you're not behind: how to let go of a timeline you never chose

click here to tell us how this landed for you ❤️ married by 25, house by 30, and have life figured out by now. who wrote that timeline?..i can promise it wasn't you. somewhere along the way we were handed an imaginary schedule for when things were supposed to happen- and we've been quietly punishing ourselves ever since for falling behind in a race we never signed up for.this episode is the foundation underneath our august theme of releasing control because most of the forcing we do is not about the goal, it's about the deadline attached to it.we get into where these timelines actually come from, how they steal the joy out of good things that arrive "late," and my own story- what my life would look like right now if i'd stayed on the schedule i set at 25.next week: the reset for when life isn't going according to plan.📞 the self-love hotline is live- send in what you need advice on!connect with julia on instagram @beautybyjulia + tik tok @juliasalviaunlock more archive content on instagram @theselflovearchive + tik tok @theselflovearchivessign up for the self-love archives newsletter: www.theselflovearchives.com