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Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.Love + Kindness: The Two Ingredients That Saved My Marriage | Dear Son Show (Patrick Murphy)On this Father’s Day episode of The Dear Son Show, D Johns welcomes Patrick Murphy from Florida to discuss fatherhood, peace, and relationships. Patrick shares growing up in the Bay Area with nine siblings, learning entrepreneurship from his father, and being shaped by his parents’ divorce and contrasting parenting styles. He describes how his first 27-year marriage ended in divorce, leaving him bitter and searching for answers, which led him to study relationships and help teach a divorce and separation care ministry at One Community Church. In his second marriage, frequent divorce talks shifted after a spiritual warning and a series of “ice cream dates” focused on sharing childhood stories instead of issues, helping them heal. Patrick argues that relationships need both love and kindness, warns against weaponizing vulnerability, and says this approach brought peace at home and years without arguments.00:00 Guarded Love Mindset00:26 Kindness Keeps Love Alive01:27 Welcome to Dear Son02:55 Building a Peace System04:36 Corporate vs Family Costs07:02 Life Escalator and Overwhelm09:52 Hiding Burdens in Marriage11:03 Roots in the Bay13:09 Nine Siblings and Dad Hustle15:02 Parenting Styles and Lessons18:35 Parents Divorce Impact21:52 Breaking the Divorce Cycle23:33 Divorce Ministry Insights26:05 Nail in Tire Relationship Radar28:27 Anti Divorce and Second Marriage30:38 Ice Cream Date Reset31:35 Healing The Inner Kids33:01 Love And Kindness Formula35:11 Why Counseling Can Backfire36:54 No Arguments By Design40:35 Kindness Beats Attitude44:48 Peace At Home Changes Men49:46 Hats And Lost Identity52:48 Helpmeet And Safe Space56:48 Stop Fixing Start Loving58:59 Daily Practices To Stay Close01:01:16 Customer Service Marriage Mindset01:02:21 Book Plug And Farewell#fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk #marriagecounseling Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”Follow Patrick: https://instagram.com/theconflictsoflife Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital  Love Kisha J Studios: https://houseoflkj.com  My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.Dear Son: Not All Doors Are Created Equal | Closed Doors, Consistency & Mental HealthOn the Dear Son Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns discuss how closed doors can protect you and redirect you toward better opportunities, emphasizing that rewards are most sustainable when habits and discipline are established first. They share examples of a comedian whose oil-field dreams were denied but led to success in entertainment, and D Johns’ own career path where not getting one shipyard job opened a higher-paying role that shaped his leadership trajectory through learning each phase of the work. They compare life to a warehouse where each season offers tools and lessons, caution against forcing doors, celebrating too early via social media, and chasing outcomes without understanding the “why.” The conversation also addresses men’s mental health, resilience after setbacks, problem-solving, patience, and staying consistent while remaining open to unexpected opportunities.00:00 Timing and Readiness01:40 Show Intro and Catch Up02:05 Weather Talk and Housekeeping02:55 Sponsor Spotlight LKJ04:39 Not All Doors Equal05:40 Closed Door Opens Lane08:47 Career Detour Pays Off13:25 Warehouse of Life Lessons17:22 Know the Why at Work22:02 Teaching Self Serve Skills25:35 Rainy Day Parenting Pivot26:06 Rainy Day Driving Lessons27:57 Closed Doors New Opportunities28:52 Redefining Being Broke30:14 Mens Mental Health Check33:32 Consistency Opens Doors37:49 Timing Rewards Sustainability41:19 Social Media Early Praise45:06 Support Through Reposts49:13 Closing Story Life Plan#fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Love Kisha J Studios: https://houseoflkj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.Don’t Blow Out the Shocks: Hard Truths, Honor, and Communication in RelationshipsThe hosts of “Better Together” discuss how the “happy wife, happy life” mindset can make men “reverse submissive,” avoiding hard truths to keep peace, and argue that leaders in a household must speak necessary hard things without ego. Using shock absorbers as an analogy, they explain how reliable support—whether a man’s resilience, a steady paycheck, or God’s grace—can be taken for granted, overused, and then blamed when it fails. They distinguish respecting vs. honoring what supports you, warn against putting the wrong “shocks” in the wrong situations, and emphasize alignment, self-care, and accountability. Personal examples include tension with an adult child over feeling “not above and beyond,” and the need for boundaries so “no” is received with honor. The episode closes by stressing transparent communication to prevent resentment and burnout.00:00 Happy Wife Trap01:02 Meet The Hosts02:44 Dont Blow Shocks04:39 Manhood Takes Hits06:00 Money As Cushion07:17 When Shocks Fail10:01 Respect Vs Honor11:59 Right Tool Wrong Job14:10 Grace And Consequence16:34 Purpose Or Overwork18:09 Chaos And Capability20:18 Fatherhood Reality Check26:17 Tough Love and No27:14 Honor Versus Respect29:14 Happy Wife Happy Life Myth30:55 Overtooling for Conflict32:53 Equally Yoked Reality Check35:43 Boundaries and Resentment37:28 Shocks Need Communication40:57 Adjusting Around the Problem44:18 Alignment and Self Care46:59 Wrap Up and Takeaways#fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Shop Father Figure: https://www.f2apparel.store/Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Follow Joe T: https://instagram.com/bakeriii Follow Reggie: https://instagram.com/fatherfigureapparelAlso, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.What Makes or Breaks a Man: Perspective, Growth, and Vulnerability | Better TogetherThe hosts of Better Together—Joe T, Reggie George, J Black, and D Johns—discuss what can make or break a man, focusing on perspective, personal development, and honest communication. Joe T reflects on how lust and mismanaging money once seemed like “badges” but were actually breaking him, and he shares how learning business basics like forming an LLC and applying for a loan reshaped his mindset. The group explores how environment can miseducate people into survival tactics, why relationships often resist growth more than other areas of life, and how fear, willful ignorance, and attachment to what’s familiar create dysfunction. They emphasize vulnerability as a strength, the importance of regular check-ins, accountability without weaponizing feedback, avoiding comparison, practicing surrender, and not “dying” in someone else’s lack of development.00:00 Nineties Haircut Memories01:39 Show Intro and Check In03:18 What Makes or Breaks Men03:54 Lust Money and Unlearning07:53 Reeducation and Strongholds09:30 Perspective Changes Everything12:20 Vulnerability as Strength15:06 Marriage Growth and Deflection24:46 Complacency and Silent Ruts26:54 Why Relationships Resist Change30:55 Phone Analogy and Human Growth33:55 Early Marriage Blind Spots35:13 Cracked Screen Relationships37:59 Familiarity Versus Growth41:05 Check Ins Without Weapons42:39 Change Versus Development44:09 Dont Die In Prison48:11 Make Or Break Mindset53:05 Update Your Data55:14 Accountability Filters59:55 Surrender And Priorities01:06:34 Speak Up In Safe Spaces01:08:52 Better Together Closing#fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Shop Father Figure: https://www.f2apparel.store/Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Follow Joe T: https://instagram.com/bakeriii Follow Reggie: https://instagram.com/fatherfigureapparelAlso, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.Value Is Undervalued: Gratitude, Access, and the Cost of Not Letting Go | Dear Son ShowOn the Dear Son Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns discuss how “value is undervalued,” using examples from family life, finances, and work. They reflect on valuing needs over wants, the difference between price and long-term value, and how experience and expertise are often dismissed out of pride. D shares project-managing the rebuild of his father’s home after a minor fire while navigating his father’s early dementia and difficulty letting contractors lead. They explore protecting access to good people, setting boundaries around unequal exchanges, and how damaged value doesn’t always return—comparing a repaired car’s diminished worth to relationships where apologies don’t guarantee reconciliation. They also mention upcoming Dear Son Network content, including “Unhinged,” and encourage viewers to support other network shows.00:00 Gratitude Hits Different00:37 Show Intro and Check In02:00 Family Updates and Milestones04:10 Value Versus Price06:46 Respecting Others Values08:16 Undervaluing Experience10:53 Rebuilding Dads House13:16 Letting Go of Control18:10 Access Is a Season21:32 Protecting Dreams and Opportunity23:06 Toolbox Value Shift24:03 Humility And Motives25:33 Protect Your People28:25 Fair Exchange Boundaries31:20 Paying For Expertise32:01 Car Crash Value Lesson35:19 Saturation And Brain Picking38:16 Apologies And Trust Loss40:51 Standards And Spillover45:57 Network Updates And Signoff.#fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Counting the Cost: Crime, Faith, Parenting, and the Price of Not SurrenderingIn this episode of Better Together, the hosts discuss “counting the cost” across crime, spirituality, parenting, work, and relationships. Joe T explains that before prison, crime felt “lawful” and consequence-free because of his environment, but prison revealed how it was costing him everything. They contrast religious ritual with genuine spiritual formation, emphasizing exposure, accountability, and surrender, including how faith is tested during tragedy like a child’s medical crisis. The conversation also covers the danger of being convinced of yourself, how permissive parenting can stem from resenting structure, and the need to teach consequences. They share personal examples of counting the cost: moving family from the East Coast to Dubai, entrepreneurial risks versus corporate regret, success through content creation, and relationship decisions, ending with a call for viewers to reflect on what something is costing them and what it will cost.00:00 Counting Crime Costs00:49 Car Lesson on Value02:06 Prison Reality Check02:25 Ritual vs Relationship05:36 Learning Surrender09:43 God Knows My Heart10:15 Echo Chambers and Pride12:57 Parenting and Boundaries16:46 Paying the Cost Daily19:21 Marriage Covenant Costs21:44 When Commitment Becomes Harm24:26 Mortgage Analogy for Growth26:21 Faith Tested by Loss27:54 Moving Away for Family31:48 Entrepreneurship vs Corporate34:10 Time Wealth and Presence36:07 TikTok Leap of Faith37:50 Calling Off Engagement Regret40:22 Community Challenge Wrap Up#fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Shop Father Figure: https://www.f2apparel.store/Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Follow Joe T: https://instagram.com/bakeriii Follow Reggie: https://instagram.com/fatherfigureapparelAlso, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Counting the Cost: Comfort, Convenience, and the Price of What You Want In this episode of Better Together, the hosts discuss how many people pursue marriage, business, fitness, and parenthood without understanding the true cost, often falling in love with the ideology or highlight reel instead of the work and sacrifice required. They compare this to buying cars or houses, where people scrutinize price but ignore long-term interest and maintenance, and argue that financing and “right now” thinking distort value. They explore comfort and convenience as modern decision-drivers, the importance of retention and maintenance over simply acquiring something, and how misrepresentation in relationships creates unrealistic expectations. The conversation also turns to parenting, missed teaching moments, and how pride can block receiving hard truths, ending with a teaser question about the cost of crime that they save for part two.00:00 Episode Kickoff00:31 The Real Cost02:32 Financing Illusion03:56 Weddings Versus Marriage04:27 Comfort Convenience Trap05:47 Who Pays The Price07:46 Climb And Pivot10:39 Highlight Reel Culture12:49 False Fronts In Love14:06 Where Mindsets Begin15:16 Bit By The Bug16:47 Why This Platform17:44 Clientele Retention Costs18:57 Attention Versus Retention19:35 Comfort Culture Shift20:53 Paps Parenting Problem21:58 Flat Tire Wake Up Call24:00 Thermostat Money Lesson26:31 Kids Mirror Parents28:22 Pride And Feedback30:26 Discipline And Consequences33:58 Counting Cost Of Crime34:20 Part Two Tease Outro#fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Shop Father Figure: https://www.f2apparel.store/Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Follow Joe T: https://instagram.com/bakeriii Follow Reggie: https://instagram.com/fatherfigureapparelAlso, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.Breaking the Cycle: Fatherhood, Rejection, Lust, and Healing (ft. Trey Tucker | Rugged Counseling)In this episode of The Dear Son Show, host Derek talks with therapist Trey Tucker from the Chattanooga, Tennessee area about fatherhood, the impact of absent or limited fathering, and how “gaps” in guidance shape men. Trey shares his path from the corporate world to education and counseling, his struggles with rejection and a decade-long hookup cycle, and how those experiences affect attachment, identity, and healing. Derek connects these themes to his own story—leaving home young, self-medicating through sex and alcohol, and creating the podcast as accountability to have meaningful conversations with his sons. They discuss grief, losing parents, why environment matters for young men, and Trey’s book Tough Enough aimed at men in their 20s. Subscribe and comment your biggest takeaway.00:00 Show Welcome00:31 Tennessee Connection01:34 Therapist Journey02:49 Leaving Corporate Life05:45 Podcast Origin Story07:42 Roots and Relocation08:59 Fatherhood Gaps14:56 Rejection and Validation19:02 Book for Twenties21:51 Hookup Cycle Fallout24:17 Environment Shapes Choices25:24 Talking Teens and Alcohol28:15 School Years That Matter30:30 Marriage and Fatherhood Hopes32:27 Mentoring With Accountability34:00 Training Toughness With Care35:33 Losing Dad and Learning Grief39:54 Grief Ritual and Healing44:18 Parents Marriage Model45:19 Platform Dating and Time47:21 What I Wish Dad Said49:32 Measuring Tough Enough Impact52:13 Closing Reflections and Outro#fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”Follow Trey: https://instagram.com/ruggedcounseling Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Dear Son: Life Comes at You Fast (Problem-Solving, Responsibility & Real-World Lessons)In this episode of The Dear Son Show, D Johns and Jey Blac reflect on how quickly real-life tests can arrive before sons feel prepared, using stories like a late-night tire blowout that revealed gaps in communication, problem-solving, and a father’s tone even when saying the right words. They discuss using unexpected moments as coaching opportunities, balancing protection with letting kids experience consequences, and the danger of “skipping steps,” including buying a teen a new Challenger too soon, allowing passengers, and a wreck that followed—plus lessons from a stolen scooter and earning replacements. The hosts also connect “life comes at you fast” to readiness planning, global events as teachable moments, and personal examples like sudden loss, joining the military, and financial growth outpacing habits, ending with a push to “talk less and do more work.”00:00 Tire Blowout Cold Open00:45 Welcome to Dear Son01:44 Network Updates03:18 Life Comes Fast04:58 Late Night Blowout08:36 Problem Solving Lessons12:31 Repair Talk and Trust16:11 Letting Sons Lead17:30 Car Crash Boundaries18:34 Scooter Stolen Twice22:31 Scooter Lesson Learned23:03 Teen Car Rules25:03 Crash After Greenlight27:10 Rewards And Entitlement29:51 Teach Through Doing36:58 World Events As Lessons42:54 Life Came Fast Stories44:48 Planning And Money Prep47:34 Closing Lets Talk Work#fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.Sara Connor on Fatherhood, Trauma, Faith, and Encouraging Today’s Sons | Dear Son ShowOn the Dear Son Show during Women’s History Month, host Derek welcomes Sara Connor, a Jamaican-born minister and advisor, who shares her upbringing in a prominent Rastafarian and entrepreneurial family, the trauma of an absent musician father and a crack-addicted mother who was later murdered, and years of sexual abuse that shaped her identity and relationships. Sara describes finding Christian faith after running away at 13, learning self-worth through unconditional love, experiencing miracles, and later using therapy and practical tools to manage grief and triggers. She credits her father’s generosity and respect for creating unity across a blended family and discusses how conditioning led her to overextend for men’s dreams and struggle with boundaries. She explains how she parents her son to preserve kindness, ask for what he wants, and stand up for himself, and closes with encouragement to men facing embarrassment, pressure, and purpose.00:00 Message to Men00:45 Show Intro Guest Welcome01:38 Jamaica Roots Family03:04 Trauma and Loss04:49 Blended Family Harmony07:33 Father Character Generosity09:38 Abuse and Conditioning13:53 Faith and Self Worth19:29 Rastafari and Education25:04 Healing Support Systems29:39 Managing Trauma Triggers33:36 Talking with Dad35:19 Why No Blame37:10 Absent Parents Survival38:12 Trauma Triggers Today40:40 Seeking Approval In Men42:46 Faith Culture And Boundaries47:19 Divorce And Self Rediscovery50:45 Parenting Kindness And Dreams58:09 Father’s Pivotal Advice01:04:52 Healing Family Rifts01:08:05 Men’s Shame And Purpose01:17:11 Closing Encouragement#fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”Follow Sara: https://instagram.com/iamsaracoAlso, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com  My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.Forrest Laurent on Healing, Purpose vs Pain, and Building a Platform Under Pressure | Dear Son ShowOn the Dear Son Show, the host speaks with Forrest Laurent about a “grind season” of rebuilding his life through changing his circle, improving discipline, and executing with intention. Forrest describes a public livestream conflict where a woman from a coaching relationship attacked his character, forcing him to confront how often he allowed disrespect and how vulnerable he was emotionally. He explains how creating content to hold men accountable unexpectedly drew women to his platform, and how God used coaching to reveal his resentment toward women and his own role in relational harm, leading him to apologize by listening to people he hurt and growing empathy. They discuss relationships and marriage, learning that “a good opportunity doesn’t mean it’s God,” the weight of stewardship and potential cancellation as a platform grows, and redefining success as peace and alignment with God.00:00 Public Breaking Point00:32 Welcome to Dear Son01:37 Catching Up With Forrest03:04 Grind Season Reset03:50 Livestream Disrespect Lesson06:09 Character Attack Fallout08:27 Who Am I Now09:26 Coaching Origin Story14:33 Healing Views on Women16:02 Making Amends and Apologies20:54 Good Opportunity vs God22:33 Marriage and Intentional Prayer24:36 Back to Entrepreneurship25:01 God Pushes You Out25:35 Betting On Yourself26:18 Fear of Discipline28:02 Environment Shapes You30:05 Peace and Real Success33:20 God and Accountability34:47 Platform Vision and Space38:47 Stewarding Attention42:53 Rest Versus Quitting47:08 Whats Next Season49:29 Living in the Now54:09 Patterns and Real Love56:31 Closing Reflections#fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”Follow Forrest: https://instagram.com/forrestlaurentAlso, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Candles & Scents - House of Love Kisha J: https://lovekishaj.com  My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

David Mann Jr. on Fatherhood, Legacy, and Redefining SuccessOn The Dear Son Show, the host welcomes David Mann Jr. for a candid conversation about fatherhood, marriage, faith, and legacy. They discuss being hands-on dads during spring break, how parenting choices (sheltering a sickly child vs. letting another take risks) shape kids differently, and how work ambition can create absence at home—driving guilt, marriage strain, and family conflict. David shares growing up in a highly visible gospel/entertainment family, resenting expectations, and later choosing to flow with his path while pursuing DJing, production, and a meaningful business. Both reflect on repairing father-son relationships, defining success beyond money, making time the real currency, and wanting children to feel loved and proud at the end. Follow the channel and leave a review to support more honest conversations like this.00:00 Show Intro and Welcome01:01 Catching Up as Dads01:53 Kids Driving and Sheltering04:34 Sick Child and Marriage Strain06:46 Work Guilt and Forgiveness09:45 Redefining Success and Time11:56 Sharing Parents With the World15:25 Repairing Father Son Bond18:09 Lessons on Work and Teamwork20:18 Growing Up Around Fame23:07 Family Business and Identity24:02 Finding His Own Lane24:57 Tour With Parents25:15 Marriage Time Flies26:56 Lessons From Marriage27:54 Dad Identity And Pride28:47 Raising Daughters Today34:03 Hands On Parenting Shift35:12 Finding Your Own Dream38:34 Faith And Expectations42:01 Legacy Impact Goals44:37 Fatherhood Reflections46:25 Family And Sisters47:22 Where To Find Him48:07 Closing And Thanks#fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”Follow David: https://instagram.com/davidmannjrAlso, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Chika Onunkwo on Fatherhood’s Legacy, Nigerian Upbringing, and Raising Emotionally Safe KidsIn this Women’s Series episode of the Dear Son Show, host speaks with Chika Onunkwo, a Nigerian-born mom in New Jersey who moved to the U.S. at 16 and reflects on growing up in Port Harcourt where “black excellence” was normal, then experiencing bias and jokes about Africa after immigrating. Chika shares how her father—an accomplished civil engineer and community giver—modeled provision, emotional availability, high standards, and repair after discipline, shaping her confidence, marriage expectations, and how she parents. She discusses marrying a Nigerian man she met in college, her father’s cultural criteria and emphasis on marrying for love, and how Emotional Moms began from her own struggles balancing corporate work and emotional connection with her sons. She urges parents—especially fathers—to be emotionally present, connect before correcting, and talk openly about taboo topics. Follow the channel and leave a review.00:00 Show Intro and Guest01:09 From Nigeria to Jersey04:24 Black Excellence and Culture Shock09:01 American Ignorance Abroad10:37 Her Father’s Legacy18:13 Oldest Daughter Pressure20:23 Discipline and Repair25:51 Sex Talks and Silence29:57 Marriage and Family Today33:45 Dad’s Marriage Criteria37:04 Honoring Dad in Church37:47 No Matchmaking Allowed38:21 Marry for Love39:22 Dad Vetting the Suitor40:44 Choosing a Husband Like Dad43:24 Parenting Styles and Teens46:13 Fathers Must Be Present52:19 Why Emotional Moms Started56:04 Behind the Perfect Family58:27 Work Life and New Calling59:55 Lessons on Connection01:04:20 Modeling Values at Home01:06:10 Talking Porn and Vices01:08:32 What I Wish Dad Said01:09:35 Plugging Resources and Farewell#fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”Follow Chika: https://instagram.com/emotionalmomsAlso, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Better Together Ep. 5: Putting Away Foolish ThingsIn this Better Together conversation, D Johns, Joe T, Reggie G, and Jey Blac unpack what it means to “put away foolish things,” framing it as an ongoing, seasonal process tied to maturity, self-awareness, and obedience to God. They discuss how distractions, instant gratification, pride, learned behaviors, and unexamined expectations can derail relationships, work, finances, and spiritual growth—especially when people confuse what they expect with what they actually deserve. The group debates marriage, divorce, discernment, premarital counseling, and the pressure of timelines, sharing personal examples about staying too long in jobs or relationships, lacking wise counsel, and mistaking grace for wisdom. They close by challenging listeners to identify their current “foolish thing,” release what’s harming them “at what cost,” and stop celebrating being “the coolest fool in the room.” Follow the channel, watch the long-form episode on YouTube, and leave a review.00:00 Welcome Back Intro00:35 Weather And AC Bills01:41 Show Updates And Subscribe02:16 Putting Away Foolishness05:30 Instant Gratification Trap06:32 Wordsmithing And Avoidance07:08 Jobs Marriage And Covenant12:17 God Says Stop Go Time17:42 Maturity Obedience And Self23:37 Chasing the Honeymoon24:04 Grace Without Excuses25:15 Imperfect Models of Marriage26:26 Abraham and Ishmael Lessons28:45 Premarital Counseling Reality Check31:04 Pride and Entitlement Traps39:21 Expectations Versus Deserving42:57 Self Assessment and Hard Talks46:39 Know When to Let Go48:18 Final Challenges and Farewell#fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Shop Father Figure: https://www.f2apparel.store/Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Follow Joe T: https://instagram.com/bakeriii Follow Reggie: https://instagram.com/fatherfigureapparelAlso, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Brandon Lewis on Fatherlessness, Forgiveness, and Building a Life in ComedyOn the Dear Son Show, host Nate welcomes comedian and content creator Brandon Lewis for a wide-ranging conversation on life through fatherhood. Brandon shares growing up in Cobb County, Georgia with a hardworking mother, a brother who became a father figure through tough discipline, and an absent “phone call” dad he didn’t truly know until moving to Los Angeles at 24 to pursue standup. He describes the shock of seeing his father’s vices, the anger and perspective that followed, and how hustling open mics on buses and on foot strengthened his resolve. Now a dad of two daughters, Brandon talks co-parenting, choosing not to repeat his father’s absence, and balancing touring with being present. He defines success as having options, reflects on entrepreneurship vs corporate stability, and closes with what he wishes he’d learned—financial literacy—and what he teaches his kids: “If you listen the first time, your feelings won’t get hurt the second.”00:00 Welcome to Dear Son00:17 Meet Brandon Lewis01:14 From Georgia to LA02:14 Growing Up Without Dad04:20 Loss and Family Roots06:32 Meeting Dad at 2409:34 Chasing Standup Dreams11:32 Mother’s View of Dad13:45 Choosing Active Fatherhood17:14 Co-Parenting and Happiness19:57 Entrepreneur vs Corporate Life22:00 Creative Grind vs Clocking In23:18 Fatherhood and Tour Sacrifices26:54 Choosing Comedy in 201028:00 Social Media Doubts and Discouragement31:04 Pushing Through with Teamwork37:44 Defining Success as Options42:02 Hosting Energy and Show Control45:01 Dear Son Lessons and Farewell#fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”Follow Brandon: https://instagram.com/whoisbrandonlewisAlso, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com  My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

When God Says Go: Jasmine Jones on Obedience, Fatherhood, and Walking AwayOn the Dear Son, Show, host Chris welcomes Jasmine Jones as the first in-studio guest for a Women’s series during March, discussing life through fatherhood. Jasmine shares how her book, “When God Says Go,” about leaving Chicago for Dallas, led to speaking opportunities and ultimately her own women’s conference, which exceeded her expectations. She reflects on growing up with married parents, a supportive father who served his community, and a later period of distance rooted in anger and trauma. Jasmine describes her relationships, including a marriage where she says a “mask” fell off and emotional abuse affected her and her children, prompting her to leave through prayer and faith. She explains her platform “Her Plus God,” its growth from a clothing brand to a faith community, and closes with encouragement to appreciate and forgive fathers. Follow the channel and leave a review.00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro00:42 Family Visits and Big Kids01:42 Conference Wins Recap02:34 Book and Calling to Go03:54 Worthy of the Blessing06:01 Childhood Obedience and Home08:54 Growing Up in Chicago10:05 Parents Values and Dad Example13:50 Rebellion and Dad Distance17:45 Reconnecting Through Sons Sports19:56 Choosing Partners and Trauma24:52 Marriage and Seeing Dad25:24 Moving In Fast26:18 Ignoring Red Flags27:47 Engagement Pregnancy Shift28:52 How He Learned Her30:39 Keeping Abuse Private32:05 PlayStation Breaking Point35:45 When A Woman Is Done37:10 Faith Journey Deepens39:46 Kids And Changing Dynamics41:16 Healing Trauma And Parenting44:34 Not Dating This Season45:53 Dad Relationship Today48:57 What I Wish He Said52:53 Her Plus God Mission55:45 Final Fatherhood MessageAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Better Together: Living vs. Existing, Escaping Survival Mode & Redefining SuccessIn this episode of Better Together, Jey Blac, Reggie George, Joe T, and Djohns have a meaningful conversation about the difference between living and merely existing, starting with the danger of spreading yourself too thin—building roots and a trunk before branches. They unpack moving from survival mode to thriving, choosing your mood instead of letting circumstances control it, and avoiding a “collector” mindset that chases the next goal without gratitude for what was already prayed for and received. The group discusses healthy vs. unhealthy ambition, the need for rest, and signs you’re out of balance, like becoming irritated by meaningful family time. They explore victim mentality, imposter syndrome, and the pressure placed on Black men, stressing the importance of unlearning inherited beliefs, outgrowing people and traditions, and building marriages and success on honest agreements rather than masks. They also shout out sponsor House of Keisha J and close with takeaways about being aware, applying what you learn, and doing life where you’re meant to truly live.00:00 Welcome And Check In00:39 Living Versus Existing03:37 Survival Mode To Thriving04:40 Gratitude And Choosing Joy07:19 Engager Versus Collector10:22 Go Mode And Rest11:05 Healthy Versus Unhealthy Ambition15:09 Victim Mentality And Pressure16:52 Unlearning Inherited Rules19:40 Outgrowing People And Traditions20:17 Marriage Masks And Real Talk22:39 Sponsor Break House Of Keisha J23:55 Right Answers Versus Truth24:14 Covenant Over Chemistry25:10 Defining Success Together26:52 Dropping the Mask28:57 Reinventing After 3531:43 Real Time Behavior Change35:30 Comfort and Convenience Trap36:58 Conviction in Information Age40:25 Who Is Discipling You43:16 Right Room Right People44:41 Corporate Character Cost47:08 Takeaways and Closing#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Shop Father Figure: https://www.f2apparel.store/Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Follow Joe T: https://instagram.com/bakeriii Follow Reggie: https://instagram.com/fatherfigureapparelAlso, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

The Dear Son Network creates honest conversations about fatherhood, masculinity, and the life lessons many men never hear growing up.Dear Son: Are You Shackled to Your Past? Fatherhood, Forgiveness & Breaking CyclesIn this live, unscripted episode of The Dear Son Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac lead a candid conversation on the topic “Dear Son, you will always be shackled to your past,” exploring how past mistakes and family history shape identity, parenting, and relationships. They discuss using the past as a navigation tool rather than a prison, the duty of demonstrating change, and whether others get to decide when they’re “over” what you did. Audience members share stories about parenting older vs. younger kids, childhood trauma passed down from parents, rebuilding after incarceration, and how unforgiveness can keep people bound. The hosts emphasize accountability without labeling someone by their mistakes, encourage setting boundaries and having hard conversations, and challenge listeners to release people they’ve been holding hostage to the past.00:00 Unscripted Show Setup00:29 Welcome and Live Energy01:57 Tonight’s Topic Past Shackles03:30 Past Shaping Fatherhood05:57 Absentee Dad Two Paths09:22 Remorse With Older Kids10:45 Audience Advice Parenting Never Stops14:16 Shackled vs In Touch15:30 Who Sets The Timeframe17:00 Breaking Generational Shackles20:32 Unforgiveness and Self Forgiveness23:13 Who Benefits From Shackles27:09 Tank vs Healing Sensitivity29:44 Life As A Retakeable Test30:04 Release Your Errors30:28 Learn From Everyone31:28 Unshackling Dad36:17 Mistakes Aren't Identity37:55 Parenting Without Trauma45:34 Know Each Kid47:14 Conversations Break Cycles49:07 Humor Anger and Growth52:58 Release and Reconnect53:47 Disrupt to Break Cycles57:54 Final Thanks and Outro#fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

The Dear Son Network creates honest conversations about fatherhood, masculinity, and the life lessons many men never hear growing up.Marriage, Ambition & Ego: Leadership vs Dictatorship | Better TogetherIn this Better Together episode, the hosts (Joe T, Reggie George, Jey Blac, and D Johns) introduce themselves and dive into how marriage requires “dual thinking,” sacrifice, and making decisions with a spouse in mind rather than operating independently. They discuss the tension ambitious men can create in relationships, how male ego fuels aggravation when a partner questions plans, and why common courtesy and communication keep leadership from becoming dictatorship. They explore differing communication styles, red flags versus mere frustrations, and how asking “what will you do with that information?” can set healthy boundaries. The conversation addresses trauma, family upbringing, resentment from staying silent, and the idea that spouses should work on themselves rather than trying to fix each other. They close by emphasizing covenant, commitment, and that being equally yoked means doing the work together.00:00 Big Decisions Together00:54 Dual Thinking In Marriage02:33 Meet The Hosts03:11 Pace Setting And Partnership05:14 Late Marriage Mindset07:23 Assumptions Need Conversations09:44 Courtesy Versus Dictatorship12:44 Fear Of Being Controlled14:41 Red Flags Or Aggravation22:11 Ambition Triggers Ego29:52 Welcome The Hard Questions32:31 Let Your Copilot Fly33:41 Trauma And Retraining Trust37:27 Unpacking Bags Respect Love39:55 Gods Daughter Perspective40:28 Stop Trying To Fix Her42:38 Marriage Reveals You43:08 Rollercoaster Of Growth45:31 Learning Each Others Signals49:01 Train Her How To Treat You49:55 Ambition And Trauma Question52:47 Include Her In The Vision01:00:05 Sacrifice And Selflessness01:05:03 In Laws And Family Boundaries01:09:10 Reject Marriage Ideology01:11:18 Covenant Work Closing#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Shop Father Figure: https://www.f2apparel.store/Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Follow Joe T: https://instagram.com/bakeriii Follow Reggie: https://instagram.com/fatherfigureapparelAlso, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

The Dear Son Network creates honest conversations about fatherhood, masculinity, and the life lessons many men never hear growing up.Dear Son: You Asked for This — Preparing for Purpose, Growth, and RelationshipsHosts D Johns and Jey Blac open The Dear Son Show by describing the mission of having honest conversations about life through fatherhood for those with fathers and the fatherless. They recap a Mardi Gras trip and discuss an upcoming live show on 2/24/26 at 7:00 PM, encouraging viewers to subscribe and get tickets. The main discussion centers on the realization that when you pray for growth and expanded territory, you must accept the full load that comes with it—time demands, visibility, responsibility, and the unseen work behind results—summed up as “you asked for this,” and reframed as purpose rather than simply being “busy.” They talk about the need to be prepared and to steward what you ask for, using analogies like the real upkeep of owning a yacht and the extensive setup required for producing episodes. The hosts also address accountability and showing respect for the platform, including the importance of effort, preparation, and feedback for growth. They connect these ideas to marriage and parenting: supporting a spouse’s vision without becoming a ‘dream killer,’ balancing consequences with repeated guidance for children, and not letting a child’s history prevent offering grace and wisdom. They share examples of their sons’ maturing communication and learning from real-world consequences, and close by urging sons to acknowledge when their fathers were right and encouraging consistent investment in relationships so they don’t wither.00:00 Welcome to the Dear Son Show (What This Space Is About)00:33 Catching Up: Mardi Gras, Kids in Crowds & Weekend Check-In01:18 Housekeeping: Subscribe + Live Show Tickets (2/24/26)01:51 Topic Drop: 'Dear Son, You Asked for This' (Stop Complaining)03:21 Busy vs Purpose: Choosing Better Words for a Full Life05:14 A Day in the Life: Packed Schedule, Family Runs & Showing Up06:33 Praying for Expansion… Then Handling Visibility & Responsibility07:22 The Hidden Cost of What You Ask For (Time, Upkeep & Lifestyle Shifts)12:39 Accountability on the Platform: Taking the Work Seriously19:34 Growth Through Feedback: Drafts, Principles & Applying Lessons to Fatherhood23:11 Consequences vs. Conversation: Fixing the Approach in Parenting & Marriage24:27 The “Duck Through the Door” Metaphor: Coaching People Toward You25:38 Teaching Kids Systems (Not Shame): When “One More Time” Becomes 2026:34 Not Erasing Consequences: Responding When Growth Requires More27:53 Supporting Your Partner’s Vision: Avoiding ‘Dream Killer’ Mode33:56 History vs. Grace with Adult Kids: Respecting Who They’re Becoming35:47 Seeing the Change: Communication, Adversity, and New Maturity43:23 Let Lessons Land: Application, Parenting Environment, and Patience44:58 Final Charge: Don’t Let Relationships Wither—Keep Pouring In#fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

DSN Live!: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1982055664849?aff=oddtdtcreator The Dear Son, Show: Navigating Life, Health, and SuccessWelcome to The Dear Son, Show! In this episode, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns engage in meaningful conversations aimed at helping young men navigate life's challenges. They discuss a mix of personal experiences, including health scares, and the emotional complexity that follows. This episode dives into themes of humility and arrogance, practical advice on parenting, maintaining a balance between guidance and independence, and the business acumen required for long-term success. They also share excitement for their upcoming live event on February 24th, 2026. Tune in for valuable life lessons coupled with candid reflections.00:00 Introduction and Greetings00:24 A Day of Mixed Emotions01:15 Health Scares and Wake-Up Calls02:35 Upcoming Live Event04:25 The Importance of Humility07:54 Teaching Sons About Relationships13:07 Balancing Advice and Experience25:55 The Dangers of Removing Safety Nets26:55 Balancing Arrogance and Confidence27:54 Building a Business: Timing and Preparation29:19 Educating Youth on Business Realities33:37 The Importance of Accountability and Self-Awareness35:14 Lessons from Personal Experiences41:58 Navigating Fatherhood and Family Dynamics48:24 Concluding Thoughts and Announcements#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac  Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com  My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Better Together - Episode 2 | Exploring Growth, Challenges, and PurposeIn this engaging episode of Better Together, our hosts dive deep into their personal and professional journeys. They discuss their thoughts and experiences on collaboration, the importance of purpose, handling adversity, and navigating new spaces. From entrepreneurial challenges to maintaining relationships, this episode encapsulates the essence of growing and thriving together. Join us for insightful conversations, practical advice, and a celebration of unity and individual contributions. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe to our channel and leave a comment on your favorite part of the episode!00:00 Introduction and Initial Setup00:25 Discussing Shooting Schedules00:56 Momentum and New Beginnings02:09 The Importance of Activity and Engagement03:03 Navigating Transitions and Challenges06:43 Personal Growth and Maturity12:42 Balancing Relationships and Responsibilities15:53 Communication and Partnership28:11 Asking for Help and Collaboration31:03 Overcoming the Victim Mentality31:15 The Power of Reaching Out33:17 Assessing Capacity in Entrepreneurship36:14 Delegation and Team Building41:22 Balancing Joy and Growth43:44 Staying Aligned with Purpose47:39 Navigating Life's Forks in the Road54:01 The Importance of Being Present56:27 Conclusion and Final Thoughts#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Shop Father Figure: https://www.f2apparel.store/Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac  Follow Joe T: https://instagram.com/bakeriii Follow Reggie: https://instagram.com/fatherfigureapparelAlso, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com  My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Trust The Process: Growth, Family, and the Dear Son Show's JourneyWelcome to The Dear Son, Show! In this episode, hosts D Johns and Jeyblac dive deep into meaningful conversations concerning life, growth, and fatherhood. They discuss the inspirational journey of the show, the importance of trusting the process, and the significant transitions happening in their personal lives. The hosts also touch on the balance between professional and personal commitments, and share insights on creating a nurturing environment at home. Join them as they reflect on the show's beginnings, their experiences from their recent live show, and their excitement for the future. Don't miss this engaging discussion and remember to like, share, and subscribe!00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show00:30 Studio Updates and Personal Reflections03:23 Trust the Process04:17 Live Show Success and Audience Engagement11:47 The Importance of Diverse Perspectives15:33 Building a Network and Expanding the Platform20:19 Engaging with the Audience21:18 Meaningful Conversations and Personal Connections21:59 Parenting and Community Influence22:50 Inclusivity in the Dear Son Network25:54 Consistency and Growth in Podcasting35:27 Trusting the Process in Personal and Professional Life45:48 Excitement for Future Live Shows#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Dear Son: Your Intent Doesn't Change How It Went - Real Talks on Accountability and RelationshipsOn this first-ever live episode of the Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns discuss the importance of intent versus outcome in personal and family relationships. The conversation covers multiple angles, including father-son dynamics, the impact of delivery over intent, and the nuances of loving someone the way they need to be loved. Insightful audience interactions address practical examples such as dealing with curfews, academic standards, and maintaining relationships. This thought-provoking discussion emphasizes accountability and self-awareness in nurturing healthy relationships, both within families and with significant others.00:00 Introduction and Welcome00:13 First Live Show Excitement01:10 Topic Introduction: Intent vs. Outcome02:21 Parenting Insights: Intentions and Actions07:02 Personal Anecdotes and Lessons10:02 Setting Standards and Consequences21:05 Relationship Advice: Understanding Love26:07 Lessons from My Marriage27:11 The Importance of Communication28:43 Intent vs. Action in Relationships32:21 The Role of Accountability35:03 Personal Anecdotes and Reflections37:58 Navigating Expectations and Standards48:45 Final Thoughts and Reflections#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Mastering Emotional Intelligence in Fatherhood with Jason Schnitzer | The Dear Son, ShowJoin us for a profound episode of 'The Dear Son, Show' as host D Johns engages in a heartfelt and candid conversation with Jason Schnitzer. You’ll explore the complexities of fatherhood, emotional intelligence, and how previous life experiences shape who we become as men and fathers. Jason shares his own journey from aspiring Major League Baseball player to emotional intelligence coach, offering invaluable insights on regulating emotions, effective communication, and the importance of self-awareness. Whether you're a father, soon-to-be father, or simply interested in self-growth, this episode is packed with wisdom and actionable advice. Don’t miss it! Remember to subscribe and share your favorite part in the comments below.00:00 Introduction to the Dear Sun Show00:17 Guest Introduction: Jason Schnitzer01:28 The Importance of Emotional Intelligence04:40 Family Dynamics and Childhood Experiences07:56 Marriage and Personal Growth22:12 Coaching and Self-Reflection30:35 Reflecting on Near-Death Experiences and Fear31:09 Parenting Challenges and Passing on Wisdom31:53 The Impact of Social Dynamics and Shame33:38 Navigating Fear and Emotional Suppression35:49 The Struggle with Failure and Identity38:05 Overcoming Past Failures and Embracing New Challenges39:39 The Journey from Baseball to Personal Growth46:25 Helping Others Navigate Emotional Challenges54:09 Final Thoughts and Closing Remarks#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow Jason: https://instagram.com/jasonschnitzercoaching  Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com  My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Dear Son: Don't Lose Yourself Trying to Fix Yourself - Meaningful Conversations for MenOn this episode of the Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns engage in a dynamic and heartfelt discussion on the theme 'Don't Lose Yourself Trying to Fix Yourself.' They delve into personal and family life, sharing how they balance personal growth with maintaining their true selves. The episode covers a broad range of topics including the importance of physical and mental health, navigating relationships, parenting strategies, and maintaining individuality in the face of societal and personal pressures. With an emphasis on real-life experiences and personal accountability, this conversation is designed to inspire and provide practical advice to both men and women on their individual journeys. Tune in for an engaging, humorous, and insightful episode.00:00 Introduction and Greetings00:32 Catching Up on Life01:17 School and Future Plans02:34 Today's Topic: Dear Son, Don't Lose Yourself03:14 Personal Reflections and Podcast Journey07:08 The Importance of Seeking Help13:18 Parenting Challenges and Approaches20:57 Teaching Life Lessons to Young Men26:13 A Father's Awareness and Involvement27:23 Balancing Work and Family Life28:13 The Importance of Being Present30:21 Navigating Relationships and Expectations32:25 Self-Reflection and Personal Growth37:34 The Impact of Change on Identity42:48 Closing Thoughts and Future Plans#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Don't Lose Yourself Trying to Fix Yourself | Fatherhood Guide | Ep 167 | The Dear Son, ShowAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Dear Son, Do As I Say, Not As I Did - Lessons for the New Year | The Dear Son, ShowIn this engaging episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' hosts D Johns and Jey Blac dive into meaningful conversations centered around fatherhood, discussing their personal experiences and the challenges of raising sons. They touch upon topics such as the importance of aligning actions with words, the lessons they've learned from their own fathers, and the significance of being intentional with parental guidance. The hosts also share personal anecdotes about their holiday experiences and offer insights on various life lessons they wish to impart to their sons as they journey through manhood. This episode is packed with valuable advice and relatable stories aimed at fostering better father-son relationships.00:00 Introduction to The Dead Son Show00:19 New Year Vibes and Studio Updates00:40 Family and Holiday Reflections03:26 Live Show Announcements04:33 Today's Topic: Dear Son, Do as I Say, Not as I Did06:29 Father-Son Conversations and Lessons11:45 Conflict Resolution Among Young Men16:10 Teaching Practical Skills to Sons20:12 Generational Criticism and Changing Times21:20 Handling Confrontation with Wisdom22:20 Teaching Moments and Personal Growth27:37 Communication and Responsibility40:57 Aligning Actions with Words45:52 Conclusion and Final Thoughts#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac  Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com  My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Seeds of Growth: Building Bonds, Overcoming Challenges, and Embracing ObedienceIn this heartfelt episode of the Dead Sun Show, hosts Joe T, Jey Blac, Reggie George, and D Johns delve into the importance of accepting help, the impact of past experiences, and the power of genuine connections. They share personal stories of struggle and resilience, discuss the significance of obedience, and offer powerful messages about trust and community. Join them as they reflect on growth, celebrate progress, and look forward to the collective success of their journey. Don't miss this inspiring conversation, and be sure to subscribe to the channel and leave a review!00:00 Introduction and Setting the Scene00:33 Reflecting on Connections and Serendipity02:04 Welcoming Guests and Sharing Stories03:17 The Power of Genuine Connections08:28 The Importance of 'Why' and Personal Motivations19:56 Learning to Ask for Help27:07 The Struggles of Asking for Help27:39 Trust and Vulnerability in Relationships30:23 Dealing with Grief and Loss35:37 Building Skills Through Adversity38:29 The Importance of Communication49:26 Encouragement and Moving Forward#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow us:Reggie - https://instagram.com/fatherfigureapparelJoe T - https://instagram.com/bakeriiiJey Blac - https://instagram.com/jeyblacD Johns - https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com  My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Fatherhood Lessons & Life Conversations In this episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' we dive deep into meaningful conversations about fatherhood with special guest, Antoine Clark. D Johns, the host, leads the discussion on the dynamics of growing up with different parental structures, the influence of parenting on shaping futures, and the vital lessons about responsibility and growth. From childhood experiences to navigating adulthood, both speakers reflect on their journeys, share personal stories, and offer insights into fostering strong family bonds. Don't miss this heartfelt discussion that bridges the gaps between parents and children and explores how we can lead by example. Subscribe to the channel and let us know in the comments which part of the discussion resonated with you the most!00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show00:17 Guest Introduction: An Swan Clark00:30 Childhood Memories and Family Dynamics01:17 Father's Influence and Life Lessons04:37 Marriage and Commitment Perspectives08:40 Raising Children and Parental Reflections26:01 Learning Through Experiences26:26 Balancing Freedom and Responsibility26:45 Navigating New Experiences28:28 Conversations About Relationships29:24 Blended Families and Parenting29:49 Setting Standards and Discipline41:01 Financial Wisdom and Legacy46:15 Reflections on Fatherhood51:28 Closing Thoughts and Farewell#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow Antoine: https://instagram.com/iamadotclark  Follow ClarkWork Productions: https://instagram.com/clarkworkproductionsAlso, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com  My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Year End Reflections: Wisdom We Wish We Had Learned Sooner In this episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' hosts Jey Blac and D Johns engage in a deep and reflective conversation to discuss the wisdom they wish they had known earlier in life. As they navigate through topics like celebrating holidays, the importance of valuing time with family, and lessons learned from 2025, Jey and D Johns offer valuable insights. They touch on topics such as hiring family members, dealing with imposter syndrome, fostering meaningful relationships, and preparing for the future. Tune in for a heartfelt episode that promises to spark meaningful conversations in your home. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe! Let us know your favorite part in the comment section below.00:00 Introduction and Holiday Vibes00:40 Birthday Reflections and Festive Mood02:29 Studio Updates and Group Chat Buzz04:17 Topic Introduction: Dear Son, Why Should I Hire You?05:38 Parental Perspectives on Hiring Family21:09 Generational Stacking and Family Legacy27:06 Settling in Texas: Establishing Roots27:39 Embracing Louisiana Culture28:40 Challenges of Distance and Travel31:07 Reflecting on 2025: Lessons and Growth36:05 Parenting Insights and Family Dynamics41:52 Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth42:48 Academic Pursuits and Generational Gaps47:32 Commitment to Personal and Professional Development53:07 Closing Thoughts and New Year Wishes#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac  Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com  My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Dreams Deferred: Fathers and Their Unspoken DesiresWelcome to the 'Dear Son, Show,' where meaningful conversations about life and fatherhood unfold. In this episode, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac delve into the often overlooked dreams and aspirations of fathers. They discuss the balance between providing for their families and pursuing their own passions, sharing personal anecdotes of dreams deferred and the emotional impact of sacrifices made for their loved ones. With humor and honesty, they explore the importance of acknowledging and sharing personal dreams, offering a heartfelt perspective on fatherhood, ambition, and self-worth. Join the conversation, subscribe to the channel, and leave a review to support the show!00:00 Welcome to the Dead Son Show00:38 Upcoming Live Event Announcement01:50 Excitement and Reflections02:33 Dear Son: Christmas Wishes05:50 Dreams and Sacrifices08:58 Self-Worth and Family Dynamics12:16 Balancing Self and Family16:25 The Importance of Self-Acknowledgment22:47 Balancing Family and Personal Aspirations23:11 The Joy of Traveling and Motorcycling23:46 Sacrifices for Family Stability25:41 Reflecting on Personal Dreams and Family Responsibilities28:17 Encouraging and Understanding Spousal Dreams35:08 Navigating Personal Failures and Embarrassment44:07 The Importance of Intentionality and Family Moments#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk All Dad Wants For Christmas Is | Reclaiming Your Dreams | Ep 163 | The Dear Son, ShowFollow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com  My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Navigating Parenthood with Love and DisciplineIn this engaging episode of the Dear Son Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns share exciting news about their first-ever live show scheduled for January 18th, 2026 in Mansfield, Texas. They discuss the importance of meaningful conversations for young boys and men, reflecting on lessons learned and sharing fatherhood experiences. Key topics include setting boundaries, expressing love while addressing wrongdoings, and preparing children for adulthood. The conversation takes a humorous turn when they delve into personal anecdotes, highlighting the complexities of family dynamics and the significance of clear communication.00:00 Introduction and Greetings00:42 Exciting Announcement: First Live Show02:10 Reflecting on Past Events and Relationships04:27 Parenting Challenges and Responsibilities08:01 Managing Expectations and Responsibilities12:48 Addressing Family Dynamics and Communication23:41 Facing Rejection and Adjusting Expectations24:38 Learning Self-Reliance from a Young Age25:15 The Impact of Over-Nurturing on Independence26:36 Setting Boundaries in Relationships28:56 The Consequences of Leading with Money30:46 The Importance of Communication and Sharing Perspectives32:26 Navigating Life's Challenges Together41:21 Reflecting on Personal Growth and Future Plans#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this heartfelt episode of the 'Dear Son, Show,' we dive into a profound conversation about life, fatherhood, and self-discovery. Host, D Johns explores the journey of our guest, Alexander Dixon, who shares his experiences growing up with absent parents, navigating the pressures of performance, dealing with anger and depression, and ultimately finding his identity as a father. Join us as we unpack the challenges and triumphs of breaking generational patterns, healing emotional wounds, and raising children with love and integrity. Don't forget to subscribe to the channel for more meaningful conversations and let us know which part resonated with you the most in the comments section!00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show00:17 Guest Introduction and Initial Conversation01:23 Childhood Reflections and Family Background03:14 Navigating Adolescence and Parental Relationships05:31 High School Challenges and Relocation to Texas10:39 Understanding Parental Struggles and Personal Growth14:33 Transition to Adulthood and Early Fatherhood20:04 Parenting Challenges and Personal Reflections31:26 Balancing Parenthood and Personal Identity31:55 Facing Emotional Vulnerability33:02 The Pressure of Performance34:28 Navigating Fatherhood and Personal Sacrifices36:14 Rebuilding Relationships and Self-Discovery39:24 Co-Parenting and Acceptance41:58 Generational Reflections and Parenting Wisdom57:45 Final Thoughts and Reflections#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac  Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com  My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this engaging episode of The Dear Son Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac dive into meaningful conversations about life through the lens of fatherhood. They discuss the importance of preparing for life's storms, both anticipated and unexpected, and share personal stories of overcoming challenges. D Johns talks about his health scare that changed his perspective on life, while Jey Blac reveals how a tragic family loss shaped his identity and resilience. The hosts also explore the impact of public embarrassment and the value of seeking help when needed. Whether you're a father, have a father, or are navigating life without one, this episode offers valuable insights and encouragement for weathering life's storms. Don't forget to subscribe and let us know in the comments which part resonated with you the most!00:00 Introduction and Greetings00:44 Holiday Season Excitement01:05 NAACP Event Recap01:30 Community Engagement03:06 Support and Viral Success04:05 Today's Topic: Dear Sun04:50 Navigating Life's Storms10:50 Entrepreneurship Challenges11:53 Personal Growth and Adjustments22:37 Public Embarrassment and Family Expectations25:28 Facing Consequences: A CDL Story26:35 The Snowball Effect of Ignoring Fines28:15 The Importance of Preparation and Support30:26 Creating and Surviving Your Own Storms33:30 Maintaining Character in Tough Times34:45 Judgment and Empathy During Hardships38:38 The Impact of Family and Support Systems41:05 Personal Reflections on Overcoming Adversity44:37 Health Scares and Life Changes51:47 Final Thoughts and Lessons Learned#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' hosts Jey Blac and D Johns engage in a raw and meaningful conversation designed to help young men and boys understand the lessons they wish they'd known earlier in life. They open with reflections on holiday experiences and the importance of managing expectations and stress. The discussion evolves into a deep dive into the concept of 'labels'—how we define ourselves and the impact of societal and self-imposed labels on our well-being. The hosts also explore how parents can better support their children's true passions and talents rather than imposing career labels that may not fit. Furthermore, the episode addresses the significance of maintaining core values through life transitions, and offers thoughtful advice on navigating relationships and friendships. Don't miss the insights packed into this episode. Make sure to like, comment, share, and subscribe to 'The Dear Son, Show' for more inspiring discussions.00:00 Welcome to the Dear Son, Show00:31 Holiday Reflections and Lessons Learned02:36 Football Talk: Celebrating Wins and Rivalries03:21 Promoting the Book and Special Offers05:03 The Importance of Labels and Identity08:57 Parenting: Balancing Labels and Passions17:03 Encouraging Children's Interests and Outlets21:57 The Role of Labels in Self-Worth and Identity22:59 Navigating Life Transitions23:45 The Importance of Core Values25:11 Embracing New Chapters26:05 Reflecting on Personal Growth29:03 The Pressure of Expectations31:42 The Role of Support Systems33:19 Managing Emotional Reactions37:08 The Value of Communication44:51 Concluding Thoughts and Gratitude#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac  Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com  My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this heartfelt episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' D Johns and Jey Blac delve into the empowering theme: 'My Ceiling Is Your Floor.' Highlighting the importance of setting up future generations for success, the hosts explore how fathers can use their own experiences, both good and bad, to be a springboard for their children's achievements. Covering meaningful topics such as handling emotions, the impact of words, and the critical role of adaptability in today's ever-changing world, this conversation is both enlightening and motivational. Tune in to uncover valuable insights on how to shape the future for our sons and daughters through thoughtful guidance and intentional parenting. Don't miss out—join the conversation and be sure to like, share, and subscribe to our channel!00:00 Introduction to The Dead Son Show00:17 Hosts' Banter and Water Intake Challenge01:40 Today's Topic: Dear Son, My Ceiling is Your Floor03:01 Fatherhood Reflections and Advice06:18 Emotional Regulation and Communication17:02 Adapting to Change and Technology21:09 Projecting Fears and Playing Small22:34 The Power of Words and Fear Projection23:02 Avoiding Negative Predictions23:26 Encouraging Risk-Taking and Growth24:21 Personal Experiences and Lessons26:16 Teaching Resilience and Adaptability26:58 Fostering Creativity and Ownership34:42 Sibling Competition and Development37:39 Emotional Intelligence and Self-Awareness39:34 Parenting Reflections and Future Hopes43:11 Cherishing Moments and Living with Children#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to the Dear Son Show, where hosts Jey Blac and D Johns delve into real-life, meaningful conversations designed to help young boys and men learn the lessons they wish they had known earlier. In this powerful episode, the duo discusses the essence of 'seeing it through,' the importance of internal motivation, and the challenges faced by young Black boys struggling with anxiety and depression. They also touch upon personal anecdotes about fatherhood, resilience, and the impact of maintaining open and loving communication with their families. Join us for a candid and eye-opening dialogue that can change lives. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe to stay engaged with our empowering content!00:00 Introduction and Hosts' Banter00:26 Health and Wellness Journey01:48 Fraternity Life and Personal Growth05:42 Seeing It Through: The Importance of Perseverance06:45 Parenting and Personal Accountability12:37 Community and Relationships17:47 Motivations and Adjustments24:29 The Burden of Being Wrong25:09 Personal Growth and Humility26:01 Parenting Challenges and Mistakes29:19 Finding Your 'Why'35:47 Supporting Young Black Boys39:53 Encouraging Open Communication51:13 The Importance of Internal Motivation#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Join hosts D Johns and Jey Blac on 'The Dear Son, Show' as they delve into the essence of marriage and fatherhood. This episode unpacks the highs and lows of being a husband and father, providing unparalleled insights through lived experiences. They discuss the importance of having a supportive partner, the irreplaceable moments in fatherhood, and the realities of navigating marriage. With candid anecdotes and valuable life lessons, this episode offers a wealth of wisdom for anyone navigating these crucial roles. Don’t miss out—watch, like, and subscribe for more enlightening conversations!Chapters:00:00 Introduction to Being a Husband01:14 Welcome to the Dead Son Show02:19 The Joy and Challenges of Content Creation03:21 The Value of Real Conversations07:07 Managing Expectations in Relationships18:06 The Importance of Growth in Marriage21:55 Learning from Past Relationships25:52 Navigating Relationship Dynamics26:26 The Importance of Receptive Partners26:42 The Concept of Nagging26:45 Reflections on Past Relationships27:37 The Value of Hindsight27:42 Marriage: The Good and the Bad33:46 Fatherhood: Unconditional Belief36:18 Balancing Parenting and Childhood38:04 The Joy of Watching Children Grow39:33 The Complexity of Adult Children43:21 The Interconnectedness of Life Choices47:59 Closing Thoughts on Parenthood and Marriage#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Follow Jermaine: https://Instagram.com/jermainelnelson https://damagedbutdelivered.com#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac  Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com  My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac  Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com  My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

What do you do when your son steps to you like a man? In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, things get real. A father faces a moment every parent hopes to avoid — his son challenging his authority. What starts as tension turns into a powerful conversation about respect, maturity, and what it really means to grow into manhood.And just when it feels like things are cooling down, the conversation takes another turn. The son asks for advice about dating a young woman who already has a child. The father’s response? Honest. Unfiltered. And full of wisdom that comes from experience.This one isn’t about being perfect — it’s about being present. It’s about listening, learning, and leading with love.#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac  Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com  My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this engaging episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns dive into deeply impactful conversations aimed at helping boys, young men, and adult men learn valuable life lessons. Through personal anecdotes and real-life scenarios, the hosts discuss the importance of not taking things personally and how it can affect different areas of life, from personal relationships to professional settings. They also delve into the dynamics of parenting with grace and the significance of leading with curiosity, both in the corporate world and at home. Tune in for insightful dialogue that encourages self-reflection and proactive change. Don't miss out—like, share, and subscribe for more compelling episodes!00:00:00 Welcome to the Dear Sun Show00:00:18 Catching Up: Birthdays and School Updates00:00:53 Discussing the Cowboys and Gremlin Losses00:02:55 The Importance of Taking Things Personally00:09:06 Corporate Lessons: Firing vs. Resignation00:20:24 Leadership and Parenting: Balancing Friendliness and Authority00:24:58 Leading Curiously: Asking 'Why' for Better Outcomes00:29:20 Listening to Your Child00:29:54 Adjustments vs. Compromises00:30:34 Setting Expectations in Parenting00:33:42 Communicating in Relationships00:45:51 The Importance of Participation00:52:17 Grace and Understanding00:56:37 Closing Thoughts and Announcements#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac  Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com  My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to another insightful episode of The Dear Son, Show, where hosts D Johns and Jey Blac dive deeply into meaningful conversations about life through the lens of fatherhood. In this episode, they touch on three main topics: the importance of respecting time and its implications, the challenges of parenting through gray areas and difficult scenarios, and the significance of not placing a price on one's integrity. The episode promises a blend of humor, critical thinking, and raw authenticity, providing valuable insights for fathers and sons navigating their own paths. Make sure to like, share, and subscribe to the channel to join us on this journey!00:00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show00:00:18 Hosts' Personal Anecdotes and Gratitude00:01:01 Engaging with Audience Comments00:02:14 Promotions and Announcements00:05:04 Cultural Perspectives on Time Management00:06:24 Mindset and Perception in Personal Development00:07:50 Parenting and Job Interview Experiences00:13:22 Leadership Styles and Effectiveness00:23:55 Understanding the Impact of Parenting Styles00:24:54 Adapting Leadership and Management Approaches00:26:36 The Unique Nature of Each Child00:28:13 The Importance of Data in Decision Making00:28:47 Encouraging Open Conversations00:31:20 Core Values and Personal Beliefs00:35:07 The Dangers of Valuing Money Over Integrity00:39:03 Legality vs. Morality00:51:07 Parenting Through the Gray Areas00:51:38 Football Season and Closing Remarks#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this milestone episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns dive deep into the pressing issues faced by parents today. They explore the intricacies of family dynamics, touching on the importance of communication with children and the struggles of balancing structure and empathy. The episode delves into real-life scenarios, including handling children's schedules, the impact of modern technology on parenting, and the importance of understanding and meeting your children's needs. This engaging conversation is a must-watch for parents seeking to strengthen their relationships with their children and improve their parenting strategies. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe to stay updated on future episodes!00:00 Introduction and Welcome00:17 Show Kickoff and Announcements00:54 Book Promotions and Giveaways02:55 Daily Life and Parenting Challenges09:57 Football Season and Rivalries14:52 Reflections on the Show's Impact22:07 Parenting in the Digital Age26:31 The Beauty of Awareness27:00 School Phone Policies28:47 Emergency Situations and School Safety29:56 Parenting Challenges and Reflections31:46 Balancing Discipline and Empathy37:32 The Importance of Communication50:09 Compromises and Time Management57:28 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac  Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com  My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac engage in meaningful conversations about life through the lens of fatherhood. They cover topics that resonate with fathers, those with fathers, and the fatherless. Key highlights include Jey Blac discussing his excitement about becoming a senior in college and the challenges that come with it, D Johns sharing his son's experiences balancing school and a budding career in the electrical trade, and an insightful discussion on how not every planted seed grows but how persistence and good nurturing can yield unexpected results. The hosts also share personal anecdotes about balancing multiple responsibilities and the importance of dedication in every aspect of life. Don't miss this engaging discussion and make sure to subscribe to our channel for more heartfelt conversations and life lessons!00:00:00 Welcome to the Dear Son, Show00:00:26 Celebrating Milestones and Achievements00:01:43 Back to School and Family Updates00:03:30 The Challenges of Parenting and Education00:04:53 Not Every Planted Seed Grows00:07:40 College Life and New Beginnings00:12:07 Balancing Freedom and Responsibility00:21:34 Gardening and Life Lessons00:25:07 The Heat in Dallas and Plant Care00:25:44 Germination Period and Patience00:26:13 The Importance of Proper Plant Placement00:26:54 Sharing Resources and Soil Management00:27:48 Nurturing Plants and Recognizing Efforts00:28:45 Marriage and Relationships Insights00:32:00 Balancing Busy Schedules and Priorities00:34:51 Strategic Planting and Crop Rotation00:35:37 Teaching Life Skills and Observations00:41:10 Career Advice and Personal Growth00:49:17 Promoting Books and Final Thoughts#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac  Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com  My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns delve into the importance of self-reflection and accountability. They discuss how understanding one's strengths and weaknesses can lead to personal growth, and they stress the significance of not falling in love with one's initial ideas or external perceptions. They also explore the challenges of maintaining meaningful relationships amidst busy lives and highlight the role of honest communication in strengthening these bonds. Finally, they examine the role of AI and modern technology in today's workforce, emphasizing the importance of using these tools to enhance rather than replace human skills. Don't miss this insightful conversation that promises to help young men and boys realize the value of introspection and meaningful connections. Remember to like, comment, and subscribe to stay updated with our latest episodes.00:00:00 Introduction to the Dishon Show00:00:13 New Beginnings and Reflections00:01:57 Today's Topic: Watch That Mirror00:03:06 Accountability and Self-Reflection00:06:38 Generational Shifts and AI00:13:12 The Importance of Networking00:21:37 Relationships and Lifelong Friendships00:30:07 Parental Involvement and Dual Parent Households00:31:17 Encouraging Fathers to Engage More00:31:54 Self-Love and Its Pitfalls00:32:43 Constructive Criticism and Personal Growth00:34:46 The Importance of Being Receptive00:36:30 Balancing Personal and Professional Life00:42:21 Maintaining Relationships Amidst a Busy Schedule00:46:09 Reflecting on Personal Accountability00:53:46 Concluding Thoughts and Announcements#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of The Dead Son Show, join hosts D Johns and Jay Black as they delve into meaningful conversations about the journey of fatherhood and the importance of leaving a lasting legacy for future generations. From discussing the challenges of balancing work and family life to ensuring children understand the value of resilience and progress, no topic is off-limits. Key highlights include the importance of being a dependable source of guidance for your children, the value of teaching entrepreneurial skills and financial literacy, and the necessity of holding children accountable to their dreams to foster their independence and success. Subscribe to our channel and join the dialogue on effective parenting and family building!00:00 Welcome to The Dead Son Show00:16 Hosts Introductions and Personal Updates01:00 Life Lessons and Parenting Reflections03:06 Dear Son, Don't Let Me Be Your Ceiling04:37 The Scooter Debate and Generational Perspectives10:50 Financial Wisdom and Family Conversations15:53 Teaching Financial Literacy to the Next Generation20:05 The Value of Conversations and Learning from Elders28:54 Struggles of Growing Up with Financial Hardships30:29 Navigating High School and Future Uncertainties32:06 Military as a Pathway to Education33:32 Parenting Challenges and Overcoming Adversity36:17 Encouraging Children's Dreams and Aspirations47:56 Reflections on Personal Growth and Music53:27 Closing Remarks and Call to Action#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting  Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac  Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com  My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this insightful episode of The Dear Son, Show, Jey Blac and D Johns delve into meaningful conversations aimed at guiding young boys and men. They explore the balance between traditional values and modern practices, discussing the impact of old advice on new generations. Key topics include the significance of teaching wisdom rather than just steps, the complex dynamics of caring for aging parents, and the importance of letting the new generation find their own path. Tune in for a deep dive into parenting, societal expectations, and the evolving nature of roles within the family. Don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe to stay updated with our latest episodes!00:00 Introduction to the Dear Sound Show00:24 Podcasting Journey and Influences01:12 Summer Plans and Family Life02:07 Grocery Shopping Habits03:24 Today's Topic: Keep Your Old Paint Off My New Canvas06:11 Parenting Styles and Micromanagement09:49 Teaching Wisdom Over Steps16:24 Marriage Dynamics and Generational Differences20:01 Explaining the Why to Children24:16 Encouraging Independence in Children25:27 Reflecting on Parenting and Sibling Dynamics25:57 Observing and Encouraging Children's Creativity29:05 The Role of Children in Caring for Aging Parents31:29 Balancing Tradition and Modern Responsibilities33:24 Navigating Family Dynamics and Caregiving40:40 Generational Differences and Adaptation49:08 Concluding Thoughts and Family Reflections#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting  Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac  Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com  My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyMy book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to another heartfelt episode of The Dear Son, Show where hosts D Johns and Jey Blac engage in meaningful conversations about life through the lens of fatherhood. In this episode, they navigate the exciting and challenging journey of parenting, focusing on significant moments and lessons learned. They discuss their sons transitioning into adulthood, the importance of expressing love and appreciation, and how to prepare them for life's responsibilities. Tune in for a heartwarming and enlightening discussion on embracing fatherhood. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more insightful content!00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show00:19 Hosts Catching Up00:48 Parenting Updates and Reflections04:21 Discussing the Joys of Fatherhood05:47 Children's Humor and Personalities09:59 Activities and Hobbies15:52 Lessons Learned from Parenting21:19 Changing the Tire21:26 Teaching Life Skills to Kids22:04 Yard Work Memories23:18 Bonding with Children24:41 Caring for Aging Parents25:10 The Cycle of Life33:38 Expressing Love to Teenage Sons36:16 Emotional Intelligence in Parenting41:43 Pride and Support in Parenting47:10 Cherishing Parenting Moments48:31 Conclusion and Gratitude#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting  Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac  Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com  My book: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast  The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to another impactful episode of The Dear Son, Show with Jey Blac and D Johns! In this episode, we dive deep into real-life conversations aimed to guide young men and fathers through the challenges of life. JD shares a moving story about his father's recent health scare, and they both open up about navigating their sons' journeys toward adulthood and independence. Together, they tackle the importance of 'fine-tuning' rather than 'removing' traits in your children, the valuable life lessons learned, and the importance of setting benchmarks for parental involvement. Tune in to hear our take on vital topics like effective parenting, preparing for life's unexpected turns, and encouraging self-awareness in your kids. Don't forget to hit that subscribe button and share your thoughts in the comments below!00:00 Introduction and Host Greetings00:17 Personal Stories and Family Health01:29 Parenting Challenges and Reflections02:06 Today's Topic: Don't Remove, Fine Tune02:30 Parenting Styles and Generational Differences04:21 Navigating Teenage Independence06:00 Preparing for the Future: Education and Career Choices10:35 Balancing Guidance and Independence13:14 Real-Life Parenting Struggles24:31 Getting the Bread: Job Hunting and Opportunities25:40 Scooter Dilemma: To Ride or Not to Ride27:45 Lessons in Confidence and Humility29:45 Navigating Trade School: Challenges and Strategies33:21 Parental Guidance: Balancing Support and Independence46:43 Final Thoughts and Reflections#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show  Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My book: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast  https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy