Your Marriage Isn't Broken, It's Paused feat. Dr Lee Baucom

No man wakes up one morning and decides to stop fancying his wife. It happens by a decision neither of you remember making.See exactly where the connection is leaking. Take your free HVM Score: https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreDr Lee Baucom has spent thirty years working with couples and is the author of Save the Marriage. Jonnie bought that programme during his own divorce, ten years ago, and says it changed how he thinks about relationships to this day. They talk about the relationships that aren't broken, just quiet, and what it takes for one man to bring one back to life without waiting for permission.WHY THIS MATTERSNobody arrives at the end of a marriage. Everybody drifts there, one benign decision at a time, and most men don't notice until the distance is too wide to talk across. Lee names the exact slope, and what a man can do about it on his own.HIGH VALUE MOMENTS02:38 What Jonnie learned about himself after his divorce04:41 Good people having bad relationships08:40 Save the Marriage, and the app that came before it10:24 The little things that keep love alive11:29 How couples hit the pause button14:38 Why "we really love each other" doesn't beat the statistics15:21 Treating the symptoms instead of the disconnection17:26 The three levels of connection: physical, emotional, spiritual20:16 Why the movie stops at happily ever after24:21 The telltale signs of the pause phase25:49 Setting the rules early: no eye rolls, no silent moods30:54 Anger is a secondary emotion32:29 Why you're more gracious with strangers than your wife33:34 The disses: from disinterest to disdain36:30 What constant rejection does to a man40:04 When the relationship strains, everything strains45:09 Putting your whole life on one relationship47:18 Relationship before results49:37 The three Cs: connect, change, create50:45 Invitational connection, not date night52:40 The moment his girlfriend said "believe"55:49 Breaking up with loveCONNECT WITH LEEIf your marriage is in crisis: https://savethemarriage.comIf you're stuck and drifting that way: https://unpauseyourmarriage.comYOUR HIGH VALUE MAN SCOREDiscover your High Value Man score, so you can see where you're leaking your energy, connection and joy. Three minutes, and a personal report the moment you finish.https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreSHARE / REVIEW / SUBSCRIBEKnow a man whose marriage has gone quiet? Send this to him directly. Not a broadcast. One specific man.A review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify takes 90 seconds. It's the most useful thing you can do to help more men find this show.Apple: htpps://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify: htpps://highvaluemanproject.com/spotify