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The Jonnie Jensen Show
by JONNIE JENSEN
Welcome to The Jonnie Jensen Show – for business owning and career minded dads who want success at home so they can feel like the man and dad they want to be.Modern dads often put themselves last, thinking being enough for everyone else will make them happy. It won’t.When you get strong first – mentally, physically and emotionally – everything else improves.Jonnie is a divorced business owning dad and founder of the High Value Man Project.Real stories. Honest conversations. No alpha hustle. Just clarity, courage and commitment.Start here: https://highvaluemanproject.com/group
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Clear Mind, Clear Results - Law of Attraction for Men
A clear mind gets clear results. The reason this is true is much more scientific than most men believe. If you think the Law of Attraction is a load of crap then you may be missing out on the basic principles of "you get what you think about most of the time". This episode is why a clear mind matters and how to fix it.Find out where your thinking is clear and where it's cluttered. The free HVM Score takes two minutes: https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreJonnie Jensen breaks down the law of attraction in real-world terms — not crystals and vision boards, but full body alignment: thoughts, actions and chemistry all pointing in the same direction. Why desire alone isn't enough. Why the doubt underneath is the thought that's actually running the show. And the simple exercise that clears the interference so you can get after what you actually want.WHY THIS MATTERSMost men are working hard and going in circles. Not because they lack effort or a plan, but because their doubts are louder than their desire — even when they can't hear them. This episode names that and gives you a way out.HIGH VALUE MOMENTS00:00 The Law of Attraction for Men: Alignment, Not Wishful Thinking01:29 Who the High Value Man Framework Is For03:48 Get Clear on What You Want06:22 How Doubt Undermines Your Goals08:30 The Desire vs. Doubt Exercise10:38 Why Your Energy Has to Match Your Intention11:08 The Laser Pointer Test for Focus11:33 Clear Doubt and Build MomentumYOUR HIGH VALUE MAN SCOREFind out where your thinking is clear and where it's cluttered. The free HVM Score takes two minutes and shows you exactly where you're winning and where you're losing ground across focus, impact, relationships and energy.https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreBOOK A POWER CALLTake the scorecard, then book a call with Jonnie to go through your results. If working together is right for you, that's where it starts.https://highvaluemanproject.com/turbocall SHARE / REVIEW / SUBSCRIBEKnow a man who's going in circles despite working hard? Send this to him directly. One specific man.A review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify takes 90 seconds and helps more men find this show.Listen on all platforms: https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcast
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Getting Divorced Is Tough. Being Divorced Should Be Great.
Divorce does not end your life. It simply ends your marriage. This episode breaks down how to get back on your feet in less time, with fewer mistakes, and more fun.Find out where you're at in the rebuild. The free High Value Man Scorecard takes two minutes and shows you exactly where to focus first: https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreToo many men walk out of a marriage and spend the next few years carrying it with them. In this episode, Jonnie Jensen breaks down the high value man route through divorce and rebuild: the six stages of grief and why they don't go in order, the Fab Four support structure, the soul cutting exercise, and how to use the 3XC framework to build something better on the other side.WHY THIS MATTERSDivorce doesn't take men down. The way men respond to divorce takes them down. There's a route through this that's faster, cleaner, and results in a better man on the other side. This episode is that route.HIGH VALUE MOMENTS00:00 Introduction — Divorce Doesn't End Your Life07:15 The Six Stages of Grief (And Why They Don't Go in Order)14:47 Clarity: Who Are You When She's Not in the Picture?21:34 The Fab Four — Your Divorce Support Team23:04 The Soul Cutting Exercise: How to Actually Let Her Go28:27 Commitment: Minimum Viable Output and Building the New ChapterYOUR HIGH VALUE MAN SCOREFind out where you're at in the rebuild. The free HVM Score takes two minutes and shows you exactly where you're winning and where you're losing ground across focus, impact, relationships and energy.https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreBOOK A POWER CALLTake the scorecard, then book a call with Jonnie to go through your results. If working together is right for you, that's where it starts.https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercallSHARE / REVIEW / SUBSCRIBEKnow a man who's in this right now? Send this directly to him. Not a broadcast. One specific man.A review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify takes 90 seconds and helps more men find this show.https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyhttps://highvaluemanproject.com/apple
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Work So Hard Burnout Nearly Killed Him feat. Nick Medlock
If Nick hadn't have been training for a marathon, burnout would have killed him. And he was only 28 at the time! Now 5 years later he sold that business and is growing a second. This is a powerful Comeback Kings episode that will move, motivate and make you laugh.Find out where you're running on empty before your body makes the decision for you. Take your free HVM Score: https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreNick Medlock is 33. He built an outstanding-rated care company from the ground up alongside his mum, sold it when his health gave him no other choice, and is now building again. Jonnie Jensen talks to him about what happens when the drive that makes a man successful becomes the thing that nearly destroys him.WHY THIS MATTERSA man who can't stop isn't strong. He's running on empty and calling it dedication. Nick's story names where that road ends, and what the way back looks like.HIGH VALUE MOMENTS02:12 Nick's Upbringing and Values05:57 The Importance of Friendships07:55 Career Beginnings and Family Business10:09 Challenges in Adult Care13:47 Burnout and Mental Health Awareness20:12 Realisations and Changes in Life24:22 The Struggle and Realisation25:53 Transitioning from Family Business29:47 Navigating the Sale of a Business30:55 New Beginnings and Business Ventures34:11 Building Trust in Partnerships38:44 Family Values and Parenting GoalsCONNECT WITH NICKBlue Circle Surveyors: https://www.bluecirclesurveyors.co.ukLinkedIn: Nick MedlockDISCOVER YOUR HIGH VALUE MAN SCOREThe free HVM Scorecard takes two minutes and shows you exactly where you're winning and where you're losing ground across focus, impact, relationships and energy.https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreBOOK A TURBO CALLTake the scorecard, then book a call with Jonnie to go through your results. If working together is right for you, that's where it starts.https://highvaluemanproject.com/turbocallSHARE / REVIEW / SUBSCRIBEKnow a business-owning dad who needs to hear Nick's story? Send it to him directly. Not a broadcast. One specific man.A review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify takes 90 seconds. It's the most useful thing you can do to help more men find this show.Listen on all platforms: https://highvaluemanproject.com/applehttps://highvaluemanproject.com/spotify
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Man Up: The Three-Step Process to Finding Your Purpose
A lot of men need to man up. That's not a put down. It is about every man finding his own purpose. Because when men don't have purpose they feel disempowered and voiceless. This episode tells breakdown how you can MAN UP. Start to feel like the man you want to be. Take your free HVM Score now: https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreJonnie's position: "man up" as a put-down is useless. As a rallying cry - for men who've lost their purpose, their direction, their reason for driving the day - it's exactly right. This episode is the how. Built from years of coaching hundreds of business owning dads who have found their energy, connection and joy.WHY THIS MATTERSA man without purpose doesn't sit still. He keeps everyone else's game running instead. Another year passes. The feeling doesn't go away. It just gets easier to ignore.HIGH VALUE MOMENTS06:28 The 3XC Formula: Clarity, Courage, Commitment12:40 Finding Clarity in Identity19:22 The Role of Courage in Transformation23:55 Commitment: The Key to Lasting ChangeREADY TO LEAD YOUR HIGH VALUE MAN LIFE?Not sure where your life is leaking energy, focus and drive? The free HVM Scorecard takes 2 minutes and shows you exactly where you're winning and where you're losing ground across focus, impact, relationships and energy.https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreBOOK A POWER CALLTake the scorecard and book a call with Jonnie to review your results. If Elite one-to-one is right for you, that's where it starts.https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercallSHARE / REVIEW / SUBSCRIBEIf this landed, share it with one man in your world who needs to hear it.Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify - it takes 90 seconds and it makes a real difference.https://highvaluemanproject.com/applehttps://highvaluemanproject.com/spotify
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Fathers Day - It's Massive And It's Meaningless
Fatherhood is one of the most thankless jobs going. But it's also one of the best. Wherever you are this Father's Day, this one's for you.https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreJonnie Jensen dropped this short special on Father's Day weekend for every kind of dad: the ones who've got their kids around them, the ones who won't see their kids today, the ones in the long game who are quietly wondering if any of it's landing.A single dad himself, Jonnie speaks directly to the men who are fighting for contact, the ones going through divorce, the ones whose teenagers have pulled away, and the ones who are showing up every day to a role that doesn't always come with much gratitude. He talks about the father figures beyond your own dad, about what Father's Day actually means versus what we think it should mean, and about the one thing that gets single dads through: staying focused on what's coming next, not wallowing in what's been lost.This is a short, honest, personal one. No framework. Just one dad talking to others.WHY THIS MATTERSMen don't need permission to celebrate fatherhood or to acknowledge how hard it is. What they do need is someone to say: if it's not working the way you want it to right now, that can change. You don't have to have got it right up until now to start getting it right. The relationship with your kids is the long game. Keep playing it.TAKE THE SCORECARDNot sure where your life is leaking energy, focus and drive? The free HVM Scorecard takes 2 minutes and shows you exactly where you're winning and where you're losing ground across focus, impact, relationships and energy.https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreSHARE / REVIEW / SUBSCRIBEKnow a dad who needs to hear this today? Send it to him.Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Subscribe so you never miss an episode.
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You'll Never Walk Again: Colin Owensby on Resilience, Loss and a Fulfilled Life
He was told at 15 he might never walk again. This week's guest, Colin Owensby, rebuilt his body, lost his brother three months later, and went on to model in Milan, double for Ashton Kutcher in Hollywood, finish an Ironman and a 100-mile ultra, and build a life he calls genuinely fulfilled.This episode runs longer than usual but it was a story that just couldn't be cut short.Not sure where your life is leaking energy, focus and drive? Take the free HVM Scorecard:https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreJonnie and Colin get into rebuilding after tragedy, why grief is not the end of the story, the wisdom of children, what five years beside A-list actors taught Colin about excellence, and Colin's Map of Resilience: nine simple, mostly free tools for a fulfilled life.WHY THIS MATTERSMost men never face the question Colin faced at 15: can I come back from this? But every man hits chapters that end, identities that fall away, and moments that ask him to adapt or shut down. This episode is a masterclass in choosing to keep going, and a reminder that fulfilment is available whatever you are going through.HIGH VALUE MOMENTS09:40 The car accident at 1519:20 Losing his brother23:20 What grief really teaches29:40 A 16-year-old's wisdom and his parents' divorce41:20 Milan, the runways, and learning every industry53:40 Hollywood, Ashton Kutcher, and what excellence looks like1:01:20 Meeting his wife1:08:30 The Map of Resilience: the nine tools1:16:30 Loneliness, community and giving back1:21:00 Spirituality and being the epicentre of your lifeTAKE THE SCORECARDDiscover your High Value Man score and see where you're leaking your energy, connection and joy:https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreBOOK A POWER CALLReady to talk about your next chapter? https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercallCONNECT WITH COLINInstagram: @theColinOwensbyWebsite: https://theColinOwensby.comPLEASE SHARE, REVIEW AND SUBSCRIBEIf this helped, share it with a man who needs it, leave a review, and subscribe so you never miss an episode. Subscribe on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@JonnieJensen?sub_confirmation=1Spotify: https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyApple: https://highvaluemanproject.com/apple
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Win At Home Before You Lose It All: The 5 Step System For Midlife Men
You can't keep grinding harder and expecting home life to sort itself out. It won't. The man who's losing at home is going to keep losing until he turns and faces it.Get your High Value Man Score. Find out where your energy and joy are leaking. Takes 2 mins. 👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreYou've worked your arse off. The business is doing well. The house, the car, the holidays. On paper you've made it.So why does midlife feel like this for men?Why are you knackered all the time. Why does your wife look at you like she's tolerating you. Why are your kids walking around you like you're the angry man in the corner. Why does fun feel like something other people are having.This episode is for every midlife man who can feel it slipping. The man, the dad, the husband he wanted to be. The man he was when she fell in love with him. The man he used to like seeing in the mirror.There are five things you have to nail to come back from that, and they have to be done in the right order. This is the system Jonnie runs men through inside Accelerate and on the "Win At Home Before It's Too Late" webinars this month. The same system that's pulled men back from the brink of divorce, burnout, and quietly losing it all.WHY THIS MATTERSThis episode names exactly what's broken and gives you the five-step system to fix it. Identity. Energy. The cost of the wrong life. The hormones running the show whether you like it or not. The diamond alliance most men don't have. And the fun and adventure that gets killed off first when life gets hard.Sort these five and everything else follows. Ignore them and no amount of success will ever feel like enough.HIGH VALUE MOMENTS00:00 Winning at Home: The Foundation of Success03:59 The Five Core Elements for Thriving10:37 Understanding Identity and Energy Levels16:07 The Importance of Relationships and Support22:24 Finding Joy and Adventure in Life28:57 Creating a System for LivingREGISTER FOR THE WINNING AT HOME WEBINARA 60-minute live session running through June. The fastest way to take what's in this episode and turn it into action.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/win-at-homeDISCOVER YOUR HIGH VALUE MAN SCORENot sure where your life is leaking energy, connection and joy? The free HVM Scorecard takes 2 minutes and shows you exactly where you're winning and where you're losing ground across focus, impact, relationships and energy.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreBOOK A POWER CALL WITH JONNIEReady to stop going through the motions and start leading? I have spaces available for Elite 1:1 coaching this month.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercallSHARE, REVIEW AND SUBSCRIBESubscribe so you never miss an episode. If this one landed, leave a review and send it to one other man who needs to hear it.Apple: https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify: https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotify
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Men's Style Tips: How to Dress Better in Your 40s and 50s with Nick Hems
Most men get to their 40s and realise they have no idea what they're doing with their wardrobe. They've been wearing the same kind of stuff for years, they don't know what fits, what works, or where to even start. Nick Hems is a men's personal stylist who builds wardrobes for business owners and career-driven men who want to look the part without spending their life shopping. In this episode he breaks down the most common mistakes men make and shares a practical approach to building a wardrobe that actually works.Get your High Value Man Score. Find out where your drive, connection and joy is leaking. Takes 2 mins. 👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreWHY THIS MATTERSHow you dress is not vanity. It's communication. Within the first seven seconds of meeting you, people make up to eleven decisions about who you are. Whether you trust them. Whether you want to engage. Whether you take them seriously.For business-owning and career-driven men this isn't optional. The way you show up shapes the opportunities you attract, the conversations you have, and how you feel about yourself walking into a room. This episode is a practical, no-nonsense guide to fixing the gap between how you look and how you want to be seen.HIGH VALUE MOMENTS05:29 The Importance of Appearance in Leadership09:43 Common Style Mistakes Men Make14:38 Managing Your Wardrobe Effectively20:43 Building a Capsule Wardrobe for Success24:19 The Joy of Shopping26:59 Navigating the Changing Retail Landscape29:23 Quality Over Quantity in Wardrobe Choices31:01 Exploring Unique Shopping Experiences33:20 The Importance of Honest Feedback34:50 Investing in Comfort and Quality38:18 Transformational Power of Style40:45 Building Confidence Through Wardrobe ChoicesFIND NICKWebsite: https://www.nickhemsstyle.co.ukLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nickhems/FIND OUT YOUR HIGH VALUE MAN SCORENot sure where your life is leaking energy, focus and drive? The free HVM Scorecard takes 2 minutes and shows you exactly where you're winning and where you're losing ground across focus, impact, relationships and energy.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreBOOK A POWER CALL WITH JONNIEReady to stop going through the motions and start leading? I have spaces available for Elite 1:1 coaching this month.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercallSHARE, REVIEW AND SUBSCRIBESubscribe so you never miss an episode. If this one landed, leave a review and send it to one other man who needs to hear it.Apple: https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify: https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotify
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Being A Step Dad - Are You Getting It Wrong?
Being a stepdad is one of the hardest jobs a man can take on. Get it right and its a true privilege. Get it wrong and its a recipe for endless stress and drama.Get your High Value Man Score. Find out where your energy and drive are leaking. Takes 2 mins. 👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreJonnie just got off a coaching call about step parenting on Bank Holiday Monday and couldn't wait to record this. In this episode he draws on his own experience as a stepson, as a stepdad, and from over a decade of coaching men through blended family life. Six principles that he genuinely believes work, not because they're easy, but because they're honest about what the job actually requires.WHY THIS MATTERSBlended families are more common than ever and the tension inside them is quietly wrecking relationships. Men stepping into a stepdad role with the wrong mindset, trying to enforce rules, competing with the biological dad, or going half in, create more damage than they realise. And the kids carry it.This episode names what most men get wrong and gives a clear path to getting it right. Whether you're a stepdad, about to become one, or your kids are now spending time with your ex's new partner, there is something in here for you.HIGH VALUE MOMENTS00:00 Introduction: Being a Stepparent Is Nothing Like Being a Biological Dad01:20 Who This Episode Is For02:31 Take the High Value Man Scorecard03:43 Jonnie's Experience as a Stepson04:16 Getting a Stepmum Nine Months After Losing His Mum06:26 Being Stepdad to Archie09:17 Point 1: Your Role Is Earned Not Given11:17 Point 2: All In or Not At All13:25 Point 3: Their Dad Is Their Dad15:55 When Your Kid Calls the Stepdad Dad18:01 Point 4: Don't Try to Be the Primary Parent21:28 Point 5: Pick Your Battles and Don't Sweat the Small Stuff23:36 How Jo and Rose Got It Right25:25 Relationship Before Results26:33 Point 6: The Blended Family Is a Whole Different Game28:34 The Honest Bit: What Jonnie Got Wrong30:27 The Win: What Success as a Stepparent Looks Like33:12 Leave A Review And Share This EpisodeFIND OUT YOUR HIGH VALUE MAN SCORENot sure where your life is leaking energy, focus and drive? The free HVM Scorecard takes 2 minutes and shows you exactly where you're winning and where you're losing ground across focus, impact, relationships and energy.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreBOOK A POWER CALL WITH JONNIEReady to stop going through the motions and start leading? I have spaces available for Elite 1:1 coaching this month.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercallSHARE, REVIEW AND SUBSCRIBESubscribe so you never miss an episode. If this one landed, leave a review and send it to one other man who needs to hear it.Apple: https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify: https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotify
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Ezra Vancil Addiction, Divorce and the Rebuild Nobody Saw Coming
A Texas musician. Two divorces. A decade of addiction. And a life rebuilt from the ground up. This one will hit you somewhere real.Get your High Value Man Score. Reclaim your energy and drive. Takes 2 mins. 👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreLast week Jonnie turned 52 and looked at exactly what he's learned about making sure he's not running himself into the ground. This week his guest has lived the full version of that story, and come out the other side making the best music of his life.Ezra Vancil is a performing songwriter, author, and father from Texas. He plays in a band with his daughter. He's been signed, dropped, divorced twice, through addiction and sobriety, in and out of mental hospitals, and at rock bottom more than once. He got sober at 40 and has spent the thirteen years since rebuilding a life, a marriage, and a creative purpose that actually means something. This is his story.WHY THIS MATTERSMost men who are struggling aren't struggling because of their circumstances. They're struggling because somewhere along the way they lost themselves inside a version of life they were trying to hold together. Ezra did what a lot of men do: kept the ambition running, buried the pain, and let the alcohol do the work of keeping him going. Until it didn't.What makes this conversation worth your time isn't the darkness. It's what came after. Ezra talks about fatherhood, divorce, affairs, custody battles, the moment a therapist told him he could be happy, and what it actually took to change. If you're in a hard chapter right now and can't quite see the next one, this is for you.HIGH VALUE MOMENTS03:47 — The Importance of Family and Legacy09:28 — Ezra's Musical Journey Begins16:38 — Navigating Relationships and Fatherhood21:20 — The Jekyll and Hyde of Addiction24:20 — Lessons from Divorce and Relationships29:56 — Value of Time in Relationships31:51 — Commitment and Effort in Marriage33:40 — The Downfall: Affairs and Consequences36:47 — Navigating Divorce and Child Custody40:21 — Awareness of Mental Health44:35 — Catalyst for Change and Recovery51:06 — Embracing a New Chapter55:44 — Creativity and Purpose in MusicFIND EZRAWebsite: https://EzraVancil.comInstagram: @EzraVancilMusic on all streaming platforms: search Ezra VancilFIND OUT YOUR HIGH VALUE MAN SCOREGet your life MOT in under two minutes. Find out exactly where you are leaking focus, energy and joy. 👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreBOOK A POWER CALL WITH JONNIE JENSENReady to stop going through the motions and start leading? I have spaces available for Elite 1:1 coaching this month. 👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercallSHARE, REVIEW AND SUBSCRIBESubscribe so you never miss an episode. If this one landed, leave a review and send it to one other man who needs to hear it.Apple: https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify: https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotify
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The Decade That Makes or Breaks You: What I've Learned at 52
Frustrated that you don't feel like the man you want to be? Find out where your energy and drive are leaking.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/score52 is bloody old. Or is it? A couple of decades ago it definitely would have been. But now? The question is how you should be feeling and thinking at this point - and whether you're actually doing it.If you're just turning 40, listen up. This decade matters more than any other. You wouldn't run a high performance car into the ground and wonder why it's falling apart. On his 52nd birthday, Jonnie looks at exactly what he's learned about making sure he's not doing that to himself - and what you can do right now to make sure you're not doing it either.WHY THIS MATTERSA lot of men hit their 40s and start to feel it. Not the age itself - something else. The energy quietly dropping. The spark fading. The sense that life should feel better than this by now They look at it as a motivation problem or a circumstances problem when actually it comes down to a handful of fundamentals they've stopped doing or never really started. This episode names them directly. If you're heading into your 40s or already in them, the gap between where you are and where you want to be probably starts somewhere in here.HIGH VALUE MOMENTS05:49 — Navigating life changes and commitment09:03 — Parenting and personal growth11:50 — Understanding ADHD and personal development14:29 — Foundational mantras for a successful life19:44 — The importance of joy and relationships25:22 — Character and energy in life30:42 — Taking responsibility for your lifeFIND OUT YOUR HIGH VALUE MAN SCOREGet your life MOT in under two minutes. Find out exactly where you are leaking focus, energy and joy.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreBOOK A POWER CALL WITH JONNIEReady to stop going through the motions and start leading? I have spaces available for Elite 1:1 coaching this month.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercallSHARE, REVIEW AND SUBSCRIBESubscribe so you never miss an episode. If this one landed, leave a review and send it to one other man who needs to hear it.Apple: https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify: https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotify
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Finding Your Purpose - 4 Steps To Reconnecting With The Man You Want To Be
Frustrated that you don't feel like the man you want to be? Find out where your energy and focus are leaking.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreLast week Jonnie said men don't have a mental health problem. They have a purpose crisis. This week he gets into what you actually do about it.In this episode Jonnie walks through the clarity section of the 3XC Formula — the first and most important step in the High Value Man system for living. Drawing on his own story, from a teenage dream of being a TV presenter to two and a half years of lost direction, he breaks down exactly why purpose disappears and what it takes to get it back.This isn't about setting goals. It's about reconnecting with who you actually are, what you stand for, and the reason you get out of bed that's bigger than just you.WHY THIS MATTERSIf you know something is missing but can't put your finger on what it is, this episode is for you. A man without a clear purpose doesn't just feel flat. He becomes difficult to be around. His relationship suffers. His kids stop being inspired by him. His motivation drifts in and out. And he mistakes that drift for a motivation problem when it's actually a commitment problem.Purpose isn't something that lands in your lap. It's something you consciously create. Here's how.HIGH VALUE MOMENTSThe TV presenter story: what two and a half years of lost direction actually feels likeStep one: getting honest about what's working and what isn't in your life right nowStep two: your values and why living out of alignment with them creates constant low level frustrationThe rumble strip: how to recognise when you've drifted off courseStep three: your blueprint and why it's not a vision boardWhy motivation isn't the answer and commitment isThe fitness story: how connecting your why to something bigger than yourself changes everythingWhat a man with a clear purpose looks like to his wife, his kids, and everyone around himTAKE THE HIGH VALUE MAN SCORECARDGet your life MOT in under two minutes. Find out exactly where you are leaking focus, energy and joy.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreBOOK A POWER CALL WITH JONNIEReady to stop drifting and start leading? I have spaces available for Elite 1:1 coaching this month.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercallSHARE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBESubscribe now so that you never miss an episode. If this landed, leave a review and share it with other men in your life.Apple: https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify: https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotify
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The Men’s Mental Health Lie - What Men Need To Realise Instead
Frustrated that you don't feel like the man you want to be? Find out where your energy and focus are leaking.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreEverywhere you look, men are being told they have a "mental health problem." We see the posters in public toilets and service stations telling us "it’s okay to talk."But for most successful men, that message is missing the mark.In this episode, Jonnie Jensen argues that the help being offered to men isn't working because it isn't solving the right problem. Most mid-life dads don't have a clinical mental health issue; they have a Purpose Crisis.When a man loses his "Why," he stops showing up in his marriage and for his kids . He enters the Low Value Death Spiral, where burnout and quiet despair become a "four out of ten" existence that too many men simply put up with .Jonnie shares the raw truth of his own journey, from the "five-year slide" of miscarriages and business pressure to the moment the road finally ran out in January 2015 .WHY THIS MATTERSIf you see a mental health poster and think, "That's for someone else, I'm just stressed," you are in denial about a situation that is quietly grinding you down .This episode is about identifying where you sit on the spectrum between Suicide and Thriving . It explores why reclaiming your purpose is like topping up the air in your car's tyres before you hit the central reservation .HIGH VALUE MOMENTS05:18 The Thriving Spectrum: Why a "4 out of 10" life is a danger sign11:32 The "That Ain't Me" Trap: Why men switch off from mental health talk 13:49 The 5-Year Slide: Miscarriages, redundancy, and the dream of "having it all" .20:26 Running Out of Road: When the weight you carry exceeds your capacity .28:48 The 3XC Shift: Reclaiming Clarity to inspire your wife and kids again TAKE THE HIGH VALUE MAN SCORECARD Get your "Life MOT" in under two minutes. Find out exactly where you are leaking focus and energy.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/score BOOK A POWER CALL WITH JONNIEI have two spots opening for Elite 1:1 coaching this month for men who are trying to hold a crumbling world together on their own . Let’s find your path again.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercall SHARE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBEI’ve been running this podcast for five years and 180 odd episodes. If this landed, do me a favor: Leave a review. If you don't ask, you don't get!.Apple: https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify: https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotify
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Deciding Enough Is Enough — Drained to Unstoppable
Frustrated that you don't feel like the man you want to be? Find out where your energy and focus are leaking.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreThere's a moment every man reaches.Not a dramatic moment. Not a breakdown. Just a quiet, honest reckoning with himself where he looks at the life he's living and decides he's done accepting it.That's what this episode is about.In this episode of The Jonnie Jensen Show, Jonnie Jensen gets real. Driving along, no script, no studio — just honesty about the journey that led to the High Value Man Project, why so many men stay stuck in situations that are slowly draining them, and what it actually takes to decide enough is enough.This is episode two of the Drained to Unstoppable series, before the live workshop on Tuesday April 28th.WHY THIS MATTERSToo many men are living a four or five out of ten experience.Not in crisis. Not falling apart. Just putting up with it. Telling themselves if I can just get through this period, everything will be okay. Waiting for the moment it gets better on its own.It doesn't get better on its own.Jonnie knows this because he lived it. Four years of struggle inside his marriage. Three miscarriages. Financial pressure. A business course he could barely focus on because everything at home was falling apart. Putting up with second best until finally realising "enough is enough".As Jonnie puts it in this episode — when you decide you're no longer willing to be the drained version of yourself, that's when everything transforms.That's when you take control and start to live the high value life.HIGH VALUE MOMENTS05:35 Personal Struggles and Growth11:01 Taking Responsibility for Change16:17 Creating a Thriving EnvironmentDRAINED TO UNSTOPPABLE — LIVE WORKSHOPTuesday April 28th. Zoom. 90 minutes live and interactive with full Q&A.Early bird tickets £35. First 25 — bring a friend for free.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/unstoppableBOOK A POWER CALL WITH JONNIE45 minutes. One area. Real clarity on what needs to change and how the High Value Man system applies to your life right now.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercallJOIN THE HIGH VALUE MAN PROJECT — FREEThe FIRE Tracker, the High Value Man Creed, weekly challenges, and a community of men doing the work.👉https:// highvaluemanproject.com/groupSHARE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBEIf this episode landed, share it with a man who needs to hear it. Leave a review. Subscribe so you never miss an episode of The Jonnie Jensen Show.Apple → https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify → https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotify
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You Feel Like Crap Because You Don't Know Who You Are
Is your identity lifting you higher or taking you down? Get your High Value Man Score and find out where you're leaking masculine energy.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreMost men can tell you exactly what they do.They can tell you what they've built, what they earn, what they're responsible for.But ask them who they are — the whole picture, not just the work bit — and they go quiet.That silence is where the drain starts.In this episode of The Jonnie Jensen Show, Jonnie explores one of the most overlooked causes of exhaustion, frustration, and quiet misery in midlife men — a weak or fractured identity.This is episode one of the Drained to Unstoppable series, running up to the live workshop on April 29th.WHY THIS MATTERSA man who has wrapped his entire identity around one thing - the business, the marriage, the role of provider - is one crisis away from everything falling apart.When the business struggles, he struggles. When the relationship wobbles, he wobbles. Because he hasn't got a foundation that exists beneath those things.And in the absence of a strong identity, most men do the same thing. They reach for distraction. Drinking a bit more. Checking out. Scrolling. Anything to avoid sitting with the question they don't have an answer to.But the distraction doesn't fix it. It just moves them further from themselves.The real work - and the real relief - comes from coming back to the base. Getting clear on who you actually are. Not just what you do.As Jonnie puts it in this episode: "Come back to the base. Look at your identity. Start to work on resolving that from a position of strength. From the position of you."HIGH VALUE MOMENTS00:00 Introduction to Identity and Purpose07:08 Crisis and Identity: The Impact of Life Changes12:14 Building a Positive Identity for Growth14:29 OutroDRAINED TO UNSTOPPABLE — LIVE WORKSHOPThis episode is part of the Drained to Unstoppable series leading up to a live, interactive 90-minute workshop on Zoom on April 29th.First 25 tickets are on early bird pricing. Buy a ticket and bring a friend for free.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/unstoppableJOIN THE HIGH VALUE MAN PROJECT — FREEInside the free Basecamp community you'll find the FIRE Tracker, the High Value Man Creed, weekly challenges, and a brotherhood of men doing the work.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/groupBOOK A POWER CALL WITH JONNIE45 minutes. One challenging area. Real clarity on what needs to change and how the High Value Man system applies to your life.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercallSHARE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBEIf this episode landed, share it with a man who needs to hear it. Leave a review. Subscribe so you never miss an episode of The Jonnie Jensen Show.Apple: https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify: https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyAll Platforms: https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcast
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The Dangerous Truth About Men Without a Mission feat. Ben Price
Feeling stuck or off your game? Find out where your focus and drive are leaking. Get your High Value Man Score👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreMost men spend years trying to prove something.To their boss. To their family. To themselves.They join the army. They build the business. They push harder. Work longer. Take on more.And somewhere in all of that striving, they never stop to ask the one question that changes everything.Whose mission am I actually living?In this episode of The Jonnie Jensen Show, Jonnie sits down with Ben Price — ex-military intelligence, embedded with special forces in Afghanistan and Iraq, gym owner, business builder, father to two boys and now an elite coach for high-performance men who on the outside appear to have it all, but are quietly losing a war inside their own heads.Ben's story is a proper one. Battle fields. Divorce. Business collapse. Identity crisis. The lot. And he came out the other side with a framework for men that is grounded, battle-tested, and genuinely works.They go deep on initiation, purpose, identity, the archetypes of masculinity, and what it actually takes to become the man you're capable of being.WHY THIS MATTERSWe have lost initiation for men.For thousands of years, boys were guided into manhood. Elders showed them what it meant to be a man. How to lead. How to handle pressure. How to show up in a relationship. How to face fear.That's gone.In its place, there's Netflix. Porn. Gambling. Infinite scroll. And a culture that is exceptionally good at getting men's attention and selling them things — while quietly keeping them numb, distracted, and purposeless.The result? Men who are unconsciously seeking initiation without knowing that's what they're doing. Running Ironmans, building businesses, signing up for the army — not because they have a clear mission, but because somewhere deep down they're hoping that this will be the thing that finally tells them who they are.It rarely is.This conversation is about what happens when a man stops unconsciously searching and starts consciously choosing. When he figures out his actual mission. And builds his life around that instead of everyone else's version of it.As Ben puts it: "You're not broken. You've just never been taught how to operate as a man."HIGH VALUE MOMENTS00:00 Introduction to Ben Price's Journey03:21 Transitioning from Soldier to Civilian Life06:33 Navigating Relationships and Divorce09:14 The Impact of Personal Development on Relationships12:05 The Journey into Entrepreneurship14:41 Understanding Purpose and Indoctrination17:39 The Modern Challenges Facing Men20:34 The Role of Initiation in Masculinity23:12 Building a Business Amidst Adversity28:51 Navigating Challenges and Learning to Sell33:35 The Importance of Coaching and Personal Growth38:24 Awakening to Authenticity and Self-Discovery42:19 Transitioning to Coaching and Helping Others47:30 The Kingmaker Process: Guiding Men Through Archetypes53:59 Encouragement for Men in Turbulent TimesCONNECT WITH BENWebsite: https://coachbenprice.comBook: Conversations of a Suicide Bomber — available free at his websiteSHARE THIS WITH OTHER MEN WHO The whole purpose of the High Value Man Project is to see modern dads thrive. The best way you can help this mission is to share this episode with a man who needs to hear it, leave a review, and subscribe so you never miss an episode.https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcastJOIN THE HIGH VALUE MAN PROJECTIf you're a man who feels flat, stuck, or slightly disconnected from your edge — start here.Inside the free Basecamp level of the High Value Man Project you'll find the FIRE Tracker, the High Value Man Creed, weekly challenges, and a community of men who are doing the work.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/groupBOOK A FOCUS CALL (1-on-1 with Jonnie)If you're ready to stop drifting and start leading — book a free Focus Call.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/turbocall
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8 Things Men Must Do When A Marriage Ends
Feeling stuck or off your game? Get your High Value Man Score and find out where your focus and drive are leaking.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreWhen a relationship or marriage ends, most men go straight into panic.They stop sleeping.They stop eating.Their mind starts racing with worst-case scenarios about losing their children, their home, and their future.But the breakup itself is rarely the thing that destroys men.It's the PANIC!In this episode of The Jonnie Jensen Show, Jonnie shares eight practical principles every man must understand when a relationship ends. Drawing from his own experience of divorce and years of conversations with men going through separation, he explains how to stay grounded, protect your relationship with your children, and rebuild your life with clarity and strength.Because the end of a relationship isn’t the end of your life.But how you handle it really matters.Divorce and separation are among the most emotionally disruptive experiences a man can face.Without guidance, many men spiral into anxiety, anger, and destructive behaviour that damages their reputation, their relationship with their children, and their long-term wellbeing.This episode offers a grounded framework for navigating the early stages of a breakup with clarity, emotional control, and practical leadership.As Jonnie explains:“Breakups are emotional. Your job is to keep it business.”Key Moments00:00 Navigating the Emotional Turmoil of Breakups02:56 Understanding the High Value Man Project06:14 The Importance of Emotional Control08:36 Accepting the Reality of Relationship Breakdown11:42 Maintaining Self-Control During a Breakup14:24 Prioritizing Physical and Mental Well-being17:28 Being a Present Father20:02 Getting Smart About the Legal Process23:16 Organizing Your Life Post-Breakup26:01 Embracing a New BeginningShare Subscribe & Leave A ReviewPlease subscribe - it means you will never miss an episode of the Jonnie Jensen Show and it helps the podcast services see we are popular.If this episode hit home, leave a review and share it with another man who needs to hear it.Apple → https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify → https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyAll Platforms → https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcastJoin The High Value Man Project The High Value Man Project Basecamp is a free, private community for men who want clarity, structure, accountability, and real conversations about life, fatherhood, relationships, and personal growth.Join here:👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/groupBook A Personal Strategy Call (1-on-1 with Jonnie)If you want direction, accountability, and structure – book a free personal strategy call.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/turbocall
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Why Mid-Life Dads Are Burnt Out (And It’s Not Your Business or Marriage)
Most successful men assume burnout is caused by workload, pressure, or strain at home. It feels logical. You’re carrying responsibility. You’re leading at work. You’re providing.But what if the job isn’t the problem? What if the marriage isn’t the problem?In this episode, Jonnie Jensen explains why burnout in high-functioning men is rarely about external circumstances. It’s about drift — drift in how you regulate your body, manage stress, handle money, and lead your relationships.Burnout doesn’t usually show up as collapse. It shows up as erosion. Irritability. Reduced patience. Disconnection. Lingering financial stress. Cooling intimacy. Work feeling heavier than it should.Pushing through and expecting things to get better - well, that is burnout 101!Jonnie reframes burnout as a regulation issue, not a motivation issue. Using the “machine” analogy and the FIRE Code framework — Focus, Impact, Relationships and Energy — he lays out a practical path from the Low Value Death Spiral to steady, grounded leadership.You will learn:Why changing jobs or partners often fails to fix burnoutHow financial stress creates constant background ruminationWhy intimacy disappears when safety and self-leadership declineThe biological role of dopamine, serotonin and endorphins in resilienceWhy self-leadership is not selfish — it is foundationalHow the 28 Day Reset provides structure without adding overwhelmThis conversation is not about blame. It is about responsibility. The kind that gives you your power back.If you want success at home to match your success at work, this episode matters.Take the Free High Value Man ScorecardComplete the scorecard in under two minutes and get a complete breakdown of where you can take control and create the true riches, relationships and results you desire.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/scoreFrom there, you can access the 28 Day FIRE Code Reset and begin rebuilding structure properly.Subscribe to The Jonnie Jensen Show so you never miss an episode.If this conversation resonated, leave a review and share it with another man who needs to hear it.Apple → https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify → https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyAll Platforms → https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcastJoin The High Value Man ProjectIf this episode resonated, you’re not meant to do this alone.The High Value Man Project Basecamp is the free level of our private community for men who want clarity, structure, accountability, and real conversations about life, fatherhood, relationships, and personal growth.Join here:👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/groupBook A Personal Strategy Call (1-on-1 with Jonnie)If you want direction and accountability, book a free Focus Call.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/focuscall
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Why Young Men Are Struggling (And What Actually Fixes It)
If you’re a man, a father, a coach, or someone who cares about the next generation – this episode matters.Because whether you realise it or not, what’s happening to young men right now will shape the world your kids grow up in.In this episode of The Jonnie Jensen Show, Jonnie sits down with coach Igor Wallaert, who works with young single men struggling with hopelessness, low drive, and modern distraction.Jonnie wanted Igor on for one simple reason: midlife men need to understand what’s happening to younger men and boys.Not to judge them.Not to criticise them.But to lead them.Together, they unpack social media, porn, gaming, dopamine, gut health, testosterone, confidence, community, and masculinity – and how “instant reward living” is quietly rewiring an entire generation.Young men aren’t lazy.Many of them are numb.WHY THIS MATTERSWe are living in the most comfortable era in human history.More convenience.More entertainment.More digital connection.And yet, more young men feel flat, disengaged, anxious, and hopeless.When life is built around cheap dopamine – scrolling, gaming, porn, endless stimulation – normal life starts to feel dull.Training feels pointless.Conversation feels awkward.Dating feels risky.Effort feels exhausting.As Igor explains, once you live on instant reward long enough, real reward starts to feel hard.“Everything that’s easy now makes your life harder later. Everything that’s hard now makes your life easier.”If you are a dad, this is essential listening.Because the devices in your home, the food in your kitchen, and the culture your children absorb are not neutral.This episode explores how to reverse that trend – starting with the body, rebuilding internal drive, and reconnecting to real-world challenge and connection.HIGH VALUE MOMENTS03:54 The State of Young Men Today06:33 The Impact of Role Models09:45 Dopamine and Modern Distractions12:30 The Role of Pornography15:13 Overcoming Victim Mindsets18:00 The Importance of Nutrition19:49 Gut Health and Mental Wellbeing20:33 Cooking and Self-Sufficiency23:38 The Adventure of Life vs. Digital Distractions27:55 The Impact of Screen Time on Children30:43 The Importance of Adventure and Real Experiences31:58 Nutrition and Testosterone: Building Blocks for Men35:19 The Role of Real Foods in Health39:13 Navigating Relationships in a Digital Age50:13 Finding Drive and Community in LifeCONNECT WITH IGORInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/igor.wallaert/Website: https://igorwallaertcoach.com/SHARE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBEThe whole purpose of the High Value Man Project is to see modern dads thrive. The best way you can help this mission is to make sure you have shared and reviewed the podcast. And of course make sure you subscribe so that you never miss an episode.● Apple → https://highvaluemanproject.com/apple● Spotify → https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotify● All Platforms → https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcastJOIN THE HIGH VALUE MAN PROJECT on SKOOLIf you’re a man who feels flat, stuck, or slightly disconnected from your edge – start here.Inside the free Basecamp level of the High Value Man Project you’ll get:The FIRE TrackerThe High Value Man CreedWeekly challengesStructure, clarity, and brotherhood👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/groupBOOK A FOCUS CALL (1-on-1 with Jonnie)If you’re ready to stop drifting and start leading – at home and in your own life – book a free Focus Call.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/focuscall
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How To Keep The Love Alive In Your Marriage
It’s easy to fall in love.It’s much harder to stay in love.In this episode, Jonnie Jensen tackles one of the most misunderstood topics in modern masculinity – how men actually lead in their relationships without becoming controlling, needy, reactive, or invisible.Relationships don’t die overnight. They drift.The spark fades. The intimacy cools. The energy drops.And men are left wondering what changed. Which often turns into blame and waiting for the other person to change. What men don't realise that this is for them to take responsibility for and lead. Jonnie breaks down:Why love isn’t maintained through effort aloneThe four archetypes men fall into that quietly kill attractionWhat women actually want (and what they’re fed up with)Why leadership in a relationship is about steadiness, not dominanceThe power of communication without fixingWhy sex, desire, and attraction don’t “just happen”The importance of resetting each new chapter of life togetherIf you want success at home as much as at work, this conversation matters.Because staying in love is not accidental.It’s led. It's about being a man she would actually want to be with. To laugh with, to have sex with. You get to create the relationship you desire but it takes something new - and this episode will show you how.Share Subscribe & Leave A ReviewPlease subscribe - it means you will never miss an episode of the Jonnie Jensen Show and it helps the podcast services see we are popular.If this episode hit home, leave a review and share it with another man who needs to hear it.Apple → https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify → https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyAll Platforms → https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcastJoin The High Value Man Project The High Value Man Project Basecamp is a free, private community for men who want clarity, structure, accountability, and real conversations about life, fatherhood, relationships, and personal growth.Join here:👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/groupBook A Personal Strategy Call (1-on-1 with Jonnie)If you want direction, accountability, and structure – book a free personal strategy call.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/turbocall
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Men Without Direction – The Masculinity Crisis Nobody's Talking About feat. Kip Brooks
Modern men are expected to figure everything out – without being shown how.Be successful at work.Be present at home.Be a strong partner.Be a great dad.Look confident. Stay calm. Don’t complain.And somehow know how to do all of that without a blueprint.In this wide-ranging and honest conversation, Jonnie Jensen sits down with coach and transformational specialist Kip Brooks to explore what’s really going on for men today – beneath the surface of productivity, responsibility, and “having it together”.This episode puts language to the internal dialogue many men are already having on their own.Why work often feels clearer and safer than home.Why men know exactly what they don’t want, but struggle to articulate what they do want.Why success doesn’t always bring fulfilment.And why so many men end up carrying the weight of modern life quietly and alone.Together, Jonnie and Kip talk candidly about masculinity, fatherhood, boys growing up in a digital world, the pressure to provide, the absence of clear role models, and the growing need for community, clarity, and connection among men.This isn’t a motivational talk or a list of quick fixes. It’s a grounding, human conversation that helps men make sense of what they’re feeling – and why they’re feeling it – while offering a clearer way forward for those who want success at home as well as at work.Refreshing and insightful this episode of the Jonnie Jensen Show is going to give you a lot of peace.Key TakeawaysMen are not broken – they are often under-supported and over-pressuredYou don’t need more success – you need more clarity and connectionAvoidance of uncertainty keeps men stuck in work and disconnected at homeKnowing what you don’t want is the starting point for rebuilding directionYou are not meant to do this alone – and you don’t have toChapters01:34 The Importance of Supporting Men03:00 The Impact of Social Media on Mental Health05:57 Navigating Parenting in the Digital Age08:41 The Pressure of Success: Work vs. Home Life12:22 The Struggle of Modern Masculinity19:49 Influencers and Role Models in Masculinity27:16 Finding Balance in a Complex World28:49 Navigating Marketing and Self-Discovery33:41 Understanding Wants and Needs39:18 Reframing Failure as Feedback44:56 The Importance of Community and Support49:29 Finding Purpose and Meaning in ChallengesConnect with KipWebsite: https://www.kipbrooks.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kip.brooks.9Men of Metal: Kip runs a virtual men’s group for coaching + supportShare Subscribe & Leave A ReviewPlease subscribe - it means you will never miss an episode of the Jonnie Jensen Show and it helps the podcast services see we are popular.If this episode hit home, leave a review and share it with another man who needs to hear it.Apple → https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify → https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyAll Platforms → https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcastJoin The High Value Man Project If this episode resonated, you’re not meant to do this alone.The High Value Man Project Basecamp is a free, private community for men who want clarity, structure, accountability, and real conversations about life, fatherhood, relationships, and personal growth.Join here:👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/groupInside, you’ll find:Honest conversations with other men on the same pathTools and frameworks to design a better lifeAccess to future workshops, challenges, and live sessionsBook A Power Call (1-on-1 with Jonnie)If you want direction, accountability, and structure – book a free Focus Call.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercall Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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The Male Loneliness Trap And How To Break Out Of It
Male loneliness isn’t a personal failure. It’s the predictable result of modern life – and it’s reversible, with action.Male loneliness is being talked about more than ever – but most of the conversation misses the point.In this episode, Jonnie breaks down why loneliness has become so common among modern men, why it creeps in quietly rather than dramatically, and why so many men feel stuck once they’re in it.Drawing on years of work in men’s groups, coaching conversations, and lived experience, Jonnie reframes loneliness not as a lack of people – but as a lack of meaningful stimulation, connection, movement, and body chemistry.This is a practical, no-nonsense conversation about responsibility, action, and how men reliably rebuild connection and confidence – even when motivation feels non-existent.In This Episode, We Cover:00:00 Understanding Male Loneliness02:28 The Impact of Modern Life on Men05:13 The Role of Body Chemicals in Well-being08:28 Breaking the Cycle of Loneliness11:08 Taking Action to Reconnect13:58 Creating Meaningful Connections17:09 The Path to a Thriving LifeKey InsightLoneliness isn’t solved by feeling bad, wishing it was different or waiting for it to get better.It’s solved by action.Men need connection, movement, novelty, and challenge to fuel the body chemistry that drives motivation, confidence, and enjoyment of life. Without those inputs, loneliness becomes self-reinforcing.Practical TakeawaysIf you’re feeling lonely or flat, ask yourself:How active and connected is my lifestyle right now?What have I dropped that used to give me energy, fun, or connection?Am I waiting to “feel like it” before taking action?Where can I get back into movement, community, or shared activity – even if it feels awkward at first?Loneliness ends when men are willing to act before they feel ready.Share Subscribe & Leave A ReviewPlease subscribe - it means you will never miss an episode of the Jonnie Jensen Show and it helps the podcast services see we are popular.If this episode hit home, leave a review and share it with another man who needs to hear it.Apple → https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify → https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyAll Platforms → https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcastJoin The High Value Man Project If this episode resonated, you’re not meant to do this alone.The High Value Man Project Basecamp is a free, private community for men who want clarity, structure, accountability, and real conversations about life, fatherhood, relationships, and personal growth.Join here:👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/groupInside, you’ll find:Honest conversations with other men on the same pathTools and frameworks to design a better lifeAccess to future workshops, challenges, and live sessionsBook A Power Call (1-on-1 with Jonnie)If you want direction, accountability, and structure – book a free Focus Call.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercall Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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The Secret to Being a Happy Man and Dad (And Why Most Men Miss It)
What if happiness isn’t about positive thinking, motivation, or “getting your mindset right”?In this episode, Jonnie breaks down why so many men – especially dads who are doing “everything right” – still feel flat, irritable, disconnected, or quietly miserable.Drawing on lived experience, coaching conversations, and years of personal rebuilding, this episode reframes happiness as something far more practical:Not a feeling you chase – but a life you design.This is a grounded, no-nonsense conversation about what actually creates happiness for men, and why waiting to “feel better” first is the biggest trap of all.In This Episode, We Cover:00:00 The Pursuit of Happiness06:25 Mindset and Its Impact on Happiness13:18 The Role of Relationships in Happiness18:29 Overcoming Baggage for a Happier Life26:00 The Importance of Self-Care and Physical Health34:02 Creating a Life of Adventure and FunKey InsightHappiness doesn’t come from thinking differently.It comes from living differently.When your life is aligned with who you are, what you value, and what you’re building, happiness becomes the by-product – not the goal.Practical TakeawaysIf you’re feeling flat or disconnected, ask yourself:How clear am I about what I’m actually building with my life?What unresolved baggage or resentment am I still carrying?How well am I looking after my energy – sleep, movement, food, environment?How much fun, connection, and adventure is actually in my week?Small changes, consistently applied, change the entire experience of life.SHARE, SUBSCRIBE & LEAVE A REVIEWPlease subscribe - it means you will never miss an episode of the Jonnie Jensen Show and it helps the podcast services see we are popular.If this episode hit home, leave a review and share it with another man who needs to hear it.Apple → https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify → https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyAll Platforms → https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcastJOIN THE HIGH VALUE MAN PROJECTIf this episode resonated, you’re not meant to do this alone.The High Value Man Project Basecamp is a free, private community for men who want clarity, structure, accountability, and real conversations about life, fatherhood, relationships, and personal growth.Join here:👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/groupInside, you’ll find:Honest conversations with other men on the same pathTools and frameworks to design a better lifeAccess to future workshops, challenges, and live sessionsBOOK A POWER CALL (1-ON-1 WITH JONNIE)If you want direction, accountability, and structure – book a free Focus Call.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercall Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Be The Man And Dad You Want To Be This Christmas & New Year
In this Christmas and New Year special episode, Jonnie Jensen speaks directly to modern dads about leadership, presence, and responsibility during one of the most emotionally charged times of the year.Rather than chasing a “perfect” Christmas or feeling pressure to perform, Jonnie explores what really matters – creating meaning, setting the emotional tone at home, and choosing the man you want to be for your family. Drawing on personal experience, family traditions, and lived insight, this episode is a reminder that joy, connection, and gratitude don’t happen by accident – they are led.Because Christmas isn’t about perfection – it’s about being the man and dad you want to be.WHY THIS MATTERSFor many men, Christmas can feel heavy – expectations, strained relationships, financial pressure, or the sense that it never quite lives up to the ideal. Jonnie challenges the idea that this is just “how it is” and instead invites men to step back into leadership.This episode is about understanding the role men play in shaping family culture, creating memories for their children, and using the natural pause between Christmas and New Year to reflect with gratitude rather than resentment.“Magic doesn’t happen by accident. It’s created.”If you want to end the year feeling grounded – and step into the next one with clarity – this episode will land.HIGH VALUE MOMENTS[00:00] The Essence of Christmas for Modern Dads – Why Christmas is about leadership, not perfection.[02:51] Creating Meaningful Family Traditions – How rituals, energy, and presence shape lifelong memories.[05:26] The Role of Men in Shaping Christmas – The emotional temperature of the home starts with you.[08:37] Fostering Joy and Connection – Choosing generosity, forgiveness, and connection over tension.[11:20] Gratitude and Reflection for the Year – Looking back on the year with honesty and perspective.[14:07] Looking Ahead: Goals and Aspirations for 2026 – Why reflection comes before planning.SHARE, SUBSCRIBE & LEAVE A REVIEWPlease subscribe - it means you will never miss an episode of the Jonnie Jensen Show and it helps the podcast services see we are popular.If this episode hit home, leave a review and share it with another man who needs to hear it.Apple → https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify → https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyAll Platforms → https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcastJOIN THE HIGH VALUE MAN PROJECTGet the FIRE Tracker, the High Value Man Creed, and weekly momentum inside Basecamp.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/groupBOOK A POWER CALL (1-ON-1 WITH JONNIE)If you want direction, accountability, and structure – book a free Focus Call.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercall Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Why Success Is Built On Relationships with Thomas Power
In this Come Back King episode, Jonnie Jensen sits down with Thomas Power – digital pioneer, community builder, and long-time advocate of one powerful truth:Income follows audience.Jonnie first met Thomas back in the late 1990s, shortly after Thomas had worked with Sir Alan Sugar at Amstrad. From the earliest days of the internet, Thomas has been a super-connector, mentor, and guide to entrepreneurs building in the digital world. Figures such as Jay Shetty and Daniel Priestley have benefitted from his wisdom, perspective, and long-term thinking.A family man at heart, Thomas has been married to Penny Power OBE since 1988, with family and relationships forming the foundation of everything he builds. Their children are now forging successful careers of their own, embodying the same principles of connection, contribution, and growth.In this episode, Thomas shares his journey through extraordinary success, the devastating loss of identity after selling his life’s work, years of depression, bowel cancer, and the long road back.This is a raw, grounded conversation about why money doesn’t save men, why hustle culture breaks people, and why community, honesty, and meaningful relationships are the real foundations of a high-value life.What You’ll Hear03:27 The Evolution of Technology and Personal Growth08:43 The Importance of Community11:36 The Story of eCademy14:11 The Impact of Setbacks and Resilience23:36 Navigating Life's Challenges26:33 The Power of Comebacks27:51 Community and Connection35:15 The Importance of Friendships and Mentorship46:19 Redefining SuccessKey Quotes“You can be miserably successful.”“Income follows audience.”“Money is not a fix.”“People don’t want advice – they want a map.”“Talking is the healing.”Who Is Thomas Power?Thomas Power is a UK-based entrepreneur, futurist, and lifelong community builder.In 1998, Thomas and his wife Penny Power OBE co-founded Ecademy, the world’s first social network for entrepreneurs, which grew to over 650,000 members.Today, they co-lead the BIP100 Club, an invite-only community of business owners built on openness, randomness, and mutual support – a human alternative to closed, hierarchical business systems.At the heart of everything Thomas does is a belief that connection, relationships, and community matter more than money alone.LinkedIn: https://Linkedin.com/in/thomaspowerBIP100: https://bip100.club/members-directory/Meet With Thomas: https://calendly.com/thomaspower1964Website: https://thomaspower.net/Email: [email protected], SUBSCRIBE & REVIEWPlease subscribe - it means you will never miss an episode of the Jonnie Jensen Show and it helps the podcast services see we are popular.If this episode hit home, leave a review and share it with another man who needs to hear it.Apple → https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify → https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyAll Platforms → https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcastJOIN THE HIGH VALUE MAN PROJECTGet the FIRE Tracker, the High Value Man Creed, and weekly momentum inside Basecamp.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/groupBOOK A POWER CALL (1-ON-1 WITH JONNIE)If you want direction, accountability, and structure – book a free Focus Call.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercall Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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How Men Can Start Therapy Without Fear - Men's Mental Health
Therapy shouldn’t feel like a last resort.But for many men, it does....they even put it after suicide. This episode opens up the real, unfiltered truth about men’s therapy – what it is, what it isn’t, and why so many men struggle to even consider it in the first place.Jonnie Jensen is joined by Chris Hemmings – therapist, author, podcaster, and founder of Men’s Therapy Hub, the UK’s first dedicated directory of male therapists built by men, for men. Chris has spent years working with boys and men around masculinity, mental health, and emotional wellbeing, and he speaks candidly about why so many men drop out of therapy early – often because they don’t feel understood.The conversation explores the “lone wolf” mindset – the belief that men should just get on with it and hope things smooth over – and the quieter reality that many men are navigating life without the friendships, social groups, and support networks that previous generations took for granted.When did that shift happen?Why don’t men have the connections they used to?And what does this mean for young lads growing up today?In this episode, they explore:Why therapy feels intimidating for so many menWhy asking for help can feel harder than facing physical dangerHow masculinity can be a strength rather than something to suppressWhere men can start if they’re unsure or hesitantHow to find the right therapist – and why it doesn’t have to be the first oneAnd yes, if someone doesn’t like blokes from Lancashire with an earring, Chris probably isn’t the therapist for them – and that’s exactly the point.This is a grounded, honest conversation that lifts the lid on men’s therapy and masculinity without judgement, pressure, or hype.If this episode resonates, listeners are encouraged to share it with the men in their world, leave a review, and help normalise conversations that more men need to hear.CONNECT WITH CHRIS🌐 Men’s Therapy Hub: https://menstherapyhub.co.uk🎙 Podcast – No Man’s An Island: https://open.spotify.com/show/5QgINHeUZKorBCE4LBoBXF🔗 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-hemmings-03964054/Men’s Therapy Hub connects men with male therapists across the UK who understand the realities men face and want to work with them directly – whether that’s around relationships, grief, identity, addiction, or simply feeling stuck.SHARE, SUBSCRIBE & REVIEWPlease subscribe - it means you will never miss an episode of the Jonnie Jensen Show and it helps the podcast services see we are popular.If this episode hit home, leave a review and share it with another man who needs to hear it.Apple → https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify → https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyAll Platforms → https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcastJOIN THE HIGH VALUE MAN PROJECTGet the FIRE Tracker, the High Value Man Creed, and weekly momentum inside Basecamp.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/groupBOOK A POWER CALL (1-ON-1 WITH JONNIE)If you want direction, accountability, and structure – book a free Focus Call.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercall Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Sleep, Testosterone and Dopamine: Why Men Are Tired And Unmotivated
In this episode, Jonnie lays out one of the most overlooked foundations of a man’s performance: sleep.Not the fluffy wellness version. The real, chemical, biological truth about why exhaustion destroys your discipline, energy, libido, focus, creativity and emotional stability. Jonnie breaks down the science in simple language and shares how his own sleep patterns have been wrecked by stress, kids, late-night work, porn, overworking and trying to “push through” like so many dads do.If your life feels harder than it should be, this episode shows you why – and what to do next.WHY THIS MATTERS Most men think they’ve got a discipline problem. Or a motivation problem. Or a relationship problem.But the truth is far more basic: they’re exhausted.Sleep is the first question on the High Value Man FIRE Tracker for a reason. When sleep is off, dopamine drops, cortisol spikes, testosterone falls, the prefrontal cortex shuts down and your circadian rhythm goes out of sync. Suddenly you’re reactive, unfocused, emotional, unmotivated, inconsistent and disconnected from the man you want to be.Before you assume you’re depressed, lazy, broken or “losing it”, check whether you’re just running a massive sleep debt. Fixing sleep can reset your entire life: more energy, more patience, better performance, better intimacy and a stronger sense of self.This episode is your wake-up call.HIGH VALUE MOMENTS • Why sleep is the first question on the FIRE Tracker• The “lost your mojo” myth – it’s dopamine depletion• How cortisol makes tired men reactive, emotional and overwhelmed• Testosterone dips and why it makes men feel flat, weak and disconnected• What happens when the prefrontal cortex shuts down• The role of circadian rhythms and how modern life wrecks them• Why doom-scrolling and late-night porn destroy sleep quality• Sleep debt explained – and why weekend lie-ins don’t fix it• Evening routine essentials and how intimacy fits into it• Morning routine structure and why it matters• How fixing sleep transforms your relationships, confidence and performanceLISTEN & SUBSCRIBE🎧 All Episodes → https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcastApple → https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify → https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyJOIN THE PROJECT (SKOOL GROUP with FREE ENTRY LEVEL)Get the FIRE Tracker, the High Value Man Creed and weekly tools to build clarity, energy and momentum.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/groupBOOK A POWER CALL - Get Focused FastIf you’re ready to rebuild direction, habits and identity, book your first Power Call.👉 https://jonniejensen.com/powercall Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Doing Hard Things Makes You The Man You Want To Be
In this episode, Jonnie breaks down the truth most men avoid – you become a stronger, clearer, more grounded man by doing the hard things you’d normally talk yourself out of. Fresh off the back of the November Super 7 Fitness Challenge, he unpacks what 30 days of simple discipline actually teaches you about identity, integrity, and showing up as the man you say you want to be.This episode isn’t about fitness – it’s about becoming a man whose word actually means something.Because when you honour your commitments, everything in your life begins to work.WHY THIS MATTERSMost men think their struggles come from stress, lack of time, or not being “motivated enough.”But Jonnie explains the real friction – you’re living out of alignment with the man you say you want to be. Every time you wimp out of a commitment, you teach your brain that you’re not trustworthy… and that pattern bleeds into your relationship, your work, your energy, and how your family sees you.Doing hard things isn’t punishment. It’s identity training. It’s rebuilding the belief that you can rely on yourself.“When you wimp out of doing hard things, all you teach yourself is that you're a bloke who can’t do stuff.”If you want confidence, momentum, and respect – start here.HIGH VALUE MOMENTS 00:00 The Power of Hard Challenges05:45 Building Self-Identity Through Commitment10:25 The 3XC Framework: Clarity, Courage, Commitment15:11 The Importance of Relationships and Community19:55 Preparing for Future Challenges and GrowthSHARE, SUBSCRIBE & REVIEWIf this episode hit home, share it with another man who needs it.And if you haven’t already, leave a review – it helps the show reach more men who need this work.LISTEN & SUBSCRIBEApple → https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify → https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyAll Platforms → https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcastJOIN THE HIGH VALUE MAN PROJECTGet the FIRE Tracker, the High Value Man Creed, and weekly momentum inside Basecamp.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/groupBOOK A POWER CALL (1-ON-1 WITH JONNIE)If you want direction, accountability, and structure – book a free Focus Call.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercall Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Christmas for Single Dads: How to Make It Magical (Not Miserable)
In this episode, Jonnie breaks down one of the hardest realities for single dads at Christmas – the pressure, the emotion, the logistics and the loneliness – and shows how you can turn it into something genuinely magical instead of miserable.Through lived stories, raw experiences and real-world examples from divorcing dads, co-parenting dads and dads navigating their first year alone, Jonnie unpacks the seven truths that shift Christmas from painful to powerful.This one is a grounded reminder that Christmas isn’t defined by a date, an ex, or a court order – it’s defined by you. Your mindset. Your leadership.Your willingness to create joy even in a tough season.It’s about owning your chapter, not collapsing under it.WHY THIS MATTERSChristmas amplifies everything – the stress, the pressure, the loneliness, the money worries, the feeling of missing your kids.Most men either:get dragged under by the emotionor try to pretend it doesn’t hurt and power throughBoth create the same internal cost – sadness, shame, frustration, and that painful feeling of being on the outside looking in.Jonnie breaks down why the emotional mind takes over, why the 25th isn’t the day to die on, why splitting Christmas Day is often a trap, and how you can reclaim the magic for yourself and for your kids – even if you don’t see them on the official day.When you take the High Value route – leadership, clarity, responsibility – something shifts. Life gets lighter. Christmas becomes something you create, not something you suffer through.And your kids remember the experience, not the date or the price tag.“Christmas doesn’t define your future. But how you lead yourself through this one can.”This episode is a direct reminder that you still get to build joy, connection and meaning – even in a hard year.HIGH VALUE MOMENTS00:00 The Magic of Christmas for Single Dads05:12 Creating Your Own Christmas Experience12:04 Mindset and Emotional Management During the Holidays17:05 Financial Considerations and Creating Memories21:36 Making Christmas Fun and EngagingSHARE, SUBSCRIBE & REVIEWIf this episode hit home, share it with a dad who needs to hear it.Subscribe wherever you listen – and drop a review to help more men find the High Value Man Project.LISTEN & SUBSCRIBE LINKSApple → https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify → https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyAll Platforms → https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcastJOIN THE PROJECTJoin the free High Value Man Project community and access YOU 2.0, the Single Dad Guide, and weekly tools for growth.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/groupBOOK A FOCUS CALLIf you’re ready to rebuild clarity, confidence or direction, book a free Focus Call with Jonnie.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercall Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Hiding Out vs Showing Up: The Masculine Skill Every Dad Needs
In this episode, Jonnie strips back one of the most common patterns men fall into – hiding out. Not disappearing, not collapsing… just quietly avoiding the things we know we should be doing. He also breaks down the flip-side: forcing things, overperforming, and trying so hard to get it “right” that we end up making a tit of ourselves.Through real stories from his own week and everyday dad-life, Jonnie shows how easy it is for good men to slip into avoidance or overcompensation – and the impact it has on our confidence, our relationships and the way life feels.This one is a grounded reminder that showing up isn’t about motivation or perfection.It’s about slowing the moment down and choosing the High Value route – even when life is piling on.WHY THIS MATTERSEvery man knows the feeling: pressure building, time tight, energy low… and suddenly you’re avoiding the thing you know needs doing. Or you’re pushing too hard, trying to look good, trying to force an outcome.Both create the same internal cost – stress, friction at home, and that quiet drop in self-worth.Jonnie breaks down why this happens, why it’s normal, and why showing up is actually the path of least resistance. When you choose the High Value route, life gets simpler. You feel lighter. The chaos calms. And your partner and kids finally get the version of you they can count on.“Showing up isn’t confidence – it’s commitment. It’s being the man you said you’d be, even when the day feels heavy.”This episode is a direct reminder that power comes from action, not mood. And every man can build this skill.HIGH VALUE MOMENTSThe honest truth about why men hide out (and how subtle it really is)What “showing off” actually looks like in a grown manThe internal cost of avoidance – confidence, self-respect, momentumHow showing up removes pressure rather than adds itReal examples from relationships, fatherhood and planning aheadWhy responsibility gives you relief, not stressHow to slow time and ask: “What’s the High Value route here?”The role of 3XC and FIRE CODE in becoming a man who shows upThe difference between reacting and leading your lifeA direct invitation to drop the avoidance and reclaim your powerSHARE, SUBSCRIBE & REVIEWIf this episode hit home, share it with a mate who needs it.Subscribe wherever you listen – and drop a review to help more men find the High Value Man Project.LISTEN & SUBSCRIBE LINKSApple → https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify → https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyAll Platforms → https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcastJOIN THE PROJECTJoin the free High Value Man Project community and access the FIRE Tracker, High Value Man Creed and weekly tools for growth.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/groupBOOK A FOCUS CALLIf you’re ready to rebuild clarity, energy or relationships, book a free Focus Call with Jonnie.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/focuscall Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Appreciating The Journey Instead Of Talking Down To Yourself
In this episode, Jonnie calls out one of the biggest traps men fall into — the relentless self-talk that chips away at confidence and momentum. He reminds us that most of what we label as failure is actually progress in disguise. Through a raw story of a coaching call with a dad rebuilding his life, Jonnie shows how easy it is to focus on what’s missing instead of what’s working.This one’s a wake-up call to stop beating yourself up and start seeing the man you’re becoming. Because self-respect isn’t found in perfection — it’s built in the rebuild.WHY THIS MATTERSThe voice inside your head is either building you up or tearing you down. Most men spend years running a negative highlight reel — seeing only the misses and ignoring the micro-wins that prove they’re already rising. Jonnie breaks down why reframing that story changes everything: from your mood to your results to your relationships.“When you start to tell yourself ‘I’m an incredible dad, friend, lover, man,’ you’re not lying — you’re training your mind to see the truth.”This episode is a reminder that you are not behind. You’re in process. You’re exactly where you need to be to become the man you’re meant to be.HIGH VALUE MOMENTSSeeing progress when life still feels stuckHow reframing self-talk shifts energy and outcomesWhy the “hourglass panic” is just perspectiveThe difference between being real and being ruthless on yourselfTurning gratitude into momentumThe science of opportunity: how the reticular activating system proves “you get what you think about”The power of creative action and daily winsFaith, energy, and how belief attracts opportunityThe High Value Man way to build an upward spiralA direct invitation: stop talking shit to yourself — start talking power into your lifeSHARE, SUBSCRIBE & REVIEWIf this episode hit home, share it with a mate who needs to hear it. Subscribe wherever you listen — and drop a review to help more men find the High Value Man Project.LISTEN & SUBSCRIBE LINKSApple → https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify → https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyAll Platforms → https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcastJOIN THE PROJECTJoin the free High Value Man Project community and access the FIRE Tracker, High Value Man Creed, and weekly tools for growth. 👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/groupBOOK A FOCUS CALLReady to rebuild clarity, energy, or relationships? Book a free Focus Call with Jonnie. 👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/focuscall Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Burnout doesn't just happen at work - fix your home life
In this episode of The Jonnie Jensen Show, Jonnie gets real about burnout - not the kind from overworking, but the kind that comes from life itself. This isn’t a talk about time management or balance.It’s about the chemical and emotional toll that relationship strain, family illness, loss, and constant pressure take on a man’s body - and how most men mistake it for being “tired” or “stressed.”Jonnie shares his own story of redundancy, miscarriages, fear, and grief - and the moment it all caught up with him.He explains what’s really going on inside your body when you stay in survival mode too long - and how to rebuild your system through clarity, courage, and commitment.Because burnout isn’t weakness. It’s chemistry.And you can’t outwork it - you have to reset it.WHY THIS MATTERSMost men think burnout starts in the office, but the real danger starts at home.When cortisol and adrenaline stay high, your body never switches off.Sleep breaks down, patience disappears, and motivation crashes.What’s happening is your stress system is stuck on “on.”You stop producing the feel-good chemicals — dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, endorphins — that make life enjoyable.Jonnie explains how the High Value Man FIRE CODE helps men rebuild that chemistry and get back to leading with energy, focus, and purpose.As he says:“You can’t give from empty. You have to rebuild before you can lead.”💥 HIGH VALUE MOMENTS[00:00] Burnout isn’t just about work[02:00] Redundancy, miscarriages, illness, and loss[06:30] Cortisol and adrenaline — the stress loop[10:00] Symptoms: fatigue, brain fog, low motivation[13:00] Why distraction habits make it worse[16:00] The rebuild: sleep, food, connection, movement[19:00] The feel-good chemistry reset[23:00] FIRE CODE - Focus, Impact, Relationships, Energy[27:00] Final reflection: you can’t pour from empty💬 Share, Subscribe & ReviewTo help the success of this podcast please leave a review and subscribe - or click Follow as it is on Spotify.And ...if this hit home, share it with a mate who’s running on fumes.You might just help him create the life he deserves instead of one he feel's stuck in.Listen & Subscribe:Apple → https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify → https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyAll Platforms → https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcast⚙️ Join The ProjectJoin the free High Value Man Project on Skool - where modern dads rebuild energy, focus, and purpose with a proven System for Living. Inside: the FIRE Tracker, High Value Man Creed, and Lifestyle Blueprint.👉 highvaluemanproject.com/group💬 Need a Reset? Book a Power CallIf you’re ready to rebuild your energy, identity, or relationship — or just need a clear plan before things slide further — book a free Power Call.👉 highvaluemanproject.com/powercall Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Staying Motivated When Nothing Seems to Be Working
In this episode of The Jonnie Jensen Show, Jonnie gets honest about motivation — what happens when it fades, when results stall, and when the thing you used to love suddenly feels heavy.This isn’t another “how to get motivated” pep talk.It’s a conversation about commitment, vision, and identity — and how midlife men can rediscover their drive when the fire goes out.Jonnie shares how even he lost rhythm with the podcast, how small frustrations (lighting, results, confidence) spiralled into doubt, and how one phone call from his brother reminded him what motivation really means: staying true to the man you said you’d be.WHY THIS MATTERSMotivation isn’t a magic feeling — it’s feedback.When it dips, something’s off. Sleep, structure, or self-talk.Most men think they’ve “lost their mojo.” What’s really happened is they’ve lost connection to their vision — the man they’re becoming — and the environment that supports it.You don’t need to feel inspired to act. You need a structure that makes action inevitable. That’s how commitment builds confidence, and confidence builds motivation.As Jonnie says: “You can’t count on motivation. You earn it through momentum.”HIGH VALUE MOMENTS[00:00] The spark fades — losing rhythm with the podcast and yourself[02:45] When results stall and self-doubt creeps in[05:30] Coaching his brother — how vision reignites motivation[09:00] Identity shift: from “fat bloke trying again” to “runner, dad, leader”[13:00] Why commitment beats motivation every time[17:30] Using structure and environment to rebuild momentum[21:00] FIRE CODE reset — Focus, Impact, Relationships, Energy[23:00] Closing reflection: when you lead yourself, motivation followsShare, Subscribe & Review – Help Another Modern DadIf this hit home, share it with a mate who’s been off the boil lately.You might just help him find his spark again.Listen & Subscribe:Apple: highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify: highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyAll Platforms: highvaluemanproject.com/podcastTake Control and Create the Life You DesireJoin the free High Value Man Project on Skool — the Brotherhood where modern dads rebuild energy, focus, and purpose with a proven System for Living. Inside you’ll find the FIRE Tracker, the High Value Man Creed, and the Lifestyle Blueprint.👉 highvaluemanproject.com/groupWant to Work 1-on-1? Book a Power CallIf you’re ready to rebuild your energy, identity, or relationship — or just need a reset before things slide further — book a free Power Call today. We’ll cut through the noise, find clarity, and build your next chapter.👉 highvaluemanproject.com/powercall Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Live With Power - Do What You Said You Would Do
In this episode of The Jonnie Jensen Show, Jonnie asks a simple question that hits hard: Do you do what you said you would do?Most men don’t walk around thinking about “integrity.” But everyone understands keeping your word, counting on people, and things either working out or not. The foundation of that is integrity – and it’s what creates flow in your life. If you want more things to work, more opportunities to come your way, start operating from higher standards. Be the man others can count on. Most importantly, be the man you can count on.Jonnie shares where he’s dropped the ball, the tiny “no big deal” moments that quietly cost you trust, and a simple way to rebuild belief in yourself fast.WHY THIS MATTERSWhen your actions match your word, life gets easier. You stop wasting energy cleaning up mess and start seeing momentum.Out of integrity isn’t neutral – it chips away at confidence, strains relationships, and makes people hesitate around you.You don’t need to be perfect. You need a simple plan you can stick to: slow down, make promises you can keep, and clean up misses quickly.As Jonnie says: “Integrity isn’t fancy. It’s doing what you said you’d do – especially when no one’s watching.”HIGH VALUE MOMENTS[00:00] The question that changes everything – can you count on you?[03:00] Why “things working out” starts with higher standards[05:30] The striker slump – how doubt creeps in when habits slip[10:45] The cookies-at-the-station moment – tiny breach, big ripple[15:30] Phone secrecy and micro-breaches that rot trust[18:30] The real cost: confidence, relationships, missed chances[22:00] The fix – slow time, make mindful promises, clean up fast[27:00] Win the day – 3 meaningful tasks, celebrate, reset[30:00] Mantra – “Around me, everything works.” And when it doesn’t, I handle it[32:00] Invitation to join the Brotherhood on SkoolShare, Subscribe & Review – Help Another Modern DadBe sure not to miss any episode of the Jonnie Jensen Show by clicking on the links below and subscribing.And of course, help spread the word. If this landed, share it with a mate who needs his edge back.Listen & Subscribe:Apple: https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify: https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyAll platforms: https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcastTake Control and Create the Life You DesireJoin the free High Value Man Project on Skool – the Brotherhood where modern dads level up with a simple System for Living, not more noise. Inside you’ll find the FIRE Tracker, the High Value Man Creed, and the Lifestyle Blueprint – practical tools to help you keep your word, build trust, and get your momentum back.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/groupWant To Work 1on1? Book A Power CallWhether its getting over a divorce and finding your purpose before one happens, the Elite 1on1 12 week programme will accelerate you towards the results you want. Book a free POWER CALL nowhttps://highvaluemanproject.com/powercall Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Cutting Lose Toxic Feelings - The Importance Of Forgiveness And Completion
In this episode of The Jonnie Jensen Show, Jonnie shares a powerful real-life story about the courage it takes to forgive and the freedom that comes from completion.Ten years after a painful chapter in his life, he found himself face to face with someone he’d quietly resented for years — and decided it was time to get complete. What followed was an emotional reminder that forgiveness isn’t about others… it’s about reclaiming energy, peace, and power.Jonnie explains why harbouring resentment is like leaving a stinking turd in the corner of your life — toxic, heavy, and quietly sabotaging your energy — and how to finally clean it up.If you’re a man who’s been holding onto something or someone from the past, this one’s for you.WHY THIS MATTERSJonnie believes forgiveness and completion are the hidden muscles of courage.Unforgiveness isn’t passive — it’s corrosive. It shows up in avoidance, tension, and that low-level resentment that seeps into every part of life.Most men think it doesn’t matter because “the other person doesn’t even know.”But that’s the problem — it’s you who carries the weight.As Jonnie says:“Forgiveness is the gift you give yourself. Completion is freedom. You can’t live a high value life if you’re still dragging yesterday’s pain behind you.”HIGH VALUE MOMENTS[00:00] Forgiveness is the gift you give yourself[03:00] How resentment poisons energy and relationships[06:00] The story: meeting a man he’d avoided for a decade[11:00] How to approach completion without blame or accusation[16:00] The realisation: how resentment loses power when voiced[20:00] Why getting complete frees you to show up fully[24:00] The ripple effect of clean energy[28:00] Invitation to join the Brotherhood on SkoolShare, Subscribe & Review - Help Another Modern DadIf this episode lands, share it with a mate who’s holding onto something.Subscribe and review — it helps the message reach more men.Listen & Subscribe:Apple: https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify: https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyAll platforms: https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcastTake Control And Create The Life Your DesireStart by joining the free High Value Man Project on Skool —where modern dads are using a proven System For Living to create the life the desire, not one they feel stuck in.👉 highvaluemanproject.com/groupInside you’ll find tools like the FIRE Tracker, the High Value Man Creed, and the Lifestyle Blueprint.Because when men live clean, complete, and courageous lives — everything around them works better. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Digital ID Throwdown: Good Idea Or Cock Up Waiting To Happen?
Two and a half million Brits have signed “No to Digital ID.”Co-host Glen Ocsko — who actually builds public-sector digital — says “about time.”Jonnie Jensen isn’t convinced. Cost overruns. Scope creep. Breaches. And future governments changing the rules mid-game.This is a straight-up pub-banter throwdown: does Digital ID make life easier or open the door to abuse?Can Glen convince Jonnie (and 2.5m others) not to be concerned?🔥 WHY THIS IS IMPORTANTMost of us already hand mountains of data to Apple, Google, banks, and the NHS.But a state-backed Digital ID? That’s different.Get it wrong and you centralise risk, create a honeypot for hackers, and hand politicians a lever they (or the next lot) could pull for entirely new purposes.Get it right and you cut fraud, reduce friction, and unlock faster access to services.This conversation is about power, trust, and how we protect freedom while modernising the rails we all use.👊 ABOUT GLEN OCSKOhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/glenocsko/Glen Ocsko isn’t just a commentator — he’s been in the trenches of government digital transformation for over 20 years.He has worked inside and alongside civil service teams on projects most politicians brag about but rarely understand.When Glen pushes back, it’s not theory — this is his wheelhouse.🎙️ JUMP TO THE POINT[00:01] – The spark: 2.5M signatures and why Jonnie’s calling BS[03:20] – Crowd size memes, AI photos & why facts are losing to vibes[06:45] – Glen’s case: microservices, not a giant database (and why that matters)[10:30] – “Voluntary” vs “inevitable”: exclusion fears, phones, and fallback cards[16:05] – Scope creep & future regimes: can guardrails actually hold?[21:10] – NHS pain, OneLogin, and the promise of less friction[28:40] – Estonia, India & lessons from real-world failures[34:30] – Politics vs policy: dead cats, immigration, and messaging it right[47:00] – Where Jonnie shifts (a bit): what would make this acceptable[55:10] – Final take: progress with teeth — or pause until safeguards are real🏆 REVIEW OF THE WEEK“Proper grown-man convo. No fluff, great banter, loved it.” – ★★★★★Leave a review on Apple or Spotify, screenshot it, and I’ll pick one each month for a free Power Call (laser coaching, real outcomes).Subscribe, Share and Leave a ReviewIf this episode gave you something to think about, do, or change – leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. It helps more men find the show.👉 Apple: https://highvaluemanproject.com/apple👉 Spotify: https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyStart Your High Value Man Journey Create Success At Home And Work So You Can Be The Man You Want To BeJoin BASECAMP for free tools like the FIRE Tracker & Lifestyle Blueprint:👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/groupBook a Power Call – a 60-min strategy session:👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercall Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Fatherhood, Freedom and Rebuilding feat Lee Smith
Most men talk about success. The real wisdom lives in the comeback.Jonnie is joined by Lee Anthony Smith – investor, business buyer, and single dad who’s acquired 27 companies over the last 12 years.Lee opens up about the lowest point of his life – fighting for access to his daughter – and how he rebuilt himself through personal development, risk-taking, and eventually creating financial freedom.Together they explore the battles of fatherhood, volatile relationships, moving to the UAE, and what it really means to be a Come Back King.What You’ll LearnWhy the family court battle became Lee’s darkest seasonHow a firewalk flipped the switch from broken to mission-drivenWhy he wasn’t built to run a business – but thrives buying themHow he balances fatherhood with screens, risk, and relocation🧠 Key TakeawaysThe lowest point can forge your best qualitiesWithout risk there is no rewardKnow your design: operator vs entrepreneurRituals beat motivation – breathwork, training, meditation keep you steadyBeing a Come Back King means never giving inEpisode Chapters00:00 – The Come Back Kings series begins05:42 – Who is Lee Anthony Smith?17:54 – The lowest point: denied access to his daughter22:00 – Four days that changed everything – Tony Robbins UPW24:58 – Discovering M&A and the rebuild34:30 – Why risk matters and moving to the UAE43:45 – Routines, rituals, and resilience46:07 – What being a Come Back King meansLinks & Resources🌐 Lee’s Website: leeasmith.co.uk🔗 LinkedIn: Lee Anthony SmithLeave a ReviewIf this episode gave you something to think about, do, or change – leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. It helps more men find the show.👉 Apple: https://highvaluemanproject.com/apple👉 Spotify: https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyStart Your High Value Man Journey Create Success At Home And Work So You Can Be The Man You Want To BeJoin BASECAMP for free tools like the FIRE Tracker & Lifestyle Blueprint:👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/groupBook a Power Call – a 60-min strategy session:👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercall Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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The High Value Man Community Is Live – Launch Event & Founder Prices
The wait is over. The High Value Man Community and Coaching Hub is now live – and this episode is your inside track on what it is, why it matters, and how you can get onboard at founder’s rates.It's a bit of a promo but for good reason. There are Founder Rates and massive discounts that you can lock in for life - but only if you grab one of the spaces.This isn’t just about joining another group. By jumping in now you become a Founder Member of the High Value Man Community. The feedback from the Founders shape the culture and steers what comes next. You'll get to be part of the core group every new man meets when he arrives. It’s your chance to put your stamp on something that will change lives – starting with your own.Since 2019 I’ve coached men who are successful in business but running on fumes in life. Burnt out. Disconnected. Frustrated. The High Value Man Project exists to flip that script – to help you live with clarity, courage, commitment, and a whole lot more fun along the way.Inside this episode I break down:Why success without fulfilment is failure – and how to rebuild the balance.The structure of the new High Value Man Community on Skool – Basecamp + Inner Circle.Why joining at launch locks in the lowest price it will ever be.How accountability, coaching, and brotherhood change the game for men like us.Why being a Founder Member matters – you’ll help shape the culture, set the tone, and be part of the core group every new man joins.🔥 Launch OfferBasecamp: Free at launch (will rise to $7, then $14).Inner Circle: $49/month at launch (will rise to $69, then $125). 👉 Whatever rate you join at is locked in forever.If you’re listening before Sept 17th, jump on the VIP Invite List: https://highvaluemanproject.com/VIPIf you’re catching this after Sept 17th, go straight to https://highvaluemanproject.com/group to grab the launch prices before they’re gone.This is your chance to get in early, claim your spot as a Founder, and ride the wave of energy as we grow to 100 men before September 28th.Stop waiting. Start creating. This is the way of the High Value Man.SHARE THE JONNIE JENSEN SHOWBe sure to share this episode of the Jonnie Jensen Show podcast with other men in your life. https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Thinking About Suicide Is A Mental Health Alarm Bell
Thinking About Suicide – World Suicide Prevention DayThis short episode is an important message for all of us. Don’t tune out – these ten minutes could save a friend, or maybe even yourself.I know because I’ve experienced nearly every side of suicide.It was World Suicide Prevention Day this week. Arguably, it should be every day.The stats should shock you: suicide is the biggest killer of men under 50. In the UK, 125 men take their own lives every week. That’s one every 90 minutes.But here’s something we don’t talk about enough – how many men think about it without ever acting. That’s a brutal existence. Almost impossible to escape. And when one man is stuck in that loop, the whole family is dragged into it.Thinking about suicide is not normal. It’s a clear sign of mental health struggles. A healthy, happy mind doesn’t go there.In this episode of The Jonnie Jensen Show I share some essential thoughts, personal experiences, and practical tips for helping yourself or those around you.Do not ignore your mind. Do not hope it just goes away.Don’t accept “I’m fine” when you know a mate is struggling. And if you catch yourself about to say “I’m fine,” stop. Tell the truth instead.Please share this with other men who need to hear it.Ready to create your High Value Man life?💥 Join BASECAMP for free tools like the FIRE Tracker, High Value Man Creed, and Lifestyle Blueprint:https://highvaluemanproject.com/group🔥 Join the Inner Circle – coaching, accountability, and the full FIRE CODE system:https://highvaluemanproject.com/innercircle📩 Get on the newsletter list for weekly coaching and updates:https://highvaluemanproject.com/vip📞 Book a Power Call – create your first High Value Blueprint:https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercallLeave a Review:If this episode gave you something to think about, do, or change – leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. It helps more men find the show and step up.Apple: https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify: https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotify Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Miserable Man Syndrome – why men get stuck and how to fix it
Most men don’t notice when they’ve slipped into Miserable Man Syndrome – but their partner does. Irritable, withdrawn, no energy for life, intimacy gone, escaping into work, screens or drink. It’s not who they want to be, but it’s who they’ve become.In this solo episode Jonnie takes a hard look at the behaviours that make men difficult to live with and the real causes behind them – from stale relationships and work pressure to hormones, health, and habits. He unpacks the frustration, the avoidance, and the slow disconnection that creeps into midlife, before showing how to break the cycle.Drawing on the FIRE CODE and 3XC Formula, Jonnie explains how men can take back energy, rebuild connection, and show up with purpose. Miserable Man Syndrome isn’t an identity – it’s a signal to reset.Key Takeaways:Misery isn’t destiny – it’s a chapter you can rewriteEnergy, health and biomarkers matter more than you thinkEmotional availability creates intimacy – without it connection diesAvoidance feels like escape but fuels burnoutThe rebuild starts with clarity, courage, and commitmentLinks & Resources: 💥 Join BASECAMP for free tools like the FIRE Tracker, High Value Man Creed, and Lifestyle Blueprint: https://highvaluemanproject.com/group 🔥 Join the Inner Circle – coaching, accountability, and the full FIRE CODE system: https://highvaluemanproject.com/innercircle 📩 Get on the newsletter list for weekly coaching and updates: https://highvaluemanproject.com/vip 📞 Book a Power Call – create your first High Value Blueprint: https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercallLeave a Review:If this episode gave you something to think about, do, or change – leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. It helps more men find the show and step up.Apple: https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify: https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyReady to create your High Value Man life? It starts with choosing not to be the miserable bloke. Let’s go. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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How to Give Your Woman Massive Orgasms feat Dr. Steve Bodansky
Most men were never taught how to give a woman real pleasure. This episode changes that.Jonnie is joined by Dr. Steve Bodansky - author of Extended Massive Orgasm. An incredible game changing book that Jonnie picked up 20 years ago. It contains secrets that every women wishes her man knew.Steve has an amazing story of how the book came around and how he became one of the few people in the world with a doctorate in female sensuality.Together they explore how to actually touch and lead a woman into deeper pleasure, why sex often breaks down in long-term relationships, and how to restore trust, intimacy, and connection.You’ll learn why clitoral stimulation matters more than you think, how to touch for your own pleasure, and why skill - not chemistry - is what keeps the fire alive.Whether sex has become a struggle, a silence, or something you’ve just accepted isn’t working - this episode gives you the tools to lead again.🧠 Key Takeaways:Orgasms are a skill - not a mystery. You can train for this.The clitoris isn’t complicated. Most men just haven’t been taught.Intimacy starts before the bedroom. Emotional safety unlocks surrender.Touch for your own pleasure. It changes everything.Extended orgasms are real. And more possible than you think.Rebuilding connection is possible - even after years of disconnection.🕰️ Episode Chapters:00:00 – Would You Like Her Begging You for More Sex?09:40 – Why Intimacy Breaks Down in Long-Term Relationships15:12 – Female Orgasm Is a Trainable State, Not a Goal24:01 – The Real Role of Clitoral Stimulation33:46 – How Playfulness Rebuilds Sexual Connection🔗 Links & Resources:💥 Steve’s Website: https://www.extendedmassiveorgasm.com📖 Book: Extended Massive Orgasm by Steve & Vera Bodansky https://amzn.to/3UYT20g📩 Contact: [email protected]💬 Leave a Review:If this episode gave you something to think about, do, or change - leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. It helps more men find the show and start showing up differently.Leave a review on Apple Podcasts https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleLeave a review on Spotify https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotify🚀 Ready to create your High Value Man life?Join BASECAMP for free tools like the FIRE Tracker, High Value Man Creed, and Lifestyle Blueprint:https://highvaluemanproject.com/groupBook a free Power Call – a 60 min strategy call where you can create your first High Value Blueprint:https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercall Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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It Is Time To Show Up In Your Life
Are You Showing Up in Your Life or Hiding?Most men know exactly what they want: better energy, stronger relationships, more success at work.The problem isn’t knowledge. The problem is showing up.In this episode, I’m calling you out on the moments you’re hiding. The excuses. The “I’ll do it later.” The days you coast instead of create.We talk about:Why “I don’t have time” is the biggest lie men tell themselvesHow showing up changes everything from fitness to fatherhood to businessThe lesson I picked up from Daniel Priestley on authenticity and consistencyThe truth about energy, sex, and the body you live inWhy your family and your team don’t need more of your hours, just more of youHow to stack small wins that build unstoppable momentumThis isn’t about grinding harder. It’s about deciding:Where do you need to show up, and what’s it going to take?Why This MattersIf you don’t show up, life gets heavy.Resentment builds. Bad habits creep in.Your kids feel it. Your partner feels it. You feel it.That's the Low Value life.But when you do show up with clarity, courage, and commitment, you unlock the High Value Man life:Energy. Impact. Stronger relationships. More fun. More freedom.Links & Resources🎯 Book a free Power Call: highvaluemanproject.com/powercall⚡ Join our free Basecamp group: highvaluemanproject.com/group🔥 Explore the Inner Circle + 3XC Accelerator: highvaluemanproject.com/acceleratorREVIEW OF THE WEEKLeave me a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify and you could be featured here. I’ll also give you 3 months of Inner Circle access (£69 per month value) and a Power Call to set your next moves.Your reviews keep this podcast alive and help more men find the High Value Man Project.Apple Podcasts: highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify: highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyShare And Subscribe - Spread The High Value Man MessageShare this with a mate who needs to hear it.Subscribe so you never miss an episode.highvaluemanproject.com/podcastSTART YOUR HIGH VALUE MAN JOURNEY - FREE RESOURCESJoin BASECAMP for free tools like the FIRE Tracker, High Value Man Creed, and Lifestyle Blueprint:highvaluemanproject.com/groupBook your Power Call - Create Your 1st High Value Blueprint:highvaluemanproject.com/powercall Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Elite Mindset: Build A Ten Out Of Ten Life feat Michael Serwa
Ever look in the mirror and know you’re capable of more, but you can't get out of the same old broken routines?Elite coach Michael Serwa is not here to cuddle excuses. His stance is simple: “If you’re looking for an excuse, you’ll always find one. Stop looking.” He coaches winners with an elite mindset, not elite backgrounds.We get into why asking for help is leadership, how to lead at home without control, and why confidence is a factory setting you uncover by doing hard things consistently. The blind client story will nuke self pity, and the mirror test will reset your standard today.Heads up if you listen with kids - there's plenty of f-bombs in this episode.Guest: Michael Serwahttps://michaelserwa.comThis episode is for you if you’ve been:Saying you’ll start Monday, againOutsourcing results to your boss, partner, or circumstancesConsuming theory instead of taking actionAvoiding initiative at home and indecisive at workWHY THIS IS IMPORTANTMost men don’t have a motivation problem. They have an ownership problem.When you dodge the next right action, your standards slide, your energy drops, and everyone around you feels it.Coaching is performance with accountability.Leadership in a relationship is direction, initiative, and decisiveness, not control.Confidence and happiness are factory settings. Strip the stories. Do the reps.Start now: 3 hours per week of movement, one book then implement, repeat.JUMP TO THE POINT[00:00:00] Cold open, whatever you want if you work long enough[00:03:52] Who Michael coaches, elite mindset not background[00:07:44] Coaching vs therapy, building a whole life 10 out of 10[00:23:23] Ownership over excuses, the perspective reset[00:37:30] Relationships, leadership not control[00:49:31] Start here, momentum plan in plain EnglishREVIEW OF THE WEEKLeave me a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify and you could be featured here. I’ll also give you 3 months of Inner Circle access (£69 per month value) and a Power Call to set your next moves.Your reviews keep this podcast alive and help more men find the High Value Man Project.Apple Podcasts: https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify: https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyShare And Subscribe - Spread The High Value Man MessageShare this with a mate who needs to hear it.Subscribe so you never miss an episode.https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcastSTART YOUR HIGH VALUE MAN JOURNEY - FREE RESOURCESJoin BASECAMP for free tools like the FIRE Tracker, High Value Man Creed, and Lifestyle Blueprint:https://highvaluemanproject.com/groupBook your Power Call - Create Your 1st High Value Blueprint:https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercall Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Mind The Gap — The Price Of Not Going After What You Want
Ever felt that gnawing frustration when you know exactly what you want — but you’re not doing what it takes to get it?That’s the gap.And the longer you live there, the more it eats you alive. Your integrity starts to slip, your energy drops, and you wake up wondering if this is all there is.This episode is for you if you’ve been…Telling yourself you’ll “get to it” for months (or years)Stuck in a relationship, job, or lifestyle you didn’t sign up forLetting other people’s needs override your own goalsAvoiding the hard but necessary actions that would change everythingLet’s go.WHY THIS IS IMPORTANTWhen you know what you want but you’re not moving towards it, life gets heavy.Resentment builds. Bad habits creep in.Your partner feels it. Your kids feel it. YOU feel it every single day.Most men think they have a motivation problem — they don’t.They have a clarity, courage, and commitment problem. That’s the 3XC Formula.This is about more than ticking off goals. It’s about becoming the man who’s proud of the face in the mirror… not the one who’s avoiding his own reflection.JUMP TO THE POINT[00:00:00] – The real cost of not going after what you want[00:02:35] – Why the “gap” between desire and action destroys integrity[00:07:12] – How a BBC drama triggered this episode’s theme[00:11:50] – The 3XC Formula: bridging the gap with Clarity, Courage, and Commitment[00:17:03] – Why courage isn’t motivation — and why that matters[00:22:40] – The price of doing nothing (and why it’s higher than you think)[00:29:15] – Setting your path: milestones, “who not how,” and building momentum[00:35:28] – The I Am List: reprogramming your mindset for progress[00:40:50] – The role of accountability and why your wife can’t be your coach[00:46:30] – Closing challenge: Where’s your gap? And what’s it costing you?REVIEW OF THE WEEKLeave me a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify and you could be featured here — plus, I’ll give you 3 months’ Inner Circle access (£69/month value) AND a Power Call to set your next moves.Your reviews keep this podcast alive and help more men find the High Value Man Project.Apple Podcasts: https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify: https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyShare And Subscribe - Spread The High Value Man MessageShare it with a mate who needs to hear it.Subscribe so you never miss an episode.https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcastSTART YOUR HIGH VALUE MAN JOURNEY - FREE RESOURCESJoin BASECAMP for free tools like the FIRE Tracker, High Value Man Creed, and Lifestyle Blueprint:https://highvaluemanproject.com/groupBook your Power Call - Create Your 1st High Value Blueprinthttps://highvaluemanproject.com/powercall Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Maximise Your Holiday To Recharge and Reconnect
I’ve just returned from a summer holiday in Annecy, France - a holiday that turned into a masterclass in doing nothing whilst doing everything that matters.It was brilliant. I fully switched off from work.I slept loads and chilled in the sun.I spent quality time with my kids, my brothers family, my girlfriend.I did some lightweight exercise and enjoyed good food, beer and wine.If you’ve ever felt guilty for switching off or wondered how to be fully present for your kids without checking your phone every five minutes, this one’s for you. Let’s go.WHY THIS IS IMPORTANTToo many of us spend our holidays chasing experiences and checking work emails - only to return home more burnt out than when we left. When you neglect true rest, you sacrifice clarity in decisions, quality time with loved ones, and the mental recharge that fuels your business and relationships.Holidays aren’t luxuries - they’re essential reboots for the man your family needs you to be.JUMP TO THE POINT[00:00:00] Back From Break - Why I disappeared for six weeks and the surprise lesson in consistency[00:02:30] Tech Tantrums - My nightmare switch from StreamYard to Riverside and the cost of perfectionism[00:06:15] Brother’s Bold Move - What my brother’s leap to Lake Annecy taught me about vision and courage[00:10:00] Friendship Formula - The single-dad hack: taking a teen’s mate on holiday, and why it saved my sanity[00:12:45] Attracting High Value Love - Lessons from my relationship with Joe on energy, responsibility, and magnetism[00:16:20] Digital Detox Deep Dive - How 10-hour sleeps, poolside beers, and Spotify rewired my creativity[00:19:30] Intentional Holidays - Creating memories over mayhem and planning your next recharge with purpose🏆 REVIEW OF THE WEEKLove what you hear? Leave a review for a chance to win a free Power Ccall (£150 / $200 value).Like, share & subscribe so you never miss an episode.• Apple Podcasts: https://highvaluemanproject.com/apple• Spotify: https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotify• All platforms: https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcastReady To Create The High Value Man Life You Desire?Join BASECAMP (FREE): Get the FIRE Tracker, High Value Man Creed & Lifestyle Blueprinthttps://highvaluemanproject.com/groupBook a Power Call:1:1 strategy session to craft your next breakthroughhttps://highvaluemanproject.com/powercall Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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How to Build Wealth Without Losing Your Soul feat. Jason Graystone
What if everything you’ve been taught about money is keeping you broke – and stuck?In this episode, I’m joined by Jason Graystone – investor, speaker, and author of the upcoming book Always Free – to talk about mental freedom, leveraged income, and why real wealth has nothing to do with hustle.Jason built his first business washing cars at 13 and hasn’t traded time for money since. Today, he helps people buy back their lives by aligning income, identity, and impact. This episode isn’t about crypto or hustle hacks – it’s about reclaiming ownership of your time and creating a life that actually excites you.You’ll also hear Jonnie talk about the High Value Man 8-Week Accelerator, and how to join the upcoming Lodge Weekender in Aviemore.🔑 Featured Topics(08:30) Midlife crisis, burnout, and misaligned goals(13:00) Time audits, energy leaks, and doing inspired work(18:20) The dip before the breakthrough(23:45) Millionaire vs paperboy – who’s actually wealthier?(27:00) The Disneyland moment + being a kid again(36:00) Sharing what you love (and getting paid for it)(42:00) Why most people lose money in Bitcoin(48:00) The call to action – define your enough🧠 Guest LinksJason Graystonehttps://www.alwaysfree.comAlways Free Book – https://amzn.to/4m5izQUTEDx Talk: Freedom From Anything https://youtu.be/XDNSSw0mXOo?si=jzqrFZKpnvm1lKHQViral YouTube Video – https://youtu.be/_YVQN6_nkfs?si=y9HUreqHEvm2iNCPLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jasongraystone/REVIEW OF THE WEEKLeave a review and you could win a FREE Power Call worth £150 / $200. I read one out every week on the show.How to leave a review:🟢 Apple Podcasts – Open the mobile app, search The Jonnie Jensen Show, scroll down, and tap “Write a Review.”🔵 Spotify – Open the app, go to the show page, and tap the ★ rating at the top.Your words help more men discover this work.SUBSCRIBE, SHARE & REVIEW🎧 Apple – highvaluemanproject.com/apple🎧 Spotify – highvaluemanproject.com/spotify🎧 All Platforms – highvaluemanproject.com/podcast💥 READY TO LEVEL UP AS THE MAN YOU WANT TO BE?Join the Free Basecamp Brotherhoodhighvaluemanproject.com/groupApply for the 8-Week Acceleratorhighvaluemanproject.com/acceleratorBook a Power Call – 1:1 Strategy Sessionhighvaluemanproject.com/powercall Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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How Firewalking Can Unlock a Man’s Happiness and Success feat. Barry Collins
What if walking barefoot across fire could change the way you live?In this episode, I’m joined by Barry Collins - Master Firewalk Instructor and founder of KickAsh Firewalks - to talk about fear, mindset, and what it really takes to become the man you know you’re capable of being.Barry has led thousands across the coals, trained with the same firewalking master who mentored Tony Robbins, and believes that firewalking is not about the fire - it’s about how you show up to life.We talk about:Why men avoid challenge - and why it’s exactly what they needWhat really happens during a firewalk (hint: it’s not a stunt)How fear is just a story- and how to break its holdThe power of presence, ceremony, and doing hard thingsAnd why too many men are stuck in survival when they should be fully aliveYou’ll also hear about the High Value Man Lodge Weekender in Aviemore and how to join the 8-Week Accelerator to qualify.🔑 Featured Topics(03:00) Why most men reject firewalking - and why they need it(07:45) What happens after you walk across fire(10:15) Ancient origins and modern breakthroughs(13:00) Barry’s journey from sales to firewalking(17:40) Party trick vs. transformation(23:30) The Matrix moment: becoming the observer(27:00) What board breaks and skydives teach us(45:00) Why men get stuck - and how to break free(51:00) Tolly Burkan’s story and dying to live(53:00) Why most personal development is just rehashed🧠 Guest Links & Stuff We MentionedBarry Collinskickashfirewalks.co.ukFace Everything and Roar - https://amzn.to/46jtiCITikTok | Facebook | Instagram → @kickashfirewalksDying to Live by Tolly Burkan - https://amzn.to/4kHWYg7🏆 REVIEW OF THE WEEKLeave a review and you could win a FREE Power Call worth £150 / $200. I read one out every week on the show.How to leave a review:🟢 Apple Podcasts – Open the mobile app, search The Jonnie Jensen Show, scroll down, and tap “Write a Review.”🔵 Spotify – Open the mobile app, go to the show page, and tap the ★ rating at the top.Your words help more men discover this work.🎧 SUBSCRIBE, SHARE & REVIEW🎧 Apple Podcasts → https://highvaluemanproject.com/apple🎧 Spotify → https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotify🎧 All Platforms → https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcast💥 READY TO STEP FORWARD?🔥 Join the Free Basecamp Brotherhood→ https://highvaluemanproject.com/group⚔️ Apply for the 8-Week Accelerator→ https://highvaluemanproject.com/accelerator📞 Book a Power Call – 1:1 Leadership Strategy Session→ https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercall Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Stop Going It Alone - Lone Wolf Will Take You Down
You think being a one-man army is a strength.That if you just grind a bit harder, get a bit better, be a bit faster.You’ll finally catch up. Finally get the respect, results, and rest you deserve.But it’s bollocks.That mindset is draining you. It’s slowing you down.Instead of being a strength it is likely holding you back and creating pressure across your life.This episode is for you if you’re secretly overwhelmed, burning out, and still telling yourself it’s fine.It's not.WHY THIS IS IMPORTANTThe Lone Wolf myth is seductive.You wear every hat. You power through.And everyone around you thinks you’ve got it handled.But the truth?Trying to do it all yourself is Low Value living.This week, one of the men inside High Value Man shared how results had improved in the last 6 months.He’s a brilliant project manager—but as the business owner, that role was burning him out.Six months ago he finally recruited a senior project manager who could take over that role.Sounds obvious that it would work but so many of us don't do it.This is what Dan Sullivan calls the trap of “-er” thinking: "If I can just be better, faster, stronger" … all solo.You think you’re saving time, money or ensuring quality — but you’re actually just draining your power.The antidote?Who, not how.Build the team. Focus where you create the biggest results.That’s High Value. That’s leadership.THE 5 TOOLS TO BREAK THE LONE WOLF MINDSETWho Not How→ Stop asking “How do I fix this?”→ Start asking “Who can help me move faster?”What’s The Worst That Could Happen?→ Most fears dissolve when you stop catastrophising and write it down.Eisenhower Matrix→ Use it to categorise what’s Urgent vs Important - and bin the rest.The Superpower Matrix (Clarity Tool inside 3XC)→ When you know yourself, delegation becomes obvious and action becomes automatic.Set Your Path – 3XC Clarity Principle→ When you Set Your Path, you stop reacting and start leading.🏆 REVIEW OF THE WEEKLeave a review and you could win a FREE Power Call worth £150 / $200. I read one out every week.Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify via the mobile phone app.Subscribe, Share & Review🎧 Apple → https://highvaluemanproject.com/apple🎧 Spotify → https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotify🎧 All Platforms → https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcastReady To Create The High Value Man Life You Desire?Get the Free Tools + Brotherhood in BASECAMPhttps://highvaluemanproject.com/group📞 Book a Power Call – 1:1 Leadership Strategy Sessionhttps://highvaluemanproject.com/powercall Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Ray Guns, Glastonbury and Elvis Lives In Hull - It's The Wrap Up
The WRAP UP is back and of course it's total Dad energy.It’s the monthly catch-up you didn’t know you needed—booze, banter, bollocks, and the big questions like: Is Elvis still alive? Why is beer £8.30 a pint? And what does future-you believe that present-you has forgotten?Glen and I dive into everything from conspiracy theories and parenting wins to job losses and comeback plans. We also cover bar etiquette, Glastonbury bucket lists, and the real reason my car decided to do an Italian Job impersonation on a quiet Monday night.This one’s for you if you’re juggling fatherhood, f*ck-ups, and future plans with a pint in one hand and resilience in the other.Let’s go.🔥 WHY THIS IS IMPORTANTBecause life doesn’t come with instructions—just chaos, curveballs and the occasional teenage tequila disaster.When you're a dad, especially a single one, the world doesn't slow down for your problems. But inside that madness is also where we find our leadership, our grit, and often, our sense of humour.This episode reminds you that:Rock bottom isn’t the end—it’s often the launchpad.Every man needs a “wrap-up” space to process, laugh, and plan what’s next.Talking about your sh*t is the difference between staying stuck and stepping forward.🎙️ JUMP TO THE POINT[00:01:00] – Beer prices, bar tactics, and green room conspiracies[00:10:00] – Running with your teenage son—and watching him sprint into manhood[00:18:00] – That first-time-getting-smashed moment... in your living room[00:26:00] – Glen gets made redundant and shares his “Future Me” mindset[00:35:00] – The birth of “42 Things To Do” and building a side hustle with soul[00:48:00] – Benson Boone, Brixton Academy, and my car’s suicide mission[00:56:00] – The bleak reality of some men’s spaces—and why connection matters🏆 REVIEW OF THE WEEK“Tucker and Crispy Bacon and Toby Lerone…” That’s all we’ve got for now!But seriously, I need more of your reviews. They fuel the show, they help other men find this space, and they could win you a £150 Power Call with me.Leave a review on Apple or Spotify. It will massively help us reach more men and impact the World.🎧 LIKE, SHARE & SUBSCRIBENever miss an episode:Apple Podcasts: https://highvaluemanproject.com/appleSpotify: https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotifyAll Platforms: https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcast🎯 READY TO STEP UP AS THE MAN AND DAD YOU WANT TO BE?Join BASECAMP – Get free tools like the FIRE Tracker, Lifestyle Blueprint & High Value Man Creed.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/groupBook a POWER CALL – Get 1:1 clarity on where to lead your life next.👉 https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercall Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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What Is Love? 7 Reasons Men Get Love Wrong
Love is a beautiful thing. It is also something that too man men get very wrong.We all need to understand what the hell it actually is.Because getting love wrong has cost me—and countless other men—far more than heartbreak.It’s cost us identity. Confidence. Power.In this episode, I break down the 7 most common ways men misunderstand and misuse love—and how to start getting it right. Not perfectly. But powerfully.If you’ve ever stayed too long in a relationship, been scared to say “I love you,” or fallen apart when it ended… this episode is for you.Let’s break it down, man to man.🔥 Why This Is Important:Most of us were never taught how to love—only how to chase it, fear it, or depend on it.We grew up watching Disney films, sitcoms, and soap operas that conditioned us to think love was the finish line. That once you found “The One,” everything would just fall into place.But it doesn’t.That’s why I stayed too long in the wrong relationships.Why I collapsed when they ended.Why I made love mean something it was never supposed to.And I see it every week inside the High Value Man Project—men stuck, confused, or scared of love… when love should be the thing that lifts us, not crushes us.This episode will challenge your old beliefs and invite you to redefine love—not as something you need to survive, but as something powerful to share once you’re already whole.🎙️ Jump to the Point:[00:03:45] – Why love hurts so many men (and how it shows up in coaching)[00:07:55] – Love is a desire, not a need—and why that gives you your power back[00:13:30] – Stop overthinking love: how to say what you feel without fear[00:18:50] – Cherish love, don’t fear losing it (and how my mum’s death shaped mine)[00:25:30] – Love is not transactional—ditch the scoreboard, start leading[00:31:00] – There’s no such thing as “The One”—just the next chapter[00:38:10] – Love shouldn’t be hard work—how to know when it’s time to let go[00:44:00] – Being whole attracts the right love—why your energy is everything🏆 Review of the Week:Please leave a review—it helps more men find the podcast and join this movement.And yep, each week one reviewer wins a High Value Man Power Call (worth £150 / $200)"Insight, compassion and some laughs. Love this podcast Jonnie 👍" - Matt TuckerLeave yours now at the Spotify or Apple link below🎧 Like, Share & Subscribe so more men can lead with love👉 Apple Podcasts: https://highvaluemanproject.com/apple👉 Spotify: https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotify👉 All Platforms: https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcastStart Your High Value Man Journey (Free Tools Inside BASECAMP)Grab the FIRE Tracker, the High Value Man Creed, and the Lifestyle Blueprint:https://highvaluemanproject.com/group📞 Book a POWER CALLLet’s talk 1:1 and map out your next move using the High Value Man system.No pressure. Just power.https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercall Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Welcome to The Jonnie Jensen Show – for business owning and career minded dads who want success at home so they can feel like the man and dad they want to be.Modern dads often put themselves last, thinking being enough for everyone else will make them happy. It won’t.When you get strong first – mentally, physically and emotionally – everything else improves.Jonnie is a divorced business owning dad and founder of the High Value Man Project.Real stories. Honest conversations. No alpha hustle. Just clarity, courage and commitment.Start here: https://highvaluemanproject.com/group
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