODE · Jan 21, 2026 · 51 MIN
Your Intent Doesn't Change How It Went | DSN Live! Experience | Ep 169 | The Dear Son, Show
from Dear Son, · host Derek Johns
Dear Son: Your Intent Doesn't Change How It Went - Real Talks on Accountability and RelationshipsOn this first-ever live episode of the Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns discuss the importance of intent versus outcome in personal and family relationships. The conversation covers multiple angles, including father-son dynamics, the impact of delivery over intent, and the nuances of loving someone the way they need to be loved. Insightful audience interactions address practical examples such as dealing with curfews, academic standards, and maintaining relationships. This thought-provoking discussion emphasizes accountability and self-awareness in nurturing healthy relationships, both within families and with significant others.00:00 Introduction and Welcome00:13 First Live Show Excitement01:10 Topic Introduction: Intent vs. Outcome02:21 Parenting Insights: Intentions and Actions07:02 Personal Anecdotes and Lessons10:02 Setting Standards and Consequences21:05 Relationship Advice: Understanding Love26:07 Lessons from My Marriage27:11 The Importance of Communication28:43 Intent vs. Action in Relationships32:21 The Role of Accountability35:03 Personal Anecdotes and Reflections37:58 Navigating Expectations and Standards48:45 Final Thoughts and Reflections#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Dear Son: Your Intent Doesn't Change How It Went - Real Talks on Accountability and Relationships On this first-ever live episode of the Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns discuss the importance of intent versus outcome in personal and family relationships. The conversation covers multiple angles, including father-son dynamics, the impact of delivery over intent, and the nuances of loving someone the way they need to be loved. Insightful audience interactions address practical examples such as dealing with curfews, academic standards, and maintaining relationships. This thought-provoking discussion emphasizes accountability and self-awareness in nurturing healthy relationships, both within families and with significant others. 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:13 First Live Show Excitement 01:10 Topic Introduction: Intent vs. Outcome 02:21 Parenting Insights: Intentions and Actions 07:02 Personal Anecdotes and Lessons 10:02 Setting Standards and Consequences 21:05 Relationship Advice: Understanding Love 26:07 Lessons from My Marriage 27:11 The Importance of Communication 28:43 Intent vs. Action in Relationships 32:21 The Role of Accountability 35:03 Personal Anecdotes and Reflections 37:58 Navigating Expectations and Standards 48:45 Final Thoughts and Reflections #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications, 3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and 5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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