You’re Allowed to Enjoy That

from Clinically Awkward · host Alyssa Zimmerman

As an offshoot of my ongoing Heated Rivalry hyperfixation, I, Alyssa Zimmerman, LCSW, am joined by sexologist Dr. Samia Khan for a candid conversation about queer and neurodivergent sexuality. We talk about the stigma around different types of pleasure, why the prostate has a PR problem, and how shame tends to ruin perfectly good curiosity. We also get into consent, communication, aftercare, kink, ethical non monogamy, and why different generations are having very different conversations about sex. Along the way, Dr. Khan shares how sex became both her professional field and a full blown special interest, and we retire a few myths that have been confidently incorrect for decades. 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 03:11 Queer and Neurodivergent Sex 07:23 Anal Sex Myths and Realities 17:58 Autism and Sexuality 24:41 The Emotional Responsibilites of Sex 28:37 Consent, Substance Use, and Neurodivergence 31:04 Navigating Vulnerability and Attachment Trauma 37:31 Sex Education and Queer Relationships 45:28 Ethical Non-Monogamy and Kink 50:23 Concluding Thoughts and Resources

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